People who find humor in putting others down... did I take it too far?

[PeterParker23]

I was out with a girl I was seeing last night and I ran into an old co-worker of mine, the dude was always a dick and says terrible things to people all the time for absolutely no reason.

So I see him and give him a friendly nod, he proceeds to walk over to me and says "OMG a girl, HI!, did you know this is the first girl I've ever seen Peter here talk to? Thats really cool man, moving on up, good for you, trying to lose your virginity?"

this isn't the first girl he's seen me with, I had two other girls that I was seeing for a while and he knows this. He also knows I'm not a virgin and he knows that I don't respond well to bad humor

so I just tell him "Haha, yea you got me there pal, I may not be the best with women but at least my dad is still alive *******"

the alcohol got the best of me, and the guys dad died like 6 months ago in a car accident

did I take things too far? the girl thought I was really rude, but this guy is one of those douchebags thats always poking fun in a mean spirited manner for no reason


EDIT:

its hard to convey the tone through text

but it wasn't like a buddy of mine saying it sarcastically to be funny, it was someone I rarely talked to who likes to make mean spirited comments for no reason other than to make life hard for others

[TalkinDaHardest]

2 wrongs make a right op?

[diffrentiable]

He is obviously joking around with you, if you dont like it than tell him politely when no one is around so you dont look beta in fornt of your gf.You took it way to far bro, generally family is a no no, especially dead ones.

[PeZzYy]

atleast call him out for something that makes him a douche

no because his dad is dead... one day your dad/mom will be dead, as well as mine

u c brah?

usually i dun say **** if sumone starts with me just cause i'd end up ripping their fukn heads off lol, been training since I was like 4 and under 5 different styles ;S

[KeepItRREAL]

so I just tell him "Haha, yea you got me there pal, I may not be the best with women but at least my dad is still alive *******"

Terrible..

[white_pele]

He is obviously joking around with you, if you dont like it than tell him politely when no one is around so you dont look beta in fornt of your gf.You took it way to far bro, generally family is a no no, especially dead ones.

this, also notsureifsrs

[homedogalex]

Holy Fuk you took it too far lol

He sounds like a dick who gets off putting other people down, but what you did is way too personal.

Holy fuk i'm sort of laughing imagining how awkward it must have been for the girl

[LifterBrah]

Op dun goofed.

[initialize]

yeah that sounds like you took it way too far. Obviously I don't know the guy but you should have just laughed it off and played it as a friendly joke, even if it wasn't

[chlamydibrah]

roll on OP, roll on.

[builder95]

You took it to far brah. He was trying to put down your chances with the girl but still that's kind of harsh.

[nogoodAscetik]

What a king douche lol

[Halifax2]

Nah, its cool. He was obviously saying it to make you look bad, not just messing around. Probably shouldnt of said that infront of the girl, should of just ripped in to him about something else

[CheeBye]

Damn. I always feel terrible when talking chit about fathers around people whose dads are dead.

[MarkoH95x]

Should've just gave him an upper cut and walk on.

[PeterParker23]

Nah, its cool. He was obviously saying it to make you look bad, not just messing around. Probably shouldnt of said that infront of the girl, should of just ripped in to him about something else

yea, its hard to convey the tone through text

but it wasn't like a buddy of mine saying it sarcastically to be funny, it was someone I rarely talked to who likes to make mean spirited comments for no reason other than to make life hard for others

[vikings_70]

"Oh dang bro, it's nice to see your hubby let you out of the house for a night!"

something like that is all you needed...

[SuperBrah69]

[kpd905]

Wow OP, you are a dik.

[handcannon77]

would of punched you in the face (srs)

[bicepcurlbro]

how did he react

[PeterParker23]

would of punched you in the face (srs)

nah dude, we can still be friends, cause you're probably a decent human being who wouldn't walk up to me on a date and say sh!t like that

[lolatbrah]

fuking retard OP.

i wouldve fuking killed u if you said that to me.

[DrBroscientist]

Start of that line was beta, end was socially unacceptable. Should've just told him to fuk off or asked him how he's boyfriend was doin'.

[bicepcurlbro]

would of punched you in the face (srs)

then i wouldve knocked your bitch ass out

[Onisac]

Woah. Took it way too far. While the guy seemed like a douche, your reply was not witty in any way. Just a clear cheap shot. How did he react? Also howd it go with the girl?

[VANZFINEST]

Strong insult to username ratio..

Have you already forgotten about your father AND uncle ben????

[PeterParker23]

how did he react

nothing, he just said "**** you man" and walked off

my girl had a smirk on her face just looking at me with an awkward expression

[herculez09]

OP lucky douche wasn't Jake Tyler or he'd be dead right now

[GlassMoon]

lmfao yes op you did