Girlfriend Wants To Just Be Friends With Her Ex Boyfriend (HELP MISC)

[MEGAMODE]

The ex bf who was from her high school dumped her and then they had an on and off relationship always with him leaving her. She told me she regretted a lot for going back to him and how she hates him. But past is past and it's our life together now (the topic just came up when we shared things about ourselves).

That was then, now out of nowhere she wants to be just friends with him. She said she has to go for her high school reunion occasionally and she doesn't wanna act all awkward. Fine, but then it went to adding him on ******** and chatting a few times.

I said I did not like this, especially after she told me about him treating her badly in the past (I didn't want my girl looking cheap, that both effects my self esteem). But she told me she doesn't wanna be carrying all that hate and anger in her and just wants to move on and be like normal (that they were just friends before all of it anyway). I was still not okay with this when he told her how he regretted leaving her (the usual drama as it was again, how he regretted and she would go back to him). But she told his other friend that enough is enough and she told me to trust her as well.

Still I didn't find it necessary to be friends and she began to argue (which truly let me down with deep disappointment. Argue with me over this? Are you serious? What is so important about this now?) But she put the blame on me by saying I am making it an issue. Wise misc brahs, tell me what sh!t I am in. Disappointed....

[Gringo12]

No such thing as 'friends' between a guy and a girl

[StreetSharks]

shes going to be friends with the guy who fuked her throat and made her beg for more.....marry her op

[DKPSU]

Just because this is your first post, doesn't mean that you're exempt from the rule.

[McTom15]

Tl;dr

You mad?

[Wildturkeycrb]

Man it sounds fishy to me. Id put my foot down, she gotta respect you, or else.

Good luck brah.

[reflexes]

pics to see if shes worth it

[andresflores87]

Honestly Op just dump her ass, similar situation and dumped my Bish of 2.5 years and never been happier. Sloots gonna sloot Dirty won't be having that in this house nomsayin?

[Skythes]

What the fuk is with these August 2012 join dates making GF threads today??

[stOpSKY]

if your gf isnt a sloot you need to stop being an insecure *******. if she is a sloot... why are you even with her?

[squeak419]

[mainsqueeze530]

lol

end it now my dude

[heynah]

Lol, sounds like heartbreak on your part waiting to happen. Walk away, brah, walk away.

[Diddoo]

*picture him saying ****gggg

[JonOldSchool]

shes going to be friends with the guy who fuked her throat and made her beg for more.....marry her op

lmfao so cold.

[MMMKAYMAN1769]

No respect. Dumb her sorry ass. >

[natypes]

Lol @ you *******s asking for pics. This probably a regular miscer who has no intention of posting a pic so he made this acct to avoid the negs on his real acct.

Say no op this is ridiculous. This will lead down a bad road. Probably already has since she wants to be friends with him all of a sudden.

[MEGAMODE]

What a load of emotional waste. All that hopes and dreams..I feel like crap now.

[YeahYouMad]

lmao

lets be frank: that is no acceptable at all. you NEED to lay the rules down or drop that ho.

[TypeZero]

That's ****ing bull sht and you know it.


So you're just telling us, to give you words of encouragement to do what you know to do?

Your girl wants his cawk and if you accept this, you are a little btch. There is no reason for her to get her selfish way. Tell her to STFU and that if she needs to go to High School reunions or w/e, that you will be there and you will also be there to make sure they all feel awkward as fck.

You can also do what I always do...talk to the guy, tell him to either fck off or ask what his deal is. If he does something that doesn't agree with you, tell him that you can "escalate" things with him if he chooses.

In any case, you can and WILL get your way. There's no negotiation with sloots acting like this.

[InsanelyFit]

High School Reunion + your gf + her ex = p in v.

[MEGAMODE]

lmao

lets be frank: that is no acceptable at all. you NEED to lay the rules down or drop that ho.

She didn't listen to me. They have added each other on ******** and I tolerated it by telling myself to just trust her. She did this ridiculously mind retarding act one evening. We were online and she was telling me sorry for bothering me with her ex issue. But the next minute she said, "brb just wanna wish him happy birthday on ********."

I was clueless...I didn't know if she was aware or just playing with my feelings. I had lost my temper a few times and scolded her badly.

[JonOldSchool]

Seriously that would be awkward as ****. Especially if he is a douchebag. Maybe you guys could all go out to dinner together.. I'm sure you'd have some interesting things to chat about. Maybe he can fill you in on what she likes best while in the sack.

[anonymous]

You can never be just friends with someone u dated. Went through this dude exactly same thing. You know what the outcome was. Put your foot down. If she doesn't listen break her off so she knows your for reall if she chooses to be fiends with him instead of being your girlfriend well then she isn't worth it

[jaries12]

HE repeatedly dumped HER. She's not over him. Don't put up with it.

/thread

[MEGAMODE]

That's ****ing bull sht and you know it.


So you're just telling us, to give you words of encouragement to do what you know to do?

Your girl wants his cawk and if you accept this, you are a little btch. There is no reason for her to get her selfish way. Tell her to STFU and that if she needs to go to High School reunions or w/e, that you will be there and you will also be there to make sure they all feel awkward as fck.

You can also do what I always do...talk to the guy, tell him to either fck off or ask what his deal is. If he does something that doesn't agree with you, tell him that you can "escalate" things with him if he chooses.

In any case, you can and WILL get your way. There's no negotiation with sloots acting like this.

Lol! That was funny, I don't wanna act like I am forcing myself in her life. I mean if I have to chase after my own woman, it's over..

I tried to threaten her that I would leave and I left. She never stopped calling and texting me... but when I trusted and went back, she never changed. She basically wants me to have it her way and be there with her (at least she doesn't want to be dumped). I feel like a loser. I feel like she may dump me.

[natypes]

Tell her you want a break until she figures out what she wants. Stand your ground.

[leafs43]

This means 1 of 2 things:

1: She is using you to make her ex jealous

2: She is using you to get over her ex



Either option sucks for you. Just bail.

[SAILBRO]

All bad signs sorry bro... only gonna end one way based on what you've given us

[Skythes]

HE repeatedly dumped HER. She's not over him. Don't put up with it.

/thread

This.. never ends well