ITT: I prove its impossible for me to get laid/get a gf

[iamdetermined]

Tired of everyone saying stuff like "getting laid in college is so easy all u have to do is talk to girls" and "you guys aren't trying". So guess I'll have to prove to you *******s that some people are destined to be virgins forever. Starting tomorrow i will talk to 1-2 girls everyday. No cold approaching or sarging around campus, just talking to girls in normal situations (class, girls i wait with at bus stops, etc), and post my results here so everyone can see how bad i am at talking to girls. If after two weeks i strike out with every girl I talk to then im just giving up cause i don't want to look like a creep around campus. Maybe after im done you guys will realize some people just weren't meant to have sex. If anyone else would like to join me in this experiment feel free to post ITT.

[FeelTheFear]

I will support you but you have realize that if you go in expecting to fail, you probably will. That's the main reason why the "failures" of this forum never succeed. In order for the experiment to be successful you need to actually go in with an open mind, or preferably, expecting to win.

[iamdetermined]

I will support you but you have realize that if you go in expecting to fail, you probably will. That's the main reason why the "failures" of this forum never succeed. In order for the experiment to be successful you need to actually go in with an open mind, or preferably, expecting to win.

lol knew you'd be up in this thread...ive tried this before and failed, at least after this time i can have closure and embrace my destiny. Thanks for the support though, would rep but im prob on spread with u

[its_mo]

bro if you've already given up why not just do what people are telling you to do on here? what have you got to lose.... it's like you take pride in being FA..

I'm FA too (making progress), but I keep that crap confined to the FA crew, we don't need to keep ruining this section.

[KillerInstinct]

Nothing but postive can come from this. Think positive

Its like any sport some people are naturals ... some people are Not and have to pay trainers, play with thier dads all the time, watch the sport, and practice harder

those people pass the people that are naturals that put not effort into it... happened to me in baseball cuz i didnt have the same passion as some of the people that weren't naturally good

good luck and look for the postiive in life

[Legend1617]

wish you the best of luck!

[BurrowedLurker]

Do two months instead. I'll pay you 75 USD paypal money, srs.

Only if you go on no fap though.

[iamdetermined]

Do two months instead. I'll pay you 75 USD paypal money, srs.

Only if you go on no fap though.

Bro after a month im probably gonna have already f*cked up with most of the girls ive talked to...id do no fap but unfortunately i paid for a porn membership(srs), can't let money go to waste nomsayin

[weightlifter9000]

Tired of everyone saying stuff like "getting laid in college is so easy all u have to do is talk to girls" and "you guys aren't trying". So guess I'll have to prove to you *******s that some people are destined to be virgins forever. Starting tomorrow i will talk to 1-2 girls everyday. No cold approaching or sarging around campus, just talking to girls in normal situations (class, girls i wait with at bus stops, etc), and post my results here so everyone can see how bad i am at talking to girls. If after two weeks i strike out with every girl I talk to then im just giving up cause i don't want to look like a creep around campus. Maybe after im done you guys will realize some people just weren't meant to have sex. If anyone else would like to join me in this experiment feel free to post ITT.

Acquire critical mass of money and status. You will smash chicks regardless of your looks.

[DoubleNNs]

I didn't actually read this thread.

But college pussy is more about social circle game than cold approaching.

Work on your appearance. Get involved in something. meet new people - both guys and girls. Buy alcohol and invite people over every now and then. When they come over, they'll bring their friends. **** their friends.

Pretty easy. Just requires a lot of patience.

It's all about enjoying the path instead of the destination.

Edit: And dude, you're talking about effing up with girls and not being able to talk to them again. How about this crazy idea - DON'T DO WEIRD SHXT THAT WILL MAKE THEM NEVER WANT TO TALK TO YOU!!

In clubs, bars it's okay to do this. Logistically, you'll never see them. You can strike out. But in college, it's more of a tribe than the real world. You wanna have conversations where even if that specific girl isn't interested in you, she'll tell other people how awesome you are. Or at least that you had an interesting convo.

It's about reputation. And even if only 2 people in the entire school know how awesome you are, as long as those 2 people know anyone other than just each other and you, your reputation will spread - slowly but surely. Think about all the times you've talked about someone else behind their back, whether telling someone how hot you thought they were, how much of a douche you think you are, what they did on an exam, how long you've known them, or that they've worn the same sweater for 2 weeks straight. People talk - and no matter how small or insignificant the dialog exchange might be at the moment, it counts.

College is about having fun. Those people who have fun get laid regardless. Focus on being happy and social overall. And make sure when opportunities DO arise, you take them head on.

