Quick response on the phone.
Tax mate, congrats on the wet dream. You've been suffering mood swings because of withdrawal...now that you've had a wet dream things are going to get easier. That is, if you get past the chaser effect from your nocturnal emission.
Speaking of which, any negative feelings or temptation you get for the next 5 or so days will be a direct result of the aforementioned emission. I felt absolutely horrid after my first, for a week. All that sexual tension I had built up and become used to was gone in a few seconds, and I missed it so. Then there was the fact that it felt amazing, and my pleasure centres craved for more. I didn't like having those cravings, it was the first time I had felt any semblance of losing control over this.
Now I have become accustomed to wet dreams, it's my body doing me a favour and my brain rewarding me.
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02-26-2013, 12:05 AM #6931
- Join Date: Jun 2012
- Location: Malopolskie, Poland
- Age: 37
- Posts: 11,306
- Rep Power: 97635
Into- Mountaineering, running & Djent/Progressive music.
Anti- Lack of accountability. Censorship, fat acceptance, & current wave feminism. That's why I left the UK.
PRs: Highest mt. - 2962m (Zugspitze), Longest day hike - 70km.
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02-26-2013, 12:08 AM #6932
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02-26-2013, 01:20 AM #6933
Alright. I srs have a very bad addiction. I am having a really tough time giving up pornography. I've been an addict for about 10 years now and the longest I've gone without was around 60 days back when I had a gf. My gf made it a lot easier for me though. I put myself on the feb list in the beginning of the month only to fail a few days later. I have been fapping and watching porn just about daily ever since the relapse. I feel disgusting after every bust. Disgusted at myself to the point that it ruins my entire day but I always go back for more even after I tell myself I will never do that again. The things I'm watching keep getting worse and worse too. I'm afraid of what's next to come. I know it is stopping me from continuing on in life. It puts me in neutral and I don't get anything done. I can't let myself continue to do this but I really need help to overcome it.
I have decided to stop fapping and watching pornography from this moment on. I will start being a lot more productive with my time. I vow to learn a new language (Spanish) this year and to start college. Also to take my workouts more seriously and to live a healthy lifestyle in general. I want to feel and act less awkward infront of people and have that alpha mentality of not giving a crap what people think.
I am going to use this post as my motivation and this thread for my daily counseling.
"The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you do."
Please pray for me Christian brahs. Thanks.
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02-26-2013, 01:50 AM #6934
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02-26-2013, 02:19 AM #6935
Im in on day 11, and I haven't had a wet dream yet, but urges have been strong as phuck. Is this why Im having withdrawal symptoms? Pissy mood/annoyed with everyone etc..?
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02-26-2013, 02:28 AM #6936
damn keep getting relapsed..this is getting hard for me and i feel so uncontrolled of myself and hopeless.. back to day 1 :/
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02-26-2013, 02:37 AM #6937
Day 8. Feeling good
Iifym
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02-26-2013, 02:40 AM #6938
Day 2 people, I have never made it past 6 days, this time I will make it to 30.
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02-26-2013, 05:24 AM #6939
Day 58! Getting rock hard erections each morning, which makes it tough not to give in and rub one out! Even though I had a wet dream a couple of weeks or so ago. But, I'm fighting the urges as best I can. I was even tempted to look at some porn, but resisted as I remembered how it would make me feel afterwards, totally disgusted in myself. Other than that nothing much else to report. Feeling good, am more productive and am seeing results in the gym!
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02-26-2013, 05:41 AM #6940
- Join Date: Jul 2012
- Location: Wisconsin, United States
- Age: 29
- Posts: 272
- Rep Power: 292
DAY 60 EVERYBODY! Excited as fuk but I'm having another mood swing unfortunately.. feeling down even though I should be extremely happy for making it 2 months (will be 2 months after tonight.)
