I was fooling around with my g/f yesterday and it was not good. We were making out but I couldn't get hard. When we tried to have sex I only got semi hard. She tried playing around with it to make it hard, but it actually went completely soft.
I felt like complete crap afterwards but my g/f said it was ok. I'm only 27 so I don't think this should be happening to me. I used to easily get hard just by holding hands with her. Now I can't even get hard with her when fooling around.
What should I do? I don't want to be taking viagra at this age.
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08-18-2012, 12:38 PM #1
I was trying to have sex yesterday but couldn't get hard
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08-18-2012, 12:43 PM #2
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Still trolling I see.
I'd neg you but apparently I have to spread some rep around first.
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08-18-2012, 12:44 PM #3
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08-18-2012, 12:49 PM #4
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08-18-2012, 12:58 PM #5
I forgot to mention we have fooled around many times with out having sex. But yesterday was when we tried to have sex for the first time.
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08-18-2012, 01:04 PM #6
Happened to me the other day. worst. feeling. ever.
Thought maybe I was underslept + being active (gym/tennis all week). Could've been performance anxiety, which seems to be typical the hotter she is/more you like her. Don't know bro, just take it down a knotch, find a secure headspace, and try not to worry about it next time.
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08-18-2012, 01:21 PM #7
It happens more times than you think.
It happened the first time my gf and I tried having sex.
It is performance anxiety. You have feelings for this girl and you wanna please her. It happens.
My suggestion is to get Cialis it now until the nerves go away.EL PASO★STRONG
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08-18-2012, 05:00 PM #8
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Its prolly just a one time deal. Dont be upset with urself. Ur gf is prolly more upset than you are bc shes prolly thinking she not sexy enough for u but just give urself an hour break and get back into. That usually helps in my experience.
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08-18-2012, 06:39 PM #9
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08-18-2012, 07:00 PM #10
Brah anxiety is a major cause of ED but it may be just part of the problem. Depression and mood fluctuations can also cause ED. Erections start in the brain and if the brain isn't working properly, sexual problems will occur. I suggest you start with the penis ring and see if it helps at all. Haven't tried it but heard about it so if penis gets soft your a damn ring lol
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08-18-2012, 09:47 PM #11
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that happened to my friend once...hes gay now
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08-18-2012, 11:11 PM #12
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Could be anxiety, or even certain "supplements" or even coming off some certain "supps". Just do as chivasregal said and invest in some tadalafil. Im 31 and it has happened to me with my woman too. Youre both gonna feel embarrassed, and inadequate so just try make a joke and and laugh about it. "First day off my dick has ever taken and had to be that day...Fuuu" or whatever.
But seriously 5mg Cialis (tadalafil) will cure you.
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08-18-2012, 11:31 PM #13
stop masturbating so much and quit porn. look up porn-induced erectile dysfunction for more info.
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08-18-2012, 11:36 PM #14
Stimulants, stress, anxiety, alcohol, depression, lack of sleep, etc etc can all have effects on that. Have had it happen several times in the past. Usually if I'm tired (i don't get much sleep because i work nights and keep my kids during the day) or before when i have taken stimulants. As somebody else said, its not as uncommon as you think. People just don't like to admit it.
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08-18-2012, 11:40 PM #15
its anxiety
something is going on in your life that is distracting you. you have to relax or handle that and the boner shall return
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08-19-2012, 06:08 AM #16
happened to me 3 weeks ago, i bert stared my cawk for 10 minutes trying to get it hard. fml.
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08-19-2012, 04:08 PM #17
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still going through this dilemma my self. its been 3 weeks now. causing problems with this girl i was seeing, she wanted teh D. and i couldnt deliver. FML feelsbadman.jpg
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08-19-2012, 05:19 PM #18
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08-19-2012, 05:32 PM #19
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03-27-2016, 11:37 AM #20
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07-16-2017, 02:35 AM #21
Dude, I got you guys beat...girl I already ****ed hard a few weeks ago took me home w her friends the other night. I had 4 Jack and cokes and 4 beers so needless to say, I was feeling it. She started passing out so I carried her to the bed. I was gonna just pass out with her but when I locked the door, I turned around she is taking her pants off. I started in on her, but we were drunk, her friends were right across the hall and I just flaked. It happens. I said "give me 20 for a power nap and I will take care of you." No problem, right? She says ok, goes out to use the bathroom. Next thing I know, her 2 friends come in and tell me to get dressed and leave. Bitch had the nerve to text me a half hour later asking me to come back. Lesson here: don't do crazy.
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