[BurrowedLurker]

Bro after a month im probably gonna have already f*cked up with most of the girls ive talked to...id do no fap but unfortunately i paid for a porn membership(srs), can't let money go to waste nomsayin

And I can't give you 75 bucks if you fap, nomsaiyan?

Im srs about the money, this **** is just sittin around doin nothin.

[datsallfolks]

lol at some of the responses. Misc belives in magical thinking. no amount of positivity can change reality. if you are an ugly hopeless FA, you will be one no matter what you think.


However, it depends on what the issue is. If its looks, then nothing can be done. if its just game or being shy or awkward, an attitude change will help. OP needs to just be honest with himself

[DoubleNNs]

Even looks can be dramatically improved in some people. I'm sure he's not grotesquely disfigured or maimed.

A positive thought process, some fashion sense, and good hygiene (which includes grooming) is pretty much all the average guy needs in the looks department.

[Alphacide]

Stop just looking for women and actually make some female friends. once you have close female friends its much easier to find women to sleep wit u

[InfinityThor]

What a sad post... you expect to fail, your strategy is flawed and further more your time frame absolutely ludicrous.

1-2 girls is simply not enough for anyone, either foreveralone or even players/puas. You are missing out on one of the most powerful tools in pick up, momentum. You need to up that number significantly, to at least 10, so you have a chance at gaining momentum. Also it's virtually impossible to develop an immunity if you approach in low numbers, I've never met someone that has been able to do it.

You need to extend your time frame to something more reasonable, at least a couple of years... but preferably indefinitely (life-long).

Your strategy of avoiding cold approaches/sarging/being creepy is the wrong one and will severely hamper your progress. You are trading all the wonderful life-long benefits of this strategy to remain in your comfort zone, the waste of potential is just sad

[Cabanarama]

Bro after a month im probably gonna have already f*cked up with most of the girls ive talked to...id do no fap but unfortunately i paid for a porn membership(srs), can't let money go to waste nomsayin

lol, here in the 21 century?

[newtmiscer]

I didn't actually read this thread.

But college pussy is more about social circle game than cold approaching.

Work on your appearance. Get involved in something. meet new people - both guys and girls. Buy alcohol and invite people over every now and then. When they come over, they'll bring their friends. **** their friends.

Pretty easy. Just requires a lot of patience.

It's all about enjoying the path instead of the destination.

Edit: And dude, you're talking about effing up with girls and not being able to talk to them again. How about this crazy idea - DON'T DO WEIRD SHXT THAT WILL MAKE THEM NEVER WANT TO TALK TO YOU!!

In clubs, bars it's okay to do this. Logistically, you'll never see them. You can strike out. But in college, it's more of a tribe than the real world. You wanna have conversations where even if that specific girl isn't interested in you, she'll tell other people how awesome you are. Or at least that you had an interesting convo.

It's about reputation. And even if only 2 people in the entire school know how awesome you are, as long as those 2 people know anyone other than just each other and you, your reputation will spread - slowly but surely. Think about all the times you've talked about someone else behind their back, whether telling someone how hot you thought they were, how much of a douche you think you are, what they did on an exam, how long you've known them, or that they've worn the same sweater for 2 weeks straight. People talk - and no matter how small or insignificant the dialog exchange might be at the moment, it counts.

College is about having fun. Those people who have fun get laid regardless. Focus on being happy and social overall. And make sure when opportunities DO arise, you take them head on.

what's enjoyable about gaming/deceiving/intoxicating low quality girls (they are inherently low quality since they are susceptible to deception/slooting it up)? Lets be real, most girls have 0 personality because they think their vagina makes them special. and fukin lmfao about what other people think about you. Be true to yourself, and if you're a quality person, it will show.

Stop just looking for women and actually make some female friends. once you have close female friends its much easier to find women to sleep wit u

see above, most females simply cant be friends with most males

[iamdetermined]

What a sad post... you expect to fail, your strategy is flawed and further more your time frame absolutely ludicrous.

1-2 girls is simply not enough for anyone, either foreveralone or even players/puas. You are missing out on one of the most powerful tools in pick up, momentum. You need to up that number significantly, to at least 10, so you have a chance at gaining momentum. Also it's virtually impossible to develop an immunity if you approach in low numbers, I've never met someone that has been able to do it.

You need to extend your time frame to something more reasonable, at least a couple of years... but preferably indefinitely (life-long).

