As you can see by my sig, I'm not very good when it comes to the opposite sex. I'm not really too bothered about losing my virginity, but I find it really frustrating that finding a mature girl in the day and age and country that I can be in a relationship with. Like the vast majority I've met are really shallow and picky. Even the whales with zero personality have standards ffs! I'm either too ugly or too short. I'm a really nice guy and got a good personality.
And to top it all off I've had oneitis for more than 3 years and I've never talked to her face to face. She is taller than me and immensely beautiful and I know I haven't the slightest chance in hell. I feel really fidgety and restless. I feel like pulling my hair out sometimes and I'm tensed up a lot of the time and I think about her pretty much 24/7 and my friends think that's really wierd.
Who has some advice on how to calm myself or with anything related to this. Why did I have to draw the short straw in the genetics department??
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08-31-2012, 08:55 AM #1
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I really feel like crying (srs)
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08-31-2012, 09:11 AM #7
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Dude, what do you mean why would I want a relationship? I'm a man after all, I'm not interested in banging sloots. I just want a relationship with a mature girl, I guess that is too much to ask these days. I know people who have been in relationshiops for years now. But not me...girls look down on me like I'm the plague or something.
No point really tbh, it's never gonna kick off. In a fantasy world maybe. Think she recently started a relationship too. It's just that females aren't attracted to me in general. Most guys on here don;t kow what it's like being an ugly manlet, you're like marginalised from female interation.♬♫♪ Music crew ♪♫♬
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08-31-2012, 09:19 AM #8
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08-31-2012, 09:19 AM #9
There really is no advice or actions you really need to take. Be confident in who you are and good things will happen. If you don't have sex for awhile, who cares. At least you can look into yourself and figure out who you are.
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Cos I don;t necessarily want to bang. I'm frustrated (but not necessarily sexually frustrated if you know what I mean). I don;t think it's too young and I'm not looking to settle down or marry for a while, is this too much to ask? How many 20 year old guys are in relationships? A lot I'd wager.
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You seriously need to just man the EF up brah, damn compalining on here isn't going to do **** for you. You need to act like how you feel and look a dude who trains hard and looks good because of that shouldnt be all bent out of shape. Most of the girls you want to talk to or be with etc have probably never had a fit man in there life you need to start realizing that and use it to boost confidence in yourself.
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Girls don't look at guys looking for a relationship as a challenge. Honestly when meeting girls and stuff just be confident and have fun. Not every girl is going to be a potential relationship and when you don't worry about finding a relationship and letting it come to you it will happen. I didn't lose my virginity til I was 18 and really figure out women until I was 23 and found this forum. So don't worry about not finding a gf or losing your virginity. Just be you and do the things you love and in time good things will happen.
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Thanks, but all you have to do is look at other threads in this sub-section to know that muscles or being "fit" won't get you a relationship. Girls seem so tacky and shallow here. Tanks for your advice and good luck with your fitness goals.
Probably the most sound advice I've come across. Thanks. Not bothered about virginity but I feel I'm just missing something and I'm getting really frustrated and all tensed up and I'm sure it is because of this.
What's so funny?
That's another thing. I don't drink and it seems the only way to get to females is go out and drink and many of them just seem to care about getting drunk, they all seem really immature and shallow. I'm definitely not up for meeting any sloots at bars/clubs.
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08-31-2012, 09:45 AM #28
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Lighten up and go grab a pint of cider or whatever you brits drink and hit-on/talk to as many girls as possible. You have to slay some dragons before you get the princess op.
And to be honest, you can meet quality people at classy/upscale bars. Stop making excuses for yourself. Have responsible fun.LOGIC / emotion = CONTROL
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