I really feel like crying (srs)

[MiscReaper1]

As you can see by my sig, I'm not very good when it comes to the opposite sex. I'm not really too bothered about losing my virginity, but I find it really frustrating that finding a mature girl in the day and age and country that I can be in a relationship with. Like the vast majority I've met are really shallow and picky. Even the whales with zero personality have standards ffs! I'm either too ugly or too short. I'm a really nice guy and got a good personality.

And to top it all off I've had oneitis for more than 3 years and I've never talked to her face to face. She is taller than me and immensely beautiful and I know I haven't the slightest chance in hell. I feel really fidgety and restless. I feel like pulling my hair out sometimes and I'm tensed up a lot of the time and I think about her pretty much 24/7 and my friends think that's really wierd.

Who has some advice on how to calm myself or with anything related to this. Why did I have to draw the short straw in the genetics department??

rantover/

[jacketfan]

problem is so many guys want a relationship when they have 0 experience. just go for hookups till u know what your doing

[MiscReaper1]

problem is so many guys want a relationship when they have 0 experience. just go for hookups till u know what your doing

I've never approached a girl with the intention of hooking up, dating/asking out or anything. The times I've approached girls normally they look at me like I'm sort of rapist and start frowning and walk off.

[MiscReaper1]

bump for more opinions

[LikeAMachine]

Ffs

Age: 20
Status: looking for a relationship

OP, you have to be fcking kidding me?

You don’t even know what it’s like to be with a woman but you want a relationship?

WHY?

Tell me why you want a relationship and I will show you the error in your crap virgin logic.

[ArmstrongBrah]

Get over yourself entirely and talk to the girl you like. Remember if you don't do it somebody else will and if you know your better.

[MiscReaper1]

Ffs

Age: 20
Status: looking for a relationship

OP, you have to be fcking kidding me?

You don’t even know what it’s like to be with a woman but you want a relationship?

WHY?

Tell me why you want a relationship and I will show you the error in your crap virgin logic.

Dude, what do you mean why would I want a relationship? I'm a man after all, I'm not interested in banging sloots. I just want a relationship with a mature girl, I guess that is too much to ask these days. I know people who have been in relationshiops for years now. But not me...girls look down on me like I'm the plague or something.

Get over yourself entirely and talk to the girl you like. Remember if you don't do it somebody else will and if you know your better.

No point really tbh, it's never gonna kick off. In a fantasy world maybe. Think she recently started a relationship too. It's just that females aren't attracted to me in general. Most guys on here don;t kow what it's like being an ugly manlet, you're like marginalised from female interation.

[WIJG]

I'm a really nice guy

Oh, shyt.

and got a good personality.

Whatever that is.

[b0yer2]

There really is no advice or actions you really need to take. Be confident in who you are and good things will happen. If you don't have sex for awhile, who cares. At least you can look into yourself and figure out who you are.

When it comes to girls don't put them on a huge pedestal. Just treat them like one of the bros.

[LikeAMachine]

Dude, what do you mean why would I want a relationship? I'm a man after all, I'm not interested in banging sloots. I just want a relationship with a mature girl, I guess that is too much to ask these days. I know people who have been in relationshiops for years now. But not me...girls look down on me like I'm the plague or something.

Lol because other people are doing it.

Strong logic bro

[MiscReaper1]

Oh, shyt.




Whatever that is.

That's not very nice. I saw you post in forever alone face thread. I think you're too harsh on yourself plus you're not a manlet. Take advantage of what you got...me on the other hand

[vor93]

don't understand guys like U who wants srs relationship at young age

[MiscReaper1]

There really is no advice or actions you really need to take. Be confident in who you are and good things will happen. If you don't have sex for awhile, who cares. At least you can look into yourself and figure out who you are.

When it comes to girls don't put them on a huge pedestal. Just treat them like one of the bros.

Thanks for the response. I'm not too bothered about sex (i'm saving it until marriage anyway). But just finding a girl seems to be asking too much. Really frustrating.

Lol because other people are doing it.

Strong logic bro

Dunno what you mean by this answer bro. Other people are doing what?

[WIJG]

That's not very nice. I saw you post in forever alone face thread. I think you're too harsh on yourself plus you're not a manlet. Take advantage of what you got...me on the other hand

Did you read my posts?

[MiscReaper1]

don't understand guys like U who wants srs relationship at young age

Cos I don;t necessarily want to bang. I'm frustrated (but not necessarily sexually frustrated if you know what I mean). I don;t think it's too young and I'm not looking to settle down or marry for a while, is this too much to ask? How many 20 year old guys are in relationships? A lot I'd wager.

[niosh]

But just finding a girl seems to be asking too much. Really frustrating.

How do you expect to get a girl if you almost never approach?

You said you've only ever approached a few, do you think they will just come to you? Put yourself out there more or continue your foreveralone status.

Its just that simple.

[MiscReaper1]

Did you read my posts?

Ok sorry you have it pretty bad I guess. But at least you can understand where I'm coming from. I'm actually a nice guy but get no attentions whatsoever.

[Dome89]

I've never approached a girl with the intention of hooking up, dating/asking out or anything. The times I've approached girls normally they look at me like I'm sort of rapist and start frowning and walk off.

You seriously need to just man the EF up brah, damn compalining on here isn't going to do **** for you. You need to act like how you feel and look a dude who trains hard and looks good because of that shouldnt be all bent out of shape. Most of the girls you want to talk to or be with etc have probably never had a fit man in there life you need to start realizing that and use it to boost confidence in yourself.

Your 20lbs heavier then me use it!

[MiscReaper1]

How do you expect to get a girl if you almost never approach?

