The Rational male. Break down of why girls cheat.

[EPICBULGARIAN91]

ITT american women

I'd rather cut my balls off instead of marrying one

they arent all bad bro..trust me

its just that alot of people simply settle for either the prettiest dumb bimbo or whatever they can get instead of really taking their time and being paitent with this ish and paying attention to the little things that mean a huge deal like someones values and beliefs

[SompletelyCober]

The way I see it is..

if you can make a girl fall head over heels for you along side of being attractive in the first, then she's less likely to cheat (if she's a good respectable girl, cuz they are out there) BUT ALWAYS ASSUME SHE WILL EVENTUALLY

Now, here's what you must do emotionally, NEVER GET TO CLOSE OR ATTACHED! Maintain all independence..

You can enjoy her, be blissfully happy, pretend you are in love and head over heels, hell you may even feel that way, and be willing to spend the rest of your life with her..

BUT! in your mind, deep down inside YOU HAVE TO KNOW you are not!! And at the drop of a hat, IF THIS BITCH ever cheats, she is gone out of your life for good!!

Now.. you must plant this in her mind, and it cannot be a bluff.

You have to be ready to sever all ties if she cheats, and never look back.

If a girl ever breaks up with you, no matter how long you've been together- the only appropriate response is, "Ok."

No yelling. No begging. No caring. Just say it's cool and move on. A) This is the way you should be anyway B) Bitches be trippin when you give them zero reaction to anything


And remember: Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.

[GetHimABodyBag]

Sperm Wars touches on this subject

Basically be 6'4, 250 pounds jacked 10% bf, handsome, and play starting quarterback in the NFL making 50 million a year including endorsements, and get a degree from Harvard, make her cum like 10 times everytime you fuk, and no chick will cheat on you

[Ronnie87]

Ayone who has spent time around women should have observed this behaviour. Look at guys you know who got cheated on or girls you know who cheated on their boyfriends, you can be sure that the guy who got cheated on was someone who could be described as a *nice guy* and would probably make a good Dad. If a woman sees a man as being weak then it's in her nature to find a stronger male to sleep with, they're ****ing compelled to do it by nature.

It's not that all women cheat, but all women will cheat on a weak man in the right circumstances. I witnessed a girl I used to be good friends with cheat on her boyfriend, she's a decent girl and felt really bad about it but it wasn't really surprising because the guy was a joke, me and her used to take the piss out of him after the relationship, her respect for him was non-existant.

Sperm Wars touches on this subject

Basically be 6'4, 250 pounds jacked 10% bf, handsome, and play starting quarterback in the NFL making 50 million a year including endorsements, and get a degree from Harvard, make her cum like 10 times everytime you fuk, and no chick will cheat on you

I disagree, you can do and be all those things but if you let your woman walk all over you, your relationship will ultimately fail.

Also you can be and do none of those things, but if you act like a boss and don't take any **** your girlfriend will always be head over heels in love with you.

[zonee2k]

Worth the read, basically nothing I was not aware of but it just reminded me to not get soft after a while in my relationship.

[SirTerrythe3rd]

Sperm Wars touches on this subject

Basically be 6'4, 250 pounds jacked 10% bf, handsome, and play starting quarterback in the NFL making 50 million a year including endorsements, and get a degree from Harvard, make her cum like 10 times everytime you fuk, and no chick will cheat on you

this. but if you're trying to be a balanced man, you can never be around 100% of the time. Goes back to David and Bathsheba. Even great men lose, law of averages brah.

[Dyuto]

law of averages brah

Statistics brah checking in - you realize that the "Law of Averages" is not a law, but a bias, right? As in: its a delusion, there is no short-term trending toward the average/median in most empirical data.

[SirTerrythe3rd]

this. but if you're trying to be a balanced man, you can never be around 100% of the time. Goes back to David and Bathsheba. Even great men lose, law of averages brah.

And they honestly still love you, but it's the plight of man. Religion describes it, as well as various sciences.

[Spaghetti Beans]

Too long but read a littler bit.

