Guys that care about how many dicks a girl has had before yours

**FitnessBlue** · 10-13-2012, 09:27 AM

Originally Posted by Ozelot

And you are entitled to yours. Eventhough you have not provided any empirical evidence or evolutionary theories. The ones you made up doesnt count.

**kel_varnsen** · 10-13-2012, 09:36 AM

Originally Posted by Ozelot

And you are entitled to yours. Eventhough you have not provided any empirical evidence or evolutionary theories. The ones you made up doesnt count.

women produce loads of oxytocin during sex. women can get pregnant. divorce rates/infidelity is strongly correlated with number of sex partners for women (not men). women who sleep around are more likely to be depressed than men who do the same. promiscuous women are more likely to have a "poor emotional state" (not men). etc etc...

there are numerous studies on this that all paint the same picture. men handle casual sex and multiple partners a lot better than women.

**newtmiscer** · 10-13-2012, 09:37 AM

Originally Posted by Ozelot

Id say men have a problem with promiscuity, and are not evolved to handle that, if any generalisations should be made at all. It seems to rustle your jimmies

there is data that proves higher # of partners leads to an increased divorce rate/promiscuity. deal with it.

**Ozelot** · 10-13-2012, 09:59 AM

Originally Posted by kel_varnsen

women produce loads of oxytocin during sex. women can get pregnant. divorce rates/infidelity is strongly correlated with number of sex partners for women (not men). women who sleep around are more likely to be depressed than men who do the same. promiscuous women are more likely to have a "poor emotional state" (not men). etc etc...

there are numerous studies on this that all paint the same picture. men handle casual sex and multiple partners a lot better than women.

My question to you was if you acctually believe that people who have lots of sex generally are emotionally damaged.
People with emotional problems have a tendency to act more over the top. Sexually as well, which could point to the fact that people with emotional problems could be commonly found among promiscuous people, not that all promiscuous people are emotionally damaged.

And yes, depression is probably more common among promiscuous women, since they are judged harshly. Promiscuous men are not, so no need for depression.

And numerous studies... well, there are always studies. It doesnt mean they have validity or reliability.

Well, this is not exactly staying on course with the topic, so I�ll leave it at this.

**FitnessBlue** · 10-13-2012, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by Ozelot

My question to you was if you acctually believe that people who have lots of sex generally are emotionally damaged.
People with emotional problems have a tendency to act more over the top. Sexually as well, which could point to the fact that people with emotional problems could be commonly found among promiscuous people, not that all promiscuous people are emotionally damaged.

And yes, depression is probably more common among promiscuous women, since they are judged harshly. Promiscuous men are not, so no need for depression.

And numerous studies... well, there are always studies. It doesnt mean they have validity or reliability.

Well, this is not exactly staying on course with the topic, so I�ll leave it at this.

So really your gf is a bonified turbo sloot and you are "trying to reason" why the fack you are with her.
Seriously, you are defending whoreish women bahaviour as if it's personal. Either you are a woman, or are with a "typical one"

**kel_varnsen** · 10-13-2012, 10:13 AM

Originally Posted by Ozelot

My question to you was if you acctually believe that people who have lots of sex generally are emotionally damaged.
People with emotional problems have a tendency to act more over the top. Sexually as well, which could point to the fact that people with emotional problems could be commonly found among promiscuous people, not that all promiscuous people are emotionally damaged.

in general, the more partners a woman has had, the more emotionally damaged she is. i'm not claiming a direct causal link here, but rather that the two are linked. however, that does not mean prudes are emotionally well off and stable. promiscuity is just one factor in all of this.

i find this to be fairly true. the women i've dated who's been with 20+ guys or so, have all been disturbed to one degree or another. usually insecure and extreme attention whores.

**Tiffany Wantsmore** · 10-13-2012, 10:31 AM

But is a woman who has a lot of sex emotionally damaged before that, or by it?

**FitnessBlue** · 10-13-2012, 10:35 AM

Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore

But is a woman who has a lot of sex emotionally damaged before that, or by it?

Let me chime in and say, case by case...

I mean, for a woman to have a high number of partners in the first place could mean she is already damaged. Maybe she is of the "live laugh love" generation and hasn't realized the long term effects her history chart will have when tring to settle down? Lots of variables. But there will always be a beta that will be accepting of her past.

**Kylehero** · 10-13-2012, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by Illuminist

Virgins care. So do men who feel they have small pen0rs. No real man gives a chit.

This

**ODSN** · 10-13-2012, 10:58 AM

Ok gentlemen, how about this scenario then.

My ex used to constantly ask me (during sex) what I've done with other guys. I haven't had many partners, and at first I thought he wanted assurance of that. So I would give it to him.