Got a date with a girl this Friday and she's dtf, strong 7/10 for me, probably less for the misc. I'll more than likely end up busting in like 10 seconds but idgaf, I'll be ready for round 2 and 3 if necessary. Hopefully this shtty feeling I have right now passes as the day goes on.
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02-26-2013, 06:03 AM #6941
Got a PR today.. been only 24 days but I think I passed the hardest part now. Hopefully i'll make it to a year. So much respect for y'all.
Wish me goodluck brahs i'll need it.
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02-26-2013, 07:18 AM #6942
February is almost over!!!!! I don't even count the days as it helps me forget about no fap. I must say it is more easy to concentrate on school studies/homework ever since I started no fap. Also, the contact with females is easy af now
*~*Montreal Misc Crew*~*
*No Fap February: In Progress*
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02-26-2013, 07:51 AM #6943
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02-26-2013, 08:04 AM #6944
Day 17.
Day 14 quitting cigs
Day 40 no sweets or pastries (except one piece of Birthday cake)
No adding salt (unsure how long)
No alcohol Day 45
And it has echoed in my mind "Set your mind on the higher places". And I am finely gleaning insight from this denial. Slowly the clouds are dispersing. If I would but follow the light breaking through.
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02-26-2013, 08:22 AM #6945
Day 26.
Had a wet dream yesterday where i basically plowed this chick raw. feltgreatman.jpg and i got a few good solid squirts of brotein inside her. Needless to say i was disappointed when i woke up and found my boxers absolutely soaked in jizz and i desperately wanted to fap but i quickly got out of bed and into the shower.
Last edited by sv722; 02-26-2013 at 08:28 AM.
ASS > TITS
Always makes 5* threads crew
You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours. Gnomesaiyan?
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
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02-26-2013, 08:30 AM #6946
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02-26-2013, 08:33 AM #6947''The fight is won or lost far away from the witnesses, behind the lines, in the gym, and out there on the road; long before I dance under those lights.'' - Muhammad Ali
“Cus was a strong believer that in your mind you had to be the entity you wanted to be. If you wanted to be heavyweight champion of the world, you had to start living the life of a heavyweight champion…- iron mike
"'No' doesn't mean no, 'no' means work on the neck, the nipples, try back in five minutes" - a wise man
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02-26-2013, 08:36 AM #6948
Hi guys
Day 6 here
I noticed the last time I fapped after a 20 day streak my highest second highest being 8 that it didn't feel as good when i fapped as before for some reason.now I also noticed that its almost impossible to get a boner I mean before I could get one in 10 seconds but now nothing really happens.why is this?kinda worrying.i do get one in the morning and that kinda it.
Help
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02-26-2013, 08:52 AM #6949
- Join Date: Jun 2012
- Location: Malopolskie, Poland
- Age: 37
- Posts: 11,306
- Rep Power: 97635
Into- Mountaineering, running & Djent/Progressive music.
Anti- Lack of accountability. Censorship, fat acceptance, & current wave feminism. That's why I left the UK.
PRs: Highest mt. - 2962m (Zugspitze), Longest day hike - 70km.
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02-26-2013, 09:26 AM #6950
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02-26-2013, 09:30 AM #6951
STRICT no PMOE for 16 days or so...
still having dreams about porn
always morning wood, more often than not its there all night long...
i can be one moody ****...one minute sociable and happy the next anxious and pissed off...get emotional very easy
skin still not good tho my face has cleared up completely...i'm going more strict with my diet to take care of the rest of my acne cuz i just can't deal with it anymore...meat, fish, chicken freh fruit and veggies and that's it
training is going well but without the ******** i'm not as lean, hopefully my diet will bring me back down to where i was around 7%, i'm sure the chips and honey and peanut butter wasn't helping either...
going back on the warrior diet as well, fast for 21 hrs and eat for 3, worked well for me before
i have all the pieces and all the knwoledge now its just a matter of discipline and not giving a ****
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02-26-2013, 09:46 AM #6952
Decided to try this after visting yourbrainonporn.