Your strategy of avoiding cold approaches/sarging/being creepy is the wrong one and will severely hamper your progress. You are trading all the wonderful life-long benefits of this strategy to remain in your comfort zone, the waste of potential is just sad

I'm actually better at cold approaching, its a small campus so I don't want to become that creep that just goes around hitting on girls. The reason I'm only talking to 1-2 girls is cause everyone says all u have to do is talk to girls in classes so I'm gonna prove them wrong.

[kickblake]

Tired of everyone saying stuff like "getting laid in college is so easy all u have to do is talk to girls" and "you guys aren't trying". So guess I'll have to prove to you *******s that some people are destined to be virgins forever. Starting tomorrow i will talk to 1-2 girls everyday. No cold approaching or sarging around campus, just talking to girls in normal situations (class, girls i wait with at bus stops, etc), and post my results here so everyone can see how bad i am at talking to girls. If after two weeks i strike out with every girl I talk to then im just giving up cause i don't want to look like a creep around campus. Maybe after im done you guys will realize some people just weren't meant to have sex. If anyone else would like to join me in this experiment feel free to post ITT.

This is horseshit. You're going to fail on purpose by being creepy as fuark so you can come back here and say "I told you so."

[datsallfolks]

This is horseshit. You're going to fail on purpose by being creepy as fuark so you can come back here and say "I told you so."

thats a possibility. OR maybe he's telling the truth. you miscers NEVER even consider the possibility that the FAs are right, which they could easily be they know their own life best

[RoWdY_RuFf_BoY]

Agree with kickback. It's like your looking to fail on purpose.

But in for updates every day.

[UMadOrMirinBrah]

dude make a lot of cash and **** sexy hookers come on man u cnat be a virgin forever

[kickblake]

thats a possibility. OR maybe he's telling the truth. you miscers NEVER even consider the possibility that the FAs are right, which they could easily be they know their own life best

No, they know what they think of their own life best. And lets be honest, when it comes to getting laid, its doesn't matter what YOU think of yourself, it matters what SHE thinks of you. Obviously if you broadcast that you're an FA *******, she's just going to agree. However, you don't have to broadcast that. You can let her make up her own mind.


This is why FAs fail: they assume that everyone they meet knows, and shares, their self-evaluation. They don't. In fact, its not even possible that they can.

[datsallfolks]

This is why FAs fail: they assume that everyone they meet knows, and shares, their self-evaluation. They don't. In fact, its not even possible that they can.

hmmmm thats true never thought of it that way. But honestly, most people are biased in a positive way. If even they admit to their faults, it likely is even worse in reality than what they think. Like for me, Im 100% sure no girl has ever thought I looked good its obvious

[nvrstopworking]

Negged.

[vikings_70]

I commend you for putting in the effort to talk to girls, even if it's only so you can prove RH wrong. That's what we're here for, to light a fire under your ass, one way or another.

But I swear to holy ****ing Jesus if you make another thread titled like this one again I'm negging you on site until you get laid. RH is not a pity party.

[kickblake]

hmmmm thats true never thought of it that way. But honestly, most people are biased in a positive way. If even they admit to their faults, it likely is even worse in reality than what they think. Like for me, Im 100% sure no girl has ever thought I looked good its obvious

Most people are biased in a positive way about others, and biased in a negative way about themselves. In fact, people that AREN'T this way have textbook signs of narcissism.

[datsallfolks]

Most people are biased in a positive way about others, and biased in a negative way about themselves. In fact, people that AREN'T this way have textbook signs of narcissism.

idk ive seen it the other way around, where people think they're smarter or better looking than they really are. Then, when a guy like me tries to be honest and objective about himself, I'm "doing it wrong". I just like being realistic.

anyway, my point is that it is at least possible that some FAs are simply being accurate when they say that no chick has or will be into them. From experience, I know that is true for me and there must be others out there

[iamdetermined]

U guys might as well keep the negs coming, only got one chance to talk to a girl and I totally pussied out cause there were other people around.

[kickblake]

idk ive seen it the other way around, where people think they're smarter or better looking than they really are. Then, when a guy like me tries to be honest and objective about himself, I'm "doing it wrong". I just like being realistic.

anyway, my point is that it is at least possible that some FAs are simply being accurate when they say that no chick has or will be into them. From experience, I know that is true for me and there must be others out there

Its conceivable that they're being accurate, yes. However there's too much maybe/if/perhaps in that BS to make a stand on. And in the end: it helps no one. There is an entire school of therapy that's devoted to helping people correct their inaccurate mental conceptions about the world, and you're just giving some of the people that need this type of help reason to hang onto the wrong, negative mental models.

Women respond positively to irrational self confidence. They do. So even if you don't have it, developing a mental schema that convinces yourself that you do has a higher chance of success than having a negative but accurate opinion.