Tired of everyone saying stuff like "getting laid in college is so easy all u have to do is talk to girls" and "you guys aren't trying". So guess I'll have to prove to you phaggots that some people are destined to be virgins forever. Starting tomorrow i will talk to 1-2 girls everyday. No cold approaching or sarging around campus, just talking to girls in normal situations (class, girls i wait with at bus stops, etc), and post my results here so everyone can see how bad i am at talking to girls. If after two weeks i strike out with every girl I talk to then im just giving up cause i don't want to look like a creep around campus. Maybe after im done you guys will realize some people just weren't meant to have sex. If anyone else would like to join me in this experiment feel free to post ITT.
10-02-2012, 09:02 PM #1
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Nothing but postive can come from this. Think positive
Its like any sport some people are naturals ... some people are Not and have to pay trainers, play with thier dads all the time, watch the sport, and practice harder
those people pass the people that are naturals that put not effort into it... happened to me in baseball cuz i didnt have the same passion as some of the people that weren't naturally good
good luck and look for the postiive in life
10-02-2012, 09:17 PM #6
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10-02-2012, 09:49 PM #10
I didn't actually read this thread.
But college pussy is more about social circle game than cold approaching.
Work on your appearance. Get involved in something. meet new people - both guys and girls. Buy alcohol and invite people over every now and then. When they come over, they'll bring their friends. **** their friends.
Pretty easy. Just requires a lot of patience.
It's all about enjoying the path instead of the destination.
Edit: And dude, you're talking about effing up with girls and not being able to talk to them again. How about this crazy idea - DON'T DO WEIRD SHXT THAT WILL MAKE THEM NEVER WANT TO TALK TO YOU!!
In clubs, bars it's okay to do this. Logistically, you'll never see them. You can strike out. But in college, it's more of a tribe than the real world. You wanna have conversations where even if that specific girl isn't interested in you, she'll tell other people how awesome you are. Or at least that you had an interesting convo.
It's about reputation. And even if only 2 people in the entire school know how awesome you are, as long as those 2 people know anyone other than just each other and you, your reputation will spread - slowly but surely. Think about all the times you've talked about someone else behind their back, whether telling someone how hot you thought they were, how much of a douche you think you are, what they did on an exam, how long you've known them, or that they've worn the same sweater for 2 weeks straight. People talk - and no matter how small or insignificant the dialog exchange might be at the moment, it counts.
College is about having fun. Those people who have fun get laid regardless. Focus on being happy and social overall. And make sure when opportunities DO arise, you take them head on.
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10-02-2012, 10:30 PM #12
lol at some of the responses. Misc belives in magical thinking. no amount of positivity can change reality. if you are an ugly hopeless FA, you will be one no matter what you think.
However, it depends on what the issue is. If its looks, then nothing can be done. if its just game or being shy or awkward, an attitude change will help. OP needs to just be honest with himself
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10-03-2012, 12:01 AM #15
What a sad post... you expect to fail, your strategy is flawed and further more your time frame absolutely ludicrous.
1-2 girls is simply not enough for anyone, either foreveralone or even players/puas. You are missing out on one of the most powerful tools in pick up, momentum. You need to up that number significantly, to at least 10, so you have a chance at gaining momentum. Also it's virtually impossible to develop an immunity if you approach in low numbers, I've never met someone that has been able to do it.
You need to extend your time frame to something more reasonable, at least a couple of years... but preferably indefinitely (life-long).
Your strategy of avoiding cold approaches/sarging/being creepy is the wrong one and will severely hamper your progress. You are trading all the wonderful life-long benefits of this strategy to remain in your comfort zone, the waste of potential is just sad
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I commend you for putting in the effort to talk to girls, even if it's only so you can prove RH wrong. That's what we're here for, to light a fire under your ass, one way or another.
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10-03-2012, 09:05 AM #27
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anyway, my point is that it is at least possible that some FAs are simply being accurate when they say that no chick has or will be into them. From experience, I know that is true for me and there must be others out there
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Its conceivable that they're being accurate, yes. However there's too much maybe/if/perhaps in that BS to make a stand on. And in the end: it helps no one. There is an entire school of therapy that's devoted to helping people correct their inaccurate mental conceptions about the world, and you're just giving some of the people that need this type of help reason to hang onto the wrong, negative mental models.
Women respond positively to irrational self confidence. They do. So even if you don't have it, developing a mental schema that convinces yourself that you do has a higher chance of success than having a negative but accurate opinion.** KNEE DRAGGERS UNITE **
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