Already installed k9.
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02-26-2013, 11:02 AM #6953
I'm reading David Deida's 'The Way Of The Superior Man' and just had to share this with you guys
Ejaculation Should be Converted or Consciously Chosen
There are many physical and spiritual reasons why ejaculation should
be converted into non-ejaculatory whole body, brain, and heart orgasms.
But there are also relational reasons. When a man has no control over
his ejaculation, he cannot meet his woman sexually or emotionally. She
knows she can deplete him, weaken him, empty him of life force. She
has won. When a man ejaculates easily, he creates ongoing distrust in
his woman. At a subtle level, she feels he cannot be trusted. She, and
the world, can deplete and depolarize him easily. This subtle distrust
will pervade the relationship. She will not only doubt him, but actually
act to undermine his actions in the world. By undermining him she
demonstrates and tests his weakness, but she also hopes that through
such tests he can learn to remain full.
You won't be willing to bypass ejaculation until you have experienced the much greater pleasures which lie beyond it.
In the meantime, notice how you feel in the minutes and days following ejaculation.
If you have accumulated a lot of tension in your daily life, ejaculation will afford you with temporary release and relaxation.
But as you live your life with more and more true purpose, you won't accumulate so much tension during the day.
Then, you will discover that ejaculation, for the most part, actually depletes and weakens you.
It feels great for a few moments, but the price you pay for the
genital sneeze of ejaculation is a much higher level of mediocrity
in your daily life. You will find that you just don’t have the extra
gusto necessary to live your life with utter impeccability. Excess
ejaculations pave the road to living a good life, but not a great
life.
n a subtle way, excess ejaculations will diminish your courage
to take risks, professionally and spiritually. You will settle for
doing enough to get by, to be comfortable, but you will find that
you would rather watch TV than write your novel, meditate, or
make that important phone call. You will have enough motivation to
live a decent life, but ejaculations drain you of the “cutting through”
energy that is necessary to pierce your own wall of
lethargy and slice through the obstructions that arise in theworld.
Your gift will remain largely ungiven.
If you are like most men, after an ejaculation or two you don't really want to penetrate or ravish her any more.
You are content to relax in the empitness of released tension.
You don't feel much desire to enter your woman, bodily or emotionally, as you did just before you ejaculated.
Your woman feels your lack of desire. And she also intuits, perhaps subconsciously, that your lack of desire also paplies toward the world.
If she can drain you, so can the world.
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02-26-2013, 11:14 AM #6954
good quote, applies a lot to the relationship i had with a girl i was dating not too long ago.
she was quite put off by the fact that i would cum so quickly, despite being able to go again in 5 or 10 minutes and do it 4 or 5 times a night
i find this really varies from girl to girl, some are really upset by it others don't care as long as you can get them off
i really don't have sex on a regular basis so that's probably why i can't last very long the first time
even though she had no problem reaching orgasm she was still "mad" that we couldn't cum exactly at the same time
also if a girl says something or if she ges upset it gives me performance anxiety and that neve leads anywhere good
women should be more understanding... if i haven't had sex in 4 months and i cum in less than a minute take it as a compliment and wait a few minutes and we'll go again, don't get mad that my body did what it was supposed to do
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02-26-2013, 11:16 AM #6955
THE URGE is killing me right now. Gonna shut my laptop off and go read or something.
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02-26-2013, 11:43 AM #6956
Damn strong urges today... Day 27..
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02-26-2013, 11:43 AM #6957
Day 5. It almost got me today.. **** that was close.
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02-26-2013, 12:32 PM #6958
This is week 2 for me. Honestly, was edging the first week. Cut it out now for about 3 days after realizing it just makes no fap harder and don't recover fully because still getting the dopamine from it.
So day 4
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02-26-2013, 02:13 PM #6959
day 58.
almost day 60
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02-26-2013, 02:13 PM #6960
Thought this may help brahs
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