But he would ask again and again, and it occurred to me that it turns him on to think of me with other guys. When I would answer his questions, he would then ask more, in detail about what I did to them, if they got hard, etc, and I found it very bizarre and it created a very impersonal gap.

I felt like he WANTED me to have a slutty past.

Outside of sex, sometimes I'd gently ask him the meaning of these questions but he didn't really want to answer me.

...wut?

**FitnessBlue** · 10-13-2012, 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by ODSN

Ok gentlemen, how about this scenario then.

My ex used to constantly ask me (during sex) what I've done with other guys. I haven't had many partners, and at first I thought he wanted assurance of that. So I would give it to him.

But he would ask again and again, and it occurred to me that it turns him on to think of me with other guys. When I would answer his questions, he would then ask more, in detail about what I did to them, if they got hard, etc, and I found it very bizarre and it created a very impersonal gap.

I felt like he WANTED me to have a slutty past.

Outside of sex, sometimes I'd gently ask him the meaning of these questions but he didn't really want to answer me.

...wut?

I don't think it was the number of guys that turned him on but he had an odd "fetish" in hearing about you with another guy. Dude is ex for good reason lol

**ODSN** · 10-13-2012, 03:00 PM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

I don't think it was the number of guys that turned him on but he had an odd "fetish" in hearing about you with another guy. Dude is ex for good reason lol

Yes it wasn't the number of guys, but rather what I did to them.

Also we've been together for a while, and I always listened to his body (his response to my touch in various areas). So with time I learned his body and what he likes. Sometimes he'd tell me I am very good at doing _____ , and then ask how did I get so good at it.

It really weirded me out that he wanted me to say that it's because I've been with many guys and that's how I got good.

Like it's just a skill I have instead of it being the result of a personal bond and catering to what he likes.

Made me feel very awkward and like he wanted to have sex with some fantasy persona and not me.

**FitnessBlue** · 10-13-2012, 03:06 PM

Originally Posted by ODSN

Yes it wasn't the number of guys, but rather what I did to them.

Also we've been together for a while, and I always listened to his body (his response to my touch in various areas). So with time I learned his body and what he likes. Sometimes he'd tell me I am very good at doing _____ , and then ask how did I get so good at it.

It really weirded me out that he wanted me to say that it's because I've been with many guys and that's how I got good.

Like it's just a skill I have instead of it being the result of a personal bond and catering to what he likes.

Made me feel very awkward and like he wanted to have sex with some fantasy persona and not me.

Well...*scratches head*....ummm, good luck with your relationship goals? "skills from being with many guys" lolz

**ODSN** · 10-13-2012, 03:17 PM

Originally Posted by FitnessBlue

Well...*scratches head*....ummm, good luck with your relationship goals? "skills from being with many guys" lolz

Good luck to you as well?

**The Experiment** · 10-13-2012, 03:18 PM

It doesn't matter to me but I do lol at the women who spread their legs for the football team in high school/college and then five years later think her vagina is made of gold when she wants to settle down.

**FitnessBlue** · 10-13-2012, 03:23 PM

Originally Posted by The Experiment

It doesn't matter to me but I do lol at the women who spread their legs for the football team in high school/college and then five years later think her vagina is made of gold when she wants to settle down.

Yup!

**MackFrescoGirl** · 10-13-2012, 03:46 PM

Originally Posted by kel_varnsen

women produce loads of oxytocin during sex. women can get pregnant. divorce rates/infidelity is strongly correlated with number of sex partners for women (not men). women who sleep around are more likely to be depressed than men who do the same. promiscuous women are more likely to have a "poor emotional state" (not men). etc etc...

there are numerous studies on this that all paint the same picture. men handle casual sex and multiple partners a lot better than women.

And men are also biologically wired to sleep around. LMFAO.

**MackFrescoGirl** · 10-13-2012, 03:48 PM

Originally Posted by kel_varnsen

in general, the more partners a woman has had, the more emotionally damaged she is. i'm not claiming a direct causal link here, but rather that the two are linked. however, that does not mean prudes are emotionally well off and stable. promiscuity is just one factor in all of this.

i find this to be fairly true. the women i've dated who's been with 20+ guys or so, have all been disturbed to one degree or another. usually insecure and extreme attention whores.

What about the women who have had sex with dildos? Does oxytocin release then too? Am I gonna become one with my dilly? lol

**FitnessBlue** · 10-13-2012, 03:51 PM

Originally Posted by MackFrescoGirl

What about the women who have had sex with dildos? Does oxytocin release then too? Am I gonna become one with my dilly? lol

He's talking "partners" not plastic, go ahead and use that plastic all you want.

**MackFrescoGirl** · 10-13-2012, 03:54 PM

Originally Posted by goosygoosy

LOL, I do care about how many dicks have been in a woman.

