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[Ammex]

It's not his ugliness that's making him creepy. It's the fact he doesn't back off after no interest is showed. I always back off if I notice a guy isn't interested in me. And no I don't read into things cos I know when a guy doesn't find me attractive as well, there's a big difference.


Maybe not, but I don't understand why you guys would say I'm making this up? Obviously I'm not, if even my friend told me he likes me etc. and she keeps bringing it up.

Making it up = conscious effort to deceive.

We're just saying you're delusional.

[missladyj]

Maybe not, but I don't understand why you guys would say I'm making this up? Obviously I'm not, if even my friend told me he likes me etc. and she keeps bringing it up.

You guys? I don't believe I said you're making it up. I do, however, think that you're overreacting and you seem a bit stuck up. Not trying to insult you or hurt your feelings or anything like that srs...

[justanothagirl]

Making it up = conscious effort to deceive.

We're just saying you're delusional.

So is my friend delusional then too? Ok. Why would I be delusional about something that annoys me and someone I want nothing to do with? Tbh you guys overly scepticism is really starting to make me sick. You guys think I would actually imagine someone liking me? You must think really low of me then.

[moore93]

So is my friend delusional then too? Ok. Why would I be delusional about something that annoys me and someone I want nothing to do with? Tbh you guys overly scepticism is really starting to make me sick. You guys think I would actually imagine someone liking me? You must think really low of me then.

You just say the same thing over and over again and need to get over it, fuuuuuucckkkk...

I don't think low of you, I just think you say some REALLY retarded shyt.

[Ammex]

So is my friend delusional then too? Ok. Why would I be delusional about something that annoys me and someone I want nothing to do with? Tbh you guys overly scepticism is really starting to make me sick. You guys think I would actually imagine someone liking me? You must think really low of me then.

Okay. So now that this is established, lets move on.

[justanothagirl]

You guys? I don't believe I said you're making it up. I do however think that you're overreacting and you seem a bit stuck up. Not trying to insult you or hurt your feelings or anything like that srs...

Well I also attract these type of guys, that don't leave you alone, because I'm softspoken. These type of guys wouldn't go after someone like you cos they are intimidated by you and most outgoing girls which is probably why you don't understand how annoying this is.

[matman1813]

So is my friend delusional then too? Ok. Why would I be delusional about something that annoys me and someone I want nothing to do with? Tbh you guys overly scepticism is really starting to make me sick. You guys think I would actually imagine someone liking me? You must think really low of me then.

When it seems to be different people stalking you on a daily basis, yes you are completely over reacting to small things.

[justanothagirl]

When it seems to be different people stalking you on a daily basis, yes you are completely over reacting to small things.

Well it's always the same people I'm talking about so that's not so weird. (one older man, and this guy, sometimes other random older men as well but every girl has that)

Definitely not on a daily basis either. More of a twice a weekly basis which is totally realistic, yes twice a week is also a lot, but I also see them about twice a week so that matches up.

[Ammex]

Phone is going away. I'll check back in an hour. My head hurts.

[matman1813]

every girl has that

I think this is the major point here. Everyone just put's up with it, you come here and massively overreact.

[justanothagirl]

I think this is the major point here. Everyone just put's up with it, you come here and massively overreact.

Well I just wrote out 1 large rant that I had to withhold the entire day so I wouldn't get responses like this, and you guys all overreacted to my rant imo.

Could have just responded with "That sucks, dude should know when to quit" I don't understand why the responses were so negative? But whatever.

[matman1813]

Well I just wrote out 1 large rant that I had to withhold the entire day so I wouldn't get responses like this, and you guys all overreacted to my rant imo.

Could have just responded with "That sucks, dude should know when to quit" I don't understand why the responses were so negative? But whatever.

You do it every day and it's always the SOS. You rarely post anything other than this kind of thing, but it is always about you, every, single, post.

But whatever, I've said what I wanted to say.

[missladyj]

Well I also attract these type of guys, that don't leave you alone, because I'm softspoken. These type of guys wouldn't go after someone like you cos they are intimidated by you and most outgoing girls which is probably why you don't understand how annoying this is.

So now you know what type of guys go after me lol. You've seen a lot of my posts, but keep in mind that you don't know me in real life. I'm a very shy person and am 'softspoken' until I get to know someone well enough to be comfortable around them. The kind of guys you're talking about are usually the ones who hit on me. I had low self esteem rather than thinking highly of myself like you do, so I found it to be flattering most of the time (unless they get forceful). I have been guilty of sucking it up, not saying anything, trying to be nice and hoping that it would stop...but you start to realize after a while that only encourages the very thing you can't stand. Eventually you have to be a grown up and start speaking your mind if you want people to respect you.

[justanothagirl]

You do it every day and it's always the SOS. You rarely post anything other than this kind of thing, but it is always about you, every, single, post.