[SirTerrythe3rd]

Statistics brah checking in - you realize that the "Law of Averages" is not a law, but a bias, right? As in: its a delusion, there is no short-term trending toward the average/median in most empirical data.

Expound, but for the layperson.

[ghrbrah]

You have to watch what woman do and disregard what they say.

so much real ****ing life, repped brah

[Dyuto]

Expound, but for the layperson.

Well, the law of averages (again, not a real statistical law, but a bias) is about a persons BELIEVE that things even out / will eventually average. Which is not THAT wrong in very specific experiments, people usually think about the fair coin flip.

BUT even with the fair coin flip (as in: the coin is not "loaded", so it favors one side), the average only is established in a very long (or infinite) series of flips. Whats breaks this "law" is:

- most events are not as (artificially) fair as a coin flip, we usually have its slightly skewed in favor of one outcome ("normal distribution" is mostly scientific and not related to real events)
- most events are registered short-term, we don't give in a long-term / infinite series type of world or perception

This means you date 4 girls consecutively and all turn out to be sluts. The law of averages would then make you believe that the 5th girl SURELY would have to be a good girl, because "on average" the good and bad would even out, right? And thats basically where people fall into this trap/bias.

Keep in mind statistics uses VERY simple experiments for this (doesn't get much simpler than a coin flip, right?), and the social dynamics between people, especially in dating/mating is probably one of the most complex processes I can think of. So any attempt to break down this very complex process with simple tools like statistics or the crap that was posted in OP is bound to fail or to disregard multiple factors that play a vital role.

EPICBULGARIAN91 already brought up one factor: people stop doing what they did for themselves as singles, once they are in a partnership, so they THEMSELVES changes the rules of the game and wonder why the same person that fell in love with them may cheat on them or fall out of love with the new person they became once they stopped being single.

But its simple minds that look for simple answers, so ... I forgive OP.

[QueenName]

Anyone can write blah blah around in circles using big words to sound smart and people automatically believe the bs.
Where does the author get his research/stats from? This is like saying men can not settle down because they need to "spread their seed"
Some women and men cheat, but not all. I think the ones that do lack morals and self esteem. You can't live your life paranoid of what might happen. Be yourself the best you can, fall in love and if you get stabbed in the back, oh well that's life.

[drekkage]

Nice article but some ideas seem a bit wishy washy e.g. why are the good dad genes still in existence? (maybe because they are still producing children but not at the same rate, or maybe it is not genetically derived but rather socially derived as a result of not getting short-term action i.e. their horniness makes them go to greater extents for the prospect of action after continual rejection). Also it seems that a women might be causing greater risk to a child's future by cheating on a husband and ruining a stable relationship than by marrying and phucking someone who is socially stable but with chit genetics.
Also I think its too simplistic to state that men only want to get their dicks wet, even on the misc we have guys wanting to phuck tall bishes to pass on alpha genes.
The good genes, good dad thing does make some sense though. An obstetrician was telling me of some study they conducted where something like 15% of dads were actually the genetic fathers of the children their partners were giving birth to (srs).
also I remembering hearing about a study where sloots who cheated were actually more satisfied with life. Apparently it enhances their self worth when they are able to deceive their partners.

[DoitAthletic]

Someday, I'm gonna f8ck a gigantic 6'5" buff bish from the Congo that hunts lions, and have kids with her. Then I'll come back to America and marry a good-looking white girl. So my kids will be 6'10", athletic as hell, and able to build muscle easily. That's Darwinism. (srs)

[lemonic]

Someday, I'm gonna f8ck a gigantic 6'5" buff bish from the Congo that hunts lions, and have kids with her. Then I'll come back to America and marry a good-looking white girl. So my kids will be 6'10", athletic as hell, and able to build muscle easily. That's Darwinism. (srs)

lol'd quite a bit ... why not bro, why not. just beware of dat dere death by snusnu

[chiefnz]

That write-up is so bad, oh god.

You can tell the "author" is a "jack of all trades, master of none" type of guy. He throws some argumentative lines into it that border on economic models, some psychology, some biology and sociology, but put together its just a big pile of bullshît.

