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09-06-2012, 01:05 PM #151
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09-06-2012, 01:08 PM #157
LOL! In other words, I'm interested in you, but I don't want to feel like a slut, so I'm putting the spin on the situation like this so I won't feel so bad about myself....but I am interested in you.
Text her back and say, "That's cool. Whatever. See you then."
She wouldn't be willing to meet you if she wasn't interested. But she's not willing to let herself feel like a slut. So now it's your job to get her interested in you because she won't be the one to "cheat" on this other guy. It's gotta be your fault, not hers. F*ed up female logic, but whatever. Better start brushing up on your mystery method skills.
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09-06-2012, 01:12 PM #168
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Don't really know why people are calling her a sloot... she seems to be pretty upfront and honest, I'd say she has a good amount of respect for the guy she is dating and a potential relationship that might come out of it.
To be honest, the way she approached you and yalls situation is both mature and respectful. I don't know her at all but solely based off her text she seems like a good person....someone you can still be friends with. So what, shes talking to another guy and probably isnt really attracted to you... but wheres the harm in getting to know and befriending a good person? She has friends she can introduce you to, heck...maybe the guy she is talking to is a pretty cool dude. Ya never know, OP
If you can set aside your previous attraction for her, get to know her as a friend, I think you'll be better off than just throwing in the towel because she isn't interested in you. Lick your wounds, suck it up, and go meet someone who might be cool...
What you can say back to her
"Glad we are on the same page, lets meet up...." blah blah blah
Edit: if you do meet up with her, as she said its "as friends"....that means you better not pay for her food/drink and vice versa. If she expects you to, obviously don't...then cut contact. that reeks of a sense of entitlement. groce/10
I dunno, just my $.02...you can always decline if you want.3x Nationally qualified MPD - Donut Eater - Coffee Drinker - Breakfast Food Advocate
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09-06-2012, 01:12 PM #169
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09-06-2012, 01:13 PM #171
Lol the game in this thread.
You push things too quickly. It's like you instantly expect her to say "let's fuk"
She can tell your just after one thing. Should have played her game gone on said date see how it progressed and then you would have been on a better position to know whether to Persue or not.
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