It shows a lack of respect for future partner as well as opening the pandora's box of desire.

I've had many opportunities to sleep with girls but have resisted, NOT because I'm a ****, or overly religious, but because when I meet the ONE, the one that I want to marry and spend my days with, I want my sexual experiences to be with her, and with me alone. Because I won't know any different (and I'm sure as hell going to like it regardless), and the same as her.

If she's phucked loads of guys, and I've phucked loads of girls, chances are we're both going to have found someone better in that department, and I feel like it would cause underlying tension.

My girl when I marry her, will know that I've saved myself for her and only her. That will hopefully place a lot more trust on the situation.

Wow. You are truly something special. Most guys just expect to be complete community property then expect a virgin girl to which I just say to females lie. But youre great. Not hypocritical like the rest, Id say youre more man than all these other sloots in here combined. Lol

**MackFrescoGirl** · 10-13-2012, 03:57 PM

Originally Posted by kel_varnsen

cyclical reinforcement. these girls have a certain genetic disposal and through behavior reinforce these traits.

men handle casual sex a lot better than women. sure there are exceptions, but promiscuous women are usually mentally and emotionally damaged. women, on a purely biological basis, haven't evolved to have lots of casual sex.

^You a woman? If not you go on what most women tell you..or 'studies'.

**MackFrescoGirl** · 10-13-2012, 04:00 PM

Originally Posted by DoneGoofed

brb marrying a sloot who took 40 dicks before me... fail
I guess shiet in america is different then in my country,
since marriage is a big deal in my country, normal girls will not sloot around or fuk before marriage..
so when someone marries a non virgin girl... hes considered sort of a idiot..
and normal (wife material) girls will not put out and sloot around..

Thats why women are supposed to lie, not to good guys but to idiots who think theyre entitled to sex but their woman isnt. Just lie its easy as that, although I wouldnt want to be with a guy who didnt respect his body.

**Isabeli** · 10-13-2012, 06:19 PM

Originally Posted by MackFrescoGirl

Thats why women are supposed to lie, not to good guys but to idiots who think theyre entitled to sex but their woman isnt. Just lie its easy as that, although I wouldnt want to be with a guy who didnt respect his body.

lol...no!..no matter what you say, they won't be able to handle it.

Honestly...it always,always just 2 and he's always the one "the best you've had" in bed. Keep stroking their massive ego's and they'll let it go.

**US_Ranger** · 10-13-2012, 07:01 PM

Originally Posted by Isabeli

lol...no!..no matter what you say, they won't be able to handle it.

Honestly...it always,always just 2 and he's always the one "the best you've had" in bed. Keep stroking their massive ego's and they'll let it go.

And this is why I never ask girls.

And this is why I've literally told girls "shut the fck up" when they start talking about this ****.

OMG, you're the best ever!

SHUT UP.

OMG, I've never had an orgasm like that!

SHUT UP.

**kel_varnsen** · 10-13-2012, 07:37 PM

Originally Posted by MackFrescoGirl

What about the women who have had sex with dildos? Does oxytocin release then too? Am I gonna become one with my dilly? lol

considering you're 135 i think you need to prepare yourself for a long term relationship with your dildo....

**FitnessBlue** · 10-13-2012, 09:16 PM

Originally Posted by kel_varnsen

considering you're 135 i think you need to prepare yourself for a long term relationship with your dildo....

That creature has been called out a few times before. Suprised still not red. A fault of the WK's in fem misc

**Shoot4hoops** · 10-13-2012, 09:47 PM

Originally Posted by kel_varnsen

considering you're 135 i think you need to prepare yourself for a long term relationship with your dildo....

135 is too fat? that's messed up on a bodybuilding site, a female could have that with 20% body fat and be in awesome shape.

**Shoot4hoops** · 10-13-2012, 09:54 PM

Originally Posted by US_Ranger

And this is why I never ask girls.

And this is why I've literally told girls "shut the fck up" when they start talking about this ****.

OMG, you're the best ever!

SHUT UP.

OMG, I've never had an orgasm like that!

SHUT UP.

This made me laugh out loud!

**HRodriguez93** · 10-13-2012, 10:01 PM

Maybe just that if she's had 900000 partners, what makes you think she wouldn't cheat on you with one of them? There's no stability there if she has to take it from that many dudes.

**Legend1617** · 10-13-2012, 10:13 PM

Originally Posted by Shoot4hoops

135 is too fat? that's messed up on a bodybuilding site, a female could have that with 20% body fat and be in awesome shape.

true I can't believe I actually agree with you but a girl 20% or under at 135 imo is above average physically for females..I think 99% of the brahs on misc though have unreal standards

Julie Foucher
age - 23
height 5'4
weight - 130 pounds

/would wife

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