ITT *******s blame women for their own shortcomings (blabla, all they want is money, blabla, sloots are sloots, blabla, never trust a ho ...)

But hey, this is the MISC, the #1 meeting place for misogynists and sexually-frustrated basement-dwellers. Hate at it boys.

Pretend like it isnt true all you want. You didnt refute a single point he made, and talked some crap about things he didnt even write about.

Like you say, this is the misc...

[Ronnie87]

Be yourself the best you can, fall in love and if you get stabbed in the back, oh well that's life.

Or be yourself the best you can be, fall in love and don't get stabbed in the back because you learnt and understand how women work.

[Dyuto]

Pretend like it isnt true all you want. You didnt refute a single point he made, and talked some crap about things he didnt even write about.

Like you say, this is the misc...

Thats the (in a weird way) beauty of his write-up. You can't refute things when he is being so vague and does not give you a single factoid to work with.

You can subscribe to it as much as you want, it won't phase me brah. Good luck with that.

[RustyZ32]

Didn't read. That guy who wrote that is from PUA community. Why read more stupid rationalization on why some bitch left him long time ago. We are talking about people here, there are so many variables that its almost idiotic to try to explain it.

[reyes12]

Cliffs: Look good and be the "alpha male" Aka don't look like a slob, stay in shape and have the best genes, then have some money to back you up.


Confidence, money, good genes and looks = win

[Dyuto]

That guy who wrote that is from PUA community.

This explains things lol

[Feelsgdman]

This is why you black knight, then white knight

Repeat

???

Profit

[drekkage]

Thats the (in a weird way) beauty of his write-up. You can't refute things when he is being so vague and does not give you a single factoid to work with.

You can subscribe to it as much as you want, it won't phase me brah. Good luck with that.

his argument seems to be rationalized from evolutionary perspective using knowledge of physiology to back up his claims. From an evolutionary perspective it is not completely explained i.e. how would potentially destroying a marriage by cheating help survival of an offspring? I guess the answer to this depends on how often women get caught cheating and whether they are forgiven.
However, how people act in social situations today may not reflect the way we would have acted thousands of years ago due to social differences. Trying to rationalize current human behavior by our genetics is therefore limited.
His physiological rationalizations of behavior seem extremely simplistic e.g. our purpose is to spread our seed as we have higher levels of testosterone. Brb ignoring the effects of testosterone on body composition and whether women are more sensitive to its effects behaviourally (I think they are).
That being said if you can't provide any evidence that his good dad vs good gene therapy is invalid then at least you should consider it or find a way to invalidate it. While he hasn't provided any real evidence to back his beliefs and doesn't connect all the dots that doesn't mean that you can't find evidence that negate his assertions. I guess you just have to find potential holes like the ones I identified above and find if the evidence conflicts with his assertions. I have read that women cheating within relationships is pretty common and that it provides women with emotional satisfaction. When I'm not busy maybe I'll try find the studies.

[QueenName]

Or be yourself the best you can be, fall in love and don't get stabbed in the back because you learnt and understand how women work.

Contrary to misc belief not all women cheat. Either way if you are dating a cheater they will always have a reason to cheat on you. There will always be someone more aesthetic and more rich than you. A relationship is not lovey dovey all the time especially after a couple of years and when times get tough, that person will cheat on you for sure (grass is always greener on the other side).

[Wisdom187]

women and men cheat because we are not biologically meant to be faithful. This whole relationship **** is a societies creation. We were meant to walk around, rape a bitch, and leave.

[bruhbruh]

[arn710]

This is a bunch of obvious stuff disguised with big words

Waste of time

[ChickeNudeSoup]

women and men cheat because we are not biologically meant to be faithful. This whole relationship **** is a societies creation. We were meant to walk around, rape a bitch, and leave.

Pretty much this. Thousands of years ago biologically the chance of your sperm developing into offspring was higher when you had multiple women. It also makes the gene pool more diverse. We were never meant to have one partner.

[becomegreen]

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