Official No fap Thread V4. Let get this shiz started. v3 is gone.

[Yashkovich]

Day 62, tomorrow is 9 weeks
Looks like I'm going clubbing sober tonight, this could be interesting

[Ittoryu]

Congrats to

Ittoryu 5 weeks

Thanks bro! Been hanging there haha. Got some urges earlier but held on to the bigger picture. Still on the flat-line, was hoping it would end after 4 weeks like it does for most people, but I guess it might take a little longer.

[hmichaelt]

The only reason no fap is a challenge for men is that they spend too much time on the computer

If you limit your computer access no fap is so incredibly easy (I went on vacation for 10 days, and did not have access to a computer I didn't even think about fapping during that time)

Day 4

truth

[jreach]

Thanks bro! Been hanging there haha. Got some urges earlier but held on to the bigger picture. Still on the flat-line, was hoping it would end after 4 weeks like it does for most people, but I guess it might take a little longer.

Sounds like you have the mentality to succeed. Don't worry about the flatline; I'm on day 69 and really only started coming out of the flatline this week. You're almost there.

[blinkers88]

Any of you guys never actually flatline? I'm on like day 35ish and still get boners on the daily

[swagboyz]

Hey, I'm on day 5 feeling some positive effects from No Fap but dafuq cant get a solid night sleep anymore.

My routine was to have have a fap around 11pm and dropped dead asleep everyday, now I'm tossing around getting boners at night and erotic dreams constantly on the edge. When will this **** stop I wanna do No Fap but the tiredness from losing sleep is ****ed up.

[Stopdroproll]

So awesome that you lost count.

Maybe it's because I'm busy with school and ****, but I feel like it was only yesterday that I ticked off a node on the chain and then I look at my chain and realize I actually haven't ticked off any in three days. Time flying.

[swks26]

Day 58

9/02/13

[Bigred0289]

Two weeks today. I'd have to say week two was easier than week one. I know what to expect now. Also I know will associate a fap with shame and guilt...a weakness. There are times I want but can see myself being disappointed if it happens. Hit on some bishes this week, got ignored or rejected, did nt care either though. Felt almost proud of myself just for taking the steps to do that...I pushed for sex with this one girl and it went well. Didn't do her yet but the offer is on the table...never would have done this two weeks ago. To me, no fap is about growth taking on challenges and becoming a better person. It can be more than just quitting a habit. Stay strong brahs! It's all mental!

[troyw1008]

Have completed 90 days in the past, was epic. Have struggled the last few months though, back in for the long haul now.
https://www.********.com/NoFapSupportGroup

[fafaedras]

I knew that ............ maybe, it was still funny even if you were being serious. And I do realize it's serious I just don't know how to deal with things without being able to laugh about it. It sure beats crying about it. I know sometimes I do get to personal but I don't know exactly how to make the point without getting personal.

Then congrats for going easy with it. As long as no misc detectives start working on you, the getting personal isn't bad.

Day 10 starting today. Can someone link me to the chains.cc group and explain to me how to use it?

[mntbikedude]

Then congrats for going easy with it. As long as no misc detectives start working on you, the getting personal isn't bad.

Day 10 starting today. Can someone link me to the chains.cc group and explain to me how to use it?

Here is the thread. https://chains.cc/groups/H4t7cegq1C3Epzp I don't think it is too hard to figure out.

As far as misc detectives it wouldn't be hard and remember I've been on here for 10 years +. I think for a long time I was deeply ashamed of anyone finding out. And I think fear and shame are the biggest obstacles to people getting help.

[fafaedras]

Here is the thread. https://chains.cc/groups/H4t7cegq1C3Epzp I don't think it is too hard to figure out.

As far as misc detectives it wouldn't be hard and remember I've been on here for 10 years +. I think for a long time I was deeply ashamed of anyone finding out. And I think fear and shame are the biggest obstacles to people getting help.

Thanks, I tried registering several days ago to no avail. Couldn't find how to sign up. Finally discovered it.
Of course, but you still didn't reveal personal info, so you're still safe.