You said you've only ever approached a few, do you think they will just come to you? Either put yourself out there more or continue your foreveralone status.

It's not easy to approach when you are hideous and have been told you are ugly to your face. And a manlet. As I have written above. Even when I do approach for perfectly innocent reasons they react like they are disgusted.

[b0yer2]

Thanks for the response. I'm not too bothered about sex (i'm saving it until marriage anyway). But just finding a girl seems to be asking too much. Really frustrating.

Girls don't look at guys looking for a relationship as a challenge. Honestly when meeting girls and stuff just be confident and have fun. Not every girl is going to be a potential relationship and when you don't worry about finding a relationship and letting it come to you it will happen. I didn't lose my virginity til I was 18 and really figure out women until I was 23 and found this forum. So don't worry about not finding a gf or losing your virginity. Just be you and do the things you love and in time good things will happen.

[WIJG]

Ok sorry you have it pretty bad I guess. But at least you can understand where I'm coming from. I'm actually a nice guy but get no attentions whatsoever.

lol

[vor93]

Cos I don;t necessarily want to bang. I'm frustrated (but not necessarily sexually frustrated if you know what I mean). I don;t think it's too young and I'm not looking to settle down or marry for a while, is this too much to ask? How many 20 year old guys are in relationships? A lot I'd wager.

so what if they are together now bro most of them will break up...talked to a girl who is pregnant with boyfriend and they are together 1 year(both are 30yr old),her previous relationship was 8yr long....damn bro acquire aesthetics and bang sloots

[BIGrob84]

go out and drink at bars/clubs every weekend. Do that for a year and come back.

[jamestown0101]

As you can see by my sig, I'm not very good when it comes to the opposite sex. I'm not really too bothered about losing my virginity, but I find it really frustrating that finding a mature girl in the day and age and country that I can be in a relationship with. Like the vast majority I've met are really shallow and picky. Even the whales with zero personality have standards ffs! I'm either too ugly or too short. I'm a really nice guy and got a good personality.

And to top it all off I've had oneitis for more than 3 years and I've never talked to her face to face. She is taller than me and immensely beautiful and I know I haven't the slightest chance in hell. I feel really fidgety and restless. I feel like pulling my hair out sometimes and I'm tensed up a lot of the time and I think about her pretty much 24/7 and my friends think that's really wierd.

Who has some advice on how to calm myself or with anything related to this. Why did I have to draw the short straw in the genetics department??

rantover/

You call yourself a man?

[niosh]

It's not easy to approach when you are hideous and have been told you are ugly to your face. And a manlet. As I have written above. Even when I do approach for perfectly innocent reasons they react like they are disgusted.

"They" meaning the 2 or 3 girls you've ever approached in your life?

Keep making excuses...

[jamestown0101]

Ffs

Age: 20
Status: looking for a relationship

OP, you have to be fcking kidding me?

You don’t even know what it’s like to be with a woman but you want a relationship?

WHY?

Tell me why you want a relationship and I will show you the error in your crap virgin logic.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to LikeAMachine again.



I got a friend that is a manlet. He looks like an actor and does quite fine. Its funny when girls where heels and look all amazonian. He seems to dig that.

[MiscReaper1]

You seriously need to just man the EF up brah, damn compalining on here isn't going to do **** for you. You need to act like how you feel and look a dude who trains hard and looks good because of that shouldnt be all bent out of shape. Most of the girls you want to talk to or be with etc have probably never had a fit man in there life you need to start realizing that and use it to boost confidence in yourself.

Your 20lbs heavier then me use it!

Thanks, but all you have to do is look at other threads in this sub-section to know that muscles or being "fit" won't get you a relationship. Girls seem so tacky and shallow here. Tanks for your advice and good luck with your fitness goals.

Girls don't look at guys looking for a relationship as a challenge. Honestly when meeting girls and stuff just be confident and have fun. Not every girl is going to be a potential relationship and when you don't worry about finding a relationship and letting it come to you it will happen. I didn't lose my virginity til I was 18 and really figure out women until I was 23 and found this forum. So don't worry about not finding a gf or losing your virginity. Just be you and do the things you love and in time good things will happen.

Probably the most sound advice I've come across. Thanks. Not bothered about virginity but I feel I'm just missing something and I'm getting really frustrated and all tensed up and I'm sure it is because of this.

lol

What's so funny?

so what if they are together now bro most of them will break up...talked to a girl who is pregnant with boyfriend and they are together 1 year(both are 30yr old),her previous relationship was 8yr long....damn bro acquire aesthetics and bang sloots

go out and drink at bars/clubs every weekend. Do that for a year and come back.

That's another thing. I don't drink and it seems the only way to get to females is go out and drink and many of them just seem to care about getting drunk, they all seem really immature and shallow. I'm definitely not up for meeting any sloots at bars/clubs.

You call yourself a man?

OK. I am not. I admit it.

[BIGrob84]

Lighten up and go grab a pint of cider or whatever you brits drink and hit-on/talk to as many girls as possible. You have to slay some dragons before you get the princess op.

And to be honest, you can meet quality people at classy/upscale bars. Stop making excuses for yourself. Have responsible fun.

[MiscReaper1]

"They" meaning the 2 or 3 girls you've ever approached in your life?

Keep making excuses...

More than 3, I assure you...

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to LikeAMachine again.



I got a friend that is a manlet. *He looks like an actor* and does quite fine. Its funny when girls where heels and look all amazonian. He seems to dig that.

That is one reason for them not to be repulsed by his presence.

[jamestown0101]

Hit on bishes, smash or commence trolling, disregard her, monkey branch onto her family (mom, sister, jail bait sis), and repeat with other girls. Simple enough?