From my last thread you'd know that I'd really really like to get it on with guy B from my work place :P but I have to place him aside since nothing much has happened. He doesn't come out to lunch when we're both free, probably because his best friends not here.
There is another guy that I'd met briefly in the past and didn't think much of because I thought he is the typical guy I usually come across quite often, good looking and arrogant i.e. nothing special/new :P
However something weird just clicked recently....he works somewhere upstairs and I think his fax machine wasn't working and he sent it to where I am. I saw the papers earlier and put them away. I didn't know who they were for as I don't know his name and still don't. So when he came to collect them there were two women in front of me talking about something and I was getting ready to go out to eat. When I stepped forward I noticed that he was already looking at me a little startled like as if he'd only just noticed me.
He asked for his faxed papers, I asked if they were his and gave it to him.
Since then he's always had some kind of excuse to walk past me and send fax again. He is the only one who has his fax sent here and does it more often now and always asks me which I find quite funny. Anyway whenever he comes down he just looks directly towards me, and stares intensely in to my eyes even when he's talking to me and this really intimidates me and kind of makes me blush which is annoying. And I don't even know why it happens. It's never happened with other guys before.
He is good looking but not fully my type..as i'm in to older and slightly bigger guys, plus I don't even find him sexually attractive at all. I can't even imagine kissing or having sex with him. I find guy B sexually attractive. So I don't understand what is going on..it's actually just the way he looks at me. He just does not shift his gaze. :S
So yeah, why am I intimidated by him looking at me when I don't even find him really attractive?
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10-05-2012, 05:02 PM #1
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I've never felt this intimidated by a guy since I was 15/16....
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1. Woman logic at work yet again.
2. He's being dominant and you're reacting submissively, even if you're not doing it consciously.
3. The fact that you don't find him attractive has little to nothing to do with it, your view of this could change in an instant. srs.I slow down so I can gather the power,
'cus you can't smell the roses at 90 miles per hour
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10-05-2012, 05:31 PM #19
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1. I'm sure this happens to guys too.
2. But why am i acting submissively? It's really annoying. It's so weird..like I would be doing something and he suddenly appears out of nowhere and looks directly in to my eyes... :S I'm sure he's doing this on purpose.
3. I have that feeling too...but I'm not sure if i'd get on with him/ his personality.
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10-05-2012, 07:34 PM #27
You're intimidated because he is confident
gazing directly in your eyes is sign of confidence
if he worked on building rapport with you, he can make you change your mind and make you attracted to him. You are subconsciously responding to his signals, and he is providing good survival value, even though you think he is not your type based on his looks, but that's why women logic does not make sense, because all the real attraction is hard wired in their subconscious brain, not entirely in their consciousness.
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10-05-2012, 07:39 PM #28
I don't really get this thread. But I will say that once when I was about 19 I was working at Walgreens and my boss' son I think it was came to check something out. It was some goofy looking light skinned boy that wasn't even cute but when I tell you I started sweating and everything, I could literally feel the heat wafting up at me from under my collar. I felt so awkward. I was like "this is a gotdamn shame." That had never happened to me before to that extent, and definitely not with someone I wasn't attracted to.
But I know the feeling you mean when you just feel awkward around someone and you can't figure out why. It feels like you two know something that no one else does, even if you don't speak. I hate that feeling.You wear a rubber?--damn right
You are my lover?--all night
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ErN7fQd6WzA&list
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