[hmichaelt]

day 2 complete. so far so good

[Skinnygeorge]

today i woke up at 6 am with no alarm and i saw the sun rising. i had been dreaming about porn but never saw any real nudity, just the search for it, and in the dream i said "**** this im not gonna surrender that easily", then i woke up and realized it was a dream. despite being up at 6 am on a saturday, i felt really rested

i can't describe how i felt better than the way you feel when you are a child. i felt like i just discovered my senses, and i felt really calm and focused. you know that theory that says you remember your childhood better than your adulthood because you were learning new things all the time when you were a child? i think that theory is not fully true, i think porn has something to do with it as well because my days aren't going away really fast anymore, and this is not negative at all, if you ask me what time it is i can guess almost exactly.

i'm not saying i have superpowers, but i really love myself and other people, and i enjoy social interaction.
Day: 30+ (lost count) no porn and no fapping

stay strong brothers in arms

[pHUiii]

5 days in, made out with a blonde girl last night on way home from a party. Feeling the energy return to my mind and body, its hard but I'll get through it!

[Xhale12]

Do you guys go through a withdrawal period?

I am on day 13 and feel terrible.

No motivation, constantly tired, lifts have dropped a fair amount, brain fog, etc.... Is this normal? If so, how long does it take for these to pass?

[Adrogeus]

today i woke up at 6 am with no alarm and i saw the sun rising. i had been dreaming about porn but never saw any real nudity, just the search for it, and in the dream i said "**** this im not gonna surrender that easily", then i woke up and realized it was a dream. despite being up at 6 am on a saturday, i felt really rested

i can't describe how i felt better than the way you feel when you are a child. i felt like i just discovered my senses, and i felt really calm and focused. you know that theory that says you remember your childhood better than your adulthood because you were learning new things all the time when you were a child? i think that theory is not fully true, i think porn has something to do with it as well because my days aren't going away really fast anymore, and this is not negative at all, if you ask me what time it is i can guess almost exactly.

i'm not saying i have superpowers, but i really love myself and other people, and i enjoy social interaction.
Day: 30+ (lost count) no porn and no fapping

stay strong brothers in arms

I was feeling blue and wondering what to post today until this good post. Oh man the nostalgia of that - I remember when I could make a good guess of the time. Back when I was a kid and more spent time outside. When days didn't pass hunched over in front of a computer.

Good show brah on the loss of count. I hope you don't ever have to start counting again.

^^^@ Xhale12, I don't know myself. I remember being a lot sharper, (more extroverted and less awkward socially too) before I got so into porn and fapping, and I have been chipping away at the brain fog with intermittent streaks of 10 to 50 days the past 2 years. But two other factors that I find contributed to my getting dumber it seems:

1. I didn't read as much nor think about stuff when I had the habit of porn and fapping
2. I didn't talk as much to others to keep verbal skills sharp

We have to fight through the fog, lift heavy and take a multi.

[centrelink1]

Do you guys go through a withdrawal period?

I am on day 13 and feel terrible.

No motivation, constantly tired, lifts have dropped a fair amount, brain fog, etc.... Is this normal? If so, how long does it take for these to pass?

It depends on the person, but after 3 weeks I was thinking more clearly than usual. Day 41 now and I'm thinking more clearly than ever!

Got trolled by some sloots last night, though. That'll take a while to recover from.

[MickyBoii]

So I just read xwhales comment and felt anger he didn't do any research. Then I read the Romans passage under the comment and it reminded me "Who am I to judge anybody . My job is me. "

Anyway that led my to think of Jesus,not that I'm religious as such,and how he spent 40 days and 40 nights in the desert.. And then I wondered is there somthing special about 40. Why not 20 or 45 or 11.Or 111. Why 40?

Then I read Centre's comment.

"Day 41 now and I'm thinking more clearly than ever! "

Maby it's the amount of time for real change to occur. We shall see..



