Expecting to lose my virginity tonight. VERY nervous! HELP!?!?
Today I am expecting to lose my virginity. I'm 21 years old and this girl I've been talking to for a few weeks told me that she wants to f*ck tonight at her place. I'm nervous as hell. I literally cannot stop thinking about the "what ifs." What if she thinks my dick is small? What if it's obvious that I don't know what I'm doing? What if I can't handle the pressure and I bitch out? What if I'm acting too awkward and she gets turned off?
To sum it up, I'm literally more nervous than I've ever been in my entire life. Does anyone have ANY advice? Keep in mind this will be my very first sexual encounter with anyone, and she is very experienced. I told her honestly that I'm a virgin, but I lied and said I've gotten head many times, which is a lie. Please help me, guys. How was your first time? Any tips or tricks of the trade I should follow? Thanks.
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09-23-2012, 01:15 PM #1
Expecting to lose my virginity tonight. VERY nervous! HELP!?!?
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09-23-2012, 01:17 PM #2Registered User
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09-23-2012, 01:19 PM #3Banned
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Chill out brah, you aren't on court waiting for a jury do decide whether or not you're being sent to death row for something you didn't do.
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09-23-2012, 01:19 PM #4Registered User
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girl just wants to get f!ck, thats all...just f@ck her
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09-23-2012, 01:19 PM #5Registered User
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Pop a vitamin V.
There is no way you're getting hard panicking like thatBodybuilding is like Fight Club...I was on a plane, sitting in my seat at the back. I looked up and saw a guy get on...big guy. I knew he lifted. I knew he ate oatmeal and egg whites for breakfast. He looked at me. He knew I lifted. He knew I had a protein shake before bed. We didn't say one word ('cause he was at the front and I was in the back), but I knew...and he knew. Now that's some cool, Fight Club type ****. Bodybuilding is the best thing since sliced bread...whole grain bread that is.
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09-23-2012, 01:19 PM #6Banned
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Originally Posted by HamstringKing
Tips? I know it's obvious (and someone will already have mentioned it prolly) but remember as it's your first time you need to throw up in her angus as obviously she won't be able to have sex otherwise.
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09-23-2012, 01:19 PM #7Registered scumbag
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fap before hand
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09-23-2012, 01:20 PM #8Wuzzam
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Why did you tell him!? I wanted him to report back after not having done that, would have been lulzy as fuk.Originally Posted by ButMrImOnly16
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09-23-2012, 01:21 PM #9Banned
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this, but also since you told her your a virgin and now shes all up on you. Shes just a virgin slaya brah. She doesnt care about it, just another notch on the virgin belt.Originally Posted by HelpfulBrah
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09-23-2012, 01:22 PM #10
Go in and be confident, dont give a fukk what she thinks, most girls are fine with anything above idk 5 inches or so. Helps being bigger like 7 inches is the best to have IMO. Anyway, if you have a small pen0r maybe she will engage in da anal
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Shes probably way more insecure about herself than you are so don't worry as much.
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09-23-2012, 01:22 PM #12Banned
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Fap twice beforehand
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09-23-2012, 01:22 PM #13Registered User
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Don't listen to this, such awful advice.Originally Posted by HelpfulBrah
Don't sweat it too much, she's more than likely just an average girl who's had some very average/poor sexual experiences in the past. Not everyone is capable of fcking like a pornstar, she won't expect you to be able to either.
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09-23-2012, 01:23 PM #14Registered User
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The hole is lower than you think it is. That's all you need to know.
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09-23-2012, 01:23 PM #15Registered User
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09-23-2012, 01:24 PM #16Banned
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Not necessarily, the first time I took penis in to my rear entry point we shared cunnilingus first before my lover generously applied lotion to my exterior ring. Penetration was easy, we both came after a short but enjoyable 5 minutes.Originally Posted by N0rds
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09-23-2012, 01:24 PM #17Registered User
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I thought David D'Angelo's stuff was pretty helpful. He basically talks about how you start out with touching her hair, then move in for a kiss, then eventually you move on to her breasts, and so forth and so on. I really had no idea how people transitioned from just hanging out to having sex before reading that thing.Originally Posted by HamstringKing
The only other advice I would give you is not to jerk off too much before hand. The first time I tried having sex I ended up jerking off like, four times that day, so when I finally got her naked and she wanted me inside her I couldn't even get it up. It sucked.
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09-23-2012, 01:25 PM #18Shadows and dust.
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what an idiot. Just stop thinking, forget about the what ifs. Done. You're just over thinking it. It's just fuking sex you dip****. Just go with the flow, let her take the lead since you're such a pussy virgin.
Getting bj is different. Don't stutter, just be yourself and normal. Guys are such pussies now, no wonder the worlds so fuked.
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09-23-2012, 01:25 PM #19
whatever you do don't think about not being able to get hard if you think about it you aren't going to be able to do it so remember to not think about it.
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09-23-2012, 01:25 PM #20this. helps you last longer.Originally Posted by HelpfulBrah
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09-23-2012, 01:25 PM #21Registered User
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I remember when I lost my virginity I was 16 (wow 11 years ago)
It was to Anna Summers who latter in life ended up being a cray bish.
But I lost it to anna summers at a football game on the next field over on the soccer field.
If I could do it again I would. Maybe not to Anna, and maybe not outdoors....... In my 11 years of fuking I have done it outside numerous amount of times I wonder if that is from how and where I lost my V-card.......
But yeah Op who gives a fuk just get it over with......................
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09-23-2012, 01:26 PM #22Banned
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real talk OP, are you 5'2"?
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09-23-2012, 01:27 PM #23Registered User
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It's lower than you think seriously, and at the beginning it'll be better than the best thing you've ever imagined but then you'll realise this is so overrated it's criminal to spend any time/effort to get laid.
Don't fap, it has to be good for you too and if you fap beforehand the orgasm will feel forced.
Just change positions if you feel yourself about to cum.:)
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09-23-2012, 01:27 PM #24Registered User
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have fun?
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09-23-2012, 01:28 PM #25Registered User
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This.Originally Posted by JokaJJayy
It's going to be awkward brah srs. Your going to have a sorta disgusted feeling right after you nut. Even tho she's not ugly it'll still be there.
Get it done
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09-23-2012, 01:29 PM #26Registered User
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if your that nervous you probably wont get hard (performance anxiety) take a couple shots of vodka and relax brah, its just sex
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09-23-2012, 01:29 PM #27
Fap Beforehand.
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09-23-2012, 01:31 PM #28Banned
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if srs, just chill man. its not the end of the world. don't worry about the future just enjoy the moment for what it is. enjoy it.
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09-23-2012, 01:32 PM #29Banned
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pump till you dump
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09-23-2012, 01:33 PM #30Not like that fake one
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Just gotta go "fk it" and... well... fk it.
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