But whatever, I've said what I wanted to say.

That's not true, I post about other stuff as well, and not everyday, just when something happens/happened.

[justanothagirl]

So now you know what type of guys go after me lol. You've seen a lot of my posts, but keep in mind that you don't know me in real life. I'm a very shy person and am 'softspoken' until I get to know someone well enough to be comfortable around them. The kind of guys you're talking about are usually the ones who hit one me. I had low self esteem rather than thinking highly of myself like you do, so I found it to be flattering most of the time (unless they get forceful). I have been guilty of sucking it up, not saying anything, trying to be nice and hoping that it would stop...but you start to realize after a while that only encourages the very think you can't stand. Eventually you have to be a grown up and start speaking your mind if you want people to respect you.

I see, but you probably responded positively to it since you found it flattering. I respond coldly because I don't want that kind of attention and he keeeeps it up. That's the biggest difference.

If I speak my mind then the exact same thing that happened in this thread will happen irl, so no, I'm just going to be cold and hope for it to stop.

[missladyj]

Well I just wrote out 1 large rant that I had to withhold the entire day so I wouldn't get responses like this, and you guys all overreacted to my rant imo.

Could have just responded with "That sucks, dude should know when to quit" I don't understand why the responses were so negative? But whatever.

So it's just everyone else and not you at all...should really begin to reconsider your position once you accuse everyone else of being irrational and you the only one that makes sense.

[justanothagirl]

So it's just everyone else and not you at all...should really begin to reconsider your position once you accuse everyone else of being irrational and you the only one that makes sense.

Well that's why I didn't bring this stuff up IRL again. And you guys are telling me to just be truthful. Nty.

[missladyj]

I see, but you probably responded positively to it since you found it flattering. I respond coldly because I don't want that kind of attention and he keeeeps it up. That's the biggest difference.

If I speak my mind then the exact same thing that happened in this thread will happen irl, so no, I'm just going to be cold and hope for it to stop.

Wrong again...I do not respond 'positively'. I find it flattering because I understand how it is to have a crush on someone and it's always surprising when someone chooses me as a crush, but I don't necessarily like it because excess attention makes me uncomfortable. Trust me, I go out of my way to avoid interaction lol. But if they keep pressing me, I tell them how I feel..and that's usually that.

[moore93]

[justanothagirl]

Wrong again...I do not respond 'positively'. I find it flattering because I understand how it is to have a crush on someone and it's always surprising when someone chooses me as a crush, but I didn't necessarily like it because excess attention makes me uncomfortable. Trust me, I go out of my way to avoid interaction lol. But if they keep pressing me, I tell them how I feel..and that's usually that.

True, I only have 3 weeks left so I'm just going to ride it out. Hopefully my next course will be better. I did meet some really cool people here though as well that I'm really happy about, so that was really nice.

[matman1813]

justanotha girl typing a response.



me replying

[moore93]

justanotha girl typing a response.



me replying

Sorry, but I just lol'd so fuarking hard you can't even imagine.

[Serpentarius]

[missladyj]

[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/M4HHd.jpg[IMG]

wow....totally jelly (srs)


How long did it take you to build that collection?

[Serpentarius]

wow....totally jelly (srs)


How long did it take you to build that collection?

had most of them right off the bat, took awhile to find eggnog, black cherry amarena, and simply strawberry, ive eaten probably around 50 pints of talenti over the last 5 months however. Also had tons of ben and jerrys, ciao bella, archer farms stuff, and blue bunny ice cream as my other buys.

[SkinCareAddict]

Hmmm I haven't been here in months but everything is the same: still fighting and still Talenti.

Nice to have some consistency in my life.

[missladyj]

had most of them right off the bat, took awhile to find eggnog, black cherry amarena, and simply strawberry, ive eaten probably around 50 pints of talenti over the last 5 months however. Also had tons of ben and jerrys, ciao bella, archer farms stuff, and blue bunny ice cream as my other buys.

Must be nice

Hmmm I haven't been here in months but everything is the same: still fighting and still Talenti.

Nice to have some consistency in my life.

lol...

[justanothagirl]

Hmmm I haven't been here in months but everything is the same: still fighting and still Talenti.

Nice to have some consistency in my life.

Hey how are you? Welcome back.

[Serpentarius]

Must be nice

The secret is thermogenics. My body heats up the ice cream burning THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS of calories per pint of talenti.

The sorbetto stuff they have is boring, and doesnt warrant the normal price tag the other stuff (gelato) costs.

[SkinCareAddict]

Hey how are you? Welcome back.

My life is upside down: lost my job, have to move in 6 months, going back to school to start a new career path... it's not easy for someone who does not like change. I'm trying to tolerate it as best I can and get back in the saddle diet and exercise wise.

How have you been?