I'd like to recommend a movie to you all .I've seen it before but this time round it had a much greater effect on me.I'm not going to ruin the plot by going into detail.
It's called 127 hours by Danny Boyle.

[kush007bond]

Have been occupied in the last 20 days or so cuz of some family matters and would be busy with work plus other stuffs in the coming days. Haven't read the last 10-15 pages thoroughly but glanced through a few posts. Some awesome posts by Tobias, MBD and other cheeky kunts. Would be reading everything in coming weeks itt. Just dropping by to say am still going strong. All the very best to the fellow cheeky kunt'13/feb brahs!

"There is no allurement or enticement, actual or imaginary, which a well-disciplined mind may not surmount. The wish to resist more than half accomplishes the object." ~Charlotte Dacre

onto day 270! come at me

[WhirlwindTobias]

hey, some of us have been feeling pretty ****ty lately. Tiredness, lack of motivation, anxiety etc. These are some of the things some of us have been going through. Would you consider these things as withdrawal symptoms? Did you have them and if you did, for how long?

I should really respond to this post.

I would consider these things as withdrawal symptoms. And yes, I definitely went through this period. After about the three-week mark I started to "miss" seeing beautiful women have sex, as bad as it sounds. At this point I hadn't come to appreciate natural beauty yet; I was a still attracted to the porn-star look and I was certainly conditioned into watching two people go at it, having done so for so many years. It made it easier to put up with not having sex myself.

Bad rationalising, right?

Anyway; due to the above factors, and the fact that I knew I had issues with my dopamine receptors I came to the conclusion that I was suffering from voyeurism, aesthetic (albeit the wrong aesthetic) and dopamine withdrawal.

Edit: Due to not getting any sex, I'd definitely say I had endorphins withdrawal too.

[MPower916]

Day 6 Chit is getting hard to do brahs.. I avoid all HNNG threads but I want to fap so fuking bad now...
i need a support buddy for this

[Flareon]

Day 6 Chit is getting hard to do brahs.. I avoid all HNNG threads but I want to fap so fuking bad now...
i need a support buddy for this

Day 4 here, aiming for years of no fap.

I'm not fapping ever again brah, we both have goals, we can't give those goals up for a few seconds of pleasure.

[MPower916]

Day 4 here, aiming for years of no fap.

I'm not fapping ever again brah, we both have goals, we can't give those goals up for a few seconds of pleasure.

I know...but cot damn that morning wood....

[Flareon]

I know...but cot damn that morning wood....

Gotta piss upside down erry morning I'm on no fap rofl.

[nonzero]

Day 4 here, aiming for years of no fap.

I'm not fapping ever again brah, we both have goals, we can't give those goals up for a few seconds of pleasure.

this

day 5 checking in, **** is easy

[LethalPants]

Why 40?

and so on.

I think you might be onto something here sir.

Today is day 40. Felt good today, not horny but happy and willing to socialize more. This might sound placebo but my face has cleared and I've noticed more growth of my facial hair than pre-nofap.

[Thunderquip]

I wish people would post actual descriptions of results they've gotten physically and mentally instead of treating the thread as a personal log. As much I am happy that people are succeeding, what would truly motivate people would be pages filled with great benefits that they've gotten from no fap. Last 30+ pages are just logs and people encouraging each other to keep going (which is great, but posts that talk about real benefits they've gotten would be much more encouraging/motivating).

THIS.

Repped.

Please can we have more benefits. This is really the most important part of this whole thread. Nothing is more important in terms of motivation and the whole experiment in general.

Day 22 for me by the way.

[Thunderquip]

fuk depression in the fukking mouth brah, your young grab your balls and scream and start everyday like your gonna go into battle.
every girl you walk past imagine her finger banging herself to the thought of you, now smile as you think about that, thats how you should smile at her as she passes.

haha. This is amazing. I have saved this to a word file and will remember this when I'm out and about. Reading stuff like this makes this thread the quality reading that it is. More stuff like this please!