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06-12-2013, 07:34 PM #2256
- Join Date: Apr 2013
- Location: California, United States
- Age: 34
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Honestly, a lot of you guys don't look that bad...what are your problems? Are you just not going out enough? I've been going out a lot recently and I used to go out a lot too, but there was a 3 or 4 month gap where I wasn't going out at night where I only met a couple different girls. Once I started going out again, I started having lots and lots more opportunities (doesn't mean I always succeed, though). It was like riding a bike, just took a night or two to get back in the groove. It is a numbers game after all/.
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06-12-2013, 08:43 PM #2260
- Join Date: Apr 2013
- Location: California, United States
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I lose my appetite as well when I get emotional about a girl and she is stressing me out. Happened with a girl I went on a few dates with a couple months ago. I don't have that much weight to lose, but when I saw how much I lost, I got pissed at promised I'd never let myself lose weight over some girl ever again. And guess what? I've gone on dates with 2 other girls since her, and I do lose my appetite, but I think of that girl I just mentioned and I ****ing force myself to eat, and now I don't lose my appetite so badly.
Before 6 months ago, all I was looking for was a hookup. Since then, I've been looking for more. Look, I've dated a good number of girls, but I would only say I ever had 2 'relationships' in my life so far. I fell into those. Now that I'm looking for it, it is a bit challenging, but I' slowly learning. There is a learning curve I've going through for sure. I won't lie, it can be frustrating, but I like a challenge, and I'm not going to accept that I can't do something as common as a relationship. Most of our parents did it, right? And most of them aren't exactly perfect human specimens.
Do you have any friends who aren't that nervous around girls that can go up to girls with you and get you some experience? Baby steps... Hell, if you're in the LA area, I'll take you out and we'll talk to a few girls.Making Music
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06-12-2013, 08:48 PM #2261
Yeah, it sucks when you order a big meal from a steak house, take it home, and only eat half because you're stressing over some chick you met online, or at a party.. Sucks balls.
I'd say the best thing for us men to do is just go for it.. Grab ourselves by the nut sack and just date.. You need to have the mindset of "this isn't the only girl in the world, and if it fails, it wasn't meant to be anyways.." Once you get past that barrier, it will all come natural (I hope..).
As far as the LA area, nope, I live on the other side of the country.I'm not in danger, *I* AM the danger!
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06-12-2013, 10:47 PM #2266
My ex. Cool woman, super motivated, didn't work out. Dated for about 3 months, plus sized model, awesome personality. Took a break and she was dating other guys, I called her out on it and ended it... painful two-three week death of the relationship. She really likes me and I like her, but we are not at the same points in our lives... yada yada yada... life story.
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Actual ------> Goal
Bench
265 ---------> 405
Squat
350 ---------> 600
Deadlift
425 ---------> 700
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06-12-2013, 11:15 PM #2267
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06-13-2013, 06:53 AM #2268
I am assuming FA means Forever Alone. Didn't know there was a qualifying exam.
First kiss at 21 and first relationship at 22-23. I am 26 and have been dating consistently between those ages and I am now taking a break until I can sort my life out. Dated a few models, dated jocks, good religious girls, moms, stoners, and etc... I know what I want and have to put on my best shoes now. What I have learned is don't force something and be confident about things. If you mess up, mess up big. Be nice and genuine, compliment her, but if you don't agree with something let her know. Substance is what everybody wants.Actual ------> Goal
Bench
265 ---------> 405
Squat
350 ---------> 600
Deadlift
425 ---------> 700
**All raw**
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06-13-2013, 01:36 PM #2269
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06-13-2013, 02:03 PM #2270
It's a little bit about looks, but it's not completely about looks. I've talked to lots of girls about it and the general concensus is that looks on a guy are pretty much pass or fail. A girl might look at you and not be attracted purely off of your looks, but if you're a genuine cool ass guy it makes you more attractive.
From the pics I've seen in ITT, most of you brahs are probably more aesthetic than I am and I seem to do just fine with the ladies.
Just an example. When I was 19 I was fat and I just broke up with my girlfriend. I got in the best shape of my life thinking it was going to make girls like me, it surely did not. I gained about 20-30 pounds back and started to figure out that girls were more interested in what you had to say than how you look. There's plenty of guys out there who are 8's and 9's that have trouble getting girls."When the apocalypse comes, there's gonna be nothing but smoke and dust. All you granola eating, nonsmoking motherf*ckers are gonna be coughing, wheezing, and whining while I take over what's left. "
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06-13-2013, 06:10 PM #2274
- Join Date: Oct 2011
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-never kissed/held hands/hugged a girl
-never touched a girl except high fiving a teammate on coed sports or accidentally touching the cashiers hand when giving them money
-been called ugly my whole life
-girls said "ew" or "I'd be embarrassed to be seen with you" when I asked them to my tennis formal
-never been approached by a girl
-never gotten a number when I've approached
-been out every thurs night, fri night, and sat night to bars/parties/clubs all 3 years of college, nothing
-played for my DI tennis team, play club tennis now. played intramural coed bball and softball all 3 years, nothing
I'm in the black, friend in the blue has a gf and always has girls hitting on him
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