Don't really understand it. They buy them flowers and chocolates (literally the worst gift idea possible you could give a female, the idea has been overused for hundreds of years, strong creativity if you can't think of anything else to get) every couple of weeks and send them sweet text messages every morning and always compliment them and try to say nice things to make them happy. Do they think this will make their girl want to stay with them? Are they trying to compensate for something?
I don't think my relationship could be considered anything but perfect: have sex 1-2 times a day, common interests and goals, always laughing and happy with each other, no arguments, no bitching, no complaints. She's clingy as phuck and always is talking about how good we are together. And I have not bought her a box of chocolates or even one bouquet of flowers, never send her beta text messages, and don't compliment and tell her I love her every 5 minutes.
11-06-2012, 04:09 PM #1
Why do so many guys spoil their girlfriends?
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If she's not your girl, its ****ing chodey behaviour.
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I will just randomly buy my wife things for no reason. Shes always buying me stuff out of nowhere (video games, clothes, expensive craft beers, etc.) so I actually want to get her things, not just because I feel like I have to.
Bought her flowers once. She liked them, but we both agree that flowers are a pretty pointless purchase. For birthdays and christmas presents we will take the money we would have spent on gifts for each other and put it into a vacation fund so we can go somewhere awesome (already been to Jamaica and Cancun . . . going to Turks and Caicos or St. Kitts next)."For monkeys to speak of truth is hubris of the highest degree. Where is it writ large that talking-monkeys should be able to model the cosmos? If a sea urchin or a raccoon were to propose to you that it had a viable truth about the universe, the absurdity of that assertion would be self-evident, but in our case we make an exception."
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11-06-2012, 04:26 PM #14
I like spoiling my girlfriend, because she is my girlfriend, and she is awesome. I would not waste my time and money on randoms. I don't need to do it to "impress" them, or make them stay with me. I do it because it is a perk, and because she is special to me.My guide to picking up chicks: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=146046763
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Op obviously doesnt have a gf.
It's not spoiling, it's taking care of.
They do the same back if they care for you.
Gf always cooks for me despite not living with me. Buys me shoes, jackets, car parts, etc.
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11-06-2012, 04:44 PM #18
in on doormat thread.
never spoiling a woman, girlfriend, wife, etc ever.
bad idea, they get used to it, then when you're tired or cant afford your westernized buying habits then they look elsewhere for that show of "affection"
thats why i dig females that dont care to be spoiled and can buy and do things for themselves. though are appreciative when you do surprise her on a whim.
all youre doing is making her dependent on you, and thats just sad.
dont force any spoiling nature/nuturing because youre desperate for vag
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11-06-2012, 04:46 PM #20
This situation is a bit different and understandable. Acceptable
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