Just broke up with my girlfriend

[AlphaSaiyan]

She has to move hundreds of miles away, so breaking up was the only reasonable option. Logic aside, it's terrible... I'm a cold, rational person. I don't open up or let people get close to me, and I'm not very trusting. I'm fairly successful with women when it comes to sex, but I generally don't develop feelings for girls. As a result, I've never been with a girl who I cared about. This girl however, I liked her from the start. I had a huge crush on her and we became best friends, which is completely uncharacteristic for me. Then we started dating and after a few months fell in love. Letting someone close to me was so difficult, I didn't think I could do it, but with her I really did. Now I understand that I shouldn't have ever let someone get close to me, and I'm paying the price for it...

[l2evolution]

Sorry bro ;(

[strangeclouds]

If I was your boy irl I'd buy you a hooker to drown your sorrows in.

[AlphaSaiyan]

Sorry bro ;(

Thanks bro, it is what it is I suppose.

If I was your boy irl I'd buy you a hooker to drown your sorrows in.

You're a true bro.

[strengthgained]

If I was your boy irl I'd buy you a hooker to drown your sorrows in.

New avi everyday...each one is more disgusting (in the best of ways) than the last

OP you need to destroy everything that reminds you of her

[AlphaSaiyan]

New avi everyday...each one is more disgusting (in the best of ways) than the last

OP you need to destroy everything that reminds you of her

Yeah I know. She's coming to my house to pick her stuff up.

[Neddysmith]

Sorry to hear, but on the bright side you can go out and bang some sloots......

[AlphaSaiyan]

Sorry to hear, but on the bright side you can go out and bang some sloots......

Definitely going to do that, but I know that afterwards I'm just going to feel empty.

[Cmarroquin25]

pics?

[AlphaSaiyan]

pics?

Nah, I still love her. I'm not posting her pictures on an internet forum predominantly comprised of horny teenage males.

[Kuzon]

sea of plenty in the fish

[FeelTheFear]

age: 16

I guess this is expected if I venture into the Tmisc.

You seem smart though. I'm sure you're smart enough to realize none of this matters at all when you are only 16.

[Vanduynomite]

aside, it's terrible... I'm a cold, rational person. I don't open up or let people get close to me, and I'm not very trusting. I'm fairly successful with women when it comes to sex, but I generally don't develop feelings for girls.

You are me.

I am you.



But I'm sorry bro.. I know how it hurts to end a relationship, but ive only been in 1 long (3 year) relationship, and it didn't end because they had to move.

Stay strong buddy, we all got your back at the tmisc

[AdamNW]

goddamn alpha. what you said reminds me a bit of me, except mine came from trusting a girl who ended up cheating with like 2 other dudes (that i know of). im very much like you were - but i do know kind of know the feeling, but yours didnt come from any voluntary decision on her part.
time will heal this, until then just dont focus on your feelings. dont let yourself feel empty, just focus on studies/training/any other stuff you have in your life. as much as you might not like hearing it/feeling it, she wont be the first thing on your mind eventually.
just go have fun and try not to think about it.
we got your back alpha.

[slips]

She has to move hundreds of miles away, so breaking up was the only reasonable option. Logic aside, it's terrible... I'm a cold, rational person. I don't open up or let people get close to me, and I'm not very trusting. I'm fairly successful with women when it comes to sex, but I generally don't develop feelings for girls. As a result, I've never been with a girl who I cared about. This girl however, I liked her from the start. I had a huge crush on her and we became best friends, which is completely uncharacteristic for me. Then we started dating and after a few months fell in love. Letting someone close to me was so difficult, I didn't think I could do it, but with her I really did. Now I understand that I shouldn't have ever let someone get close to me, and I'm paying the price for it...

Let that be a lesson to you, brah. Now slay bishes and don't look back.

[AlphaSaiyan]

age: 16

I guess this is expected if I venture into the Tmisc.

You seem smart though. I'm sure you're smart enough to realize none of this matters at all when you are only 16.

I'm definitely smart enough to realize that. That's the thing about emotion though, it doesn't give a phuck about my logic.

You are me.

I am you.



But I'm sorry bro.. I know how it hurts to end a relationship, but ive only been in 1 long (3 year) relationship, and it didn't end because they had to move.

Stay strong buddy, we all got your back at the tmisc

goddamn alpha. what you said reminds me a bit of me, except mine came from trusting a girl who ended up cheating with like 2 other dudes (that i know of). im very much like you were - but i do know kind of know the feeling, but yours didnt come from any voluntary decision on her part.
time will heal this, until then just dont focus on your feelings. dont let yourself feel empty, just focus on studies/training/any other stuff you have in your life. as much as you might not like hearing it/feeling it, she wont be the first thing on your mind eventually.
just go have fun and try not to think about it.
we got your back alpha.

Yeah... Thanks dude.

[ChubbyCrusader]

Let that be a lesson to you, brah. Now slay bishes and don't look back.

This right here. Just remember, you=awesome. Forget the rest.

[GodOfGnar]

Why don't you get her back/ Tell her those things instead of crying about it. ****ing tell her how you feel about her and share you're last few weeks or whatever TOGETHER.

[most_dedicated]

better she has to move than she cheat bro. Now that **** sucks and makes you feel like hell. I'm currently going through that with this one girl (only considering staying because the sex is awesome)

[xJecht]

Yeah I know. She's coming to my house to pick her stuff up.

Coming to pick stuff up from your house.
You're 16.

wtf? What does she have to pick up lol?

Anyway, as I already said, you're 16. Plenty of time to develop new relationships with tons of others.

[JakeDiesel]

Im sorry for this stupid chit to happen, seems like this happens alot and it sucks brosef,
but soon you'll realize that all girls in high school will never be the ones we truly want, and relationships are a dead end until college or post-college,
I've stopped going for girlfriends but rather girls to talk to and have fun. High School sweethearts dont last, keep your head up and yolo

[Kyle0630]

Sorry, bro. Break ups sucks just move on and remember she was always a good part of your life. At 16 you got alot of relationships ahead of you, make sure you learned something from this one.

better she has to move than she cheat bro. Now that **** sucks and makes you feel like hell. I'm currently going through that with this one girl (only considering staying because the sex is awesome)

If she cheated once she will cheat again. Dump her and go find someone that deserves you. Plain and Simple.

[comps]

"Now I understand that I shouldn't have ever let someone get close to me, and I'm paying the price for it..."
The sad love life of a teenager.

I've crushed on 2 girls in the last 5 years.

Girl 1 asked me out, and before we went I found out she had a boyfriend, so I bailed on her.
****ing wh0re.

Girl 2 lives several hours away + moved to a new continent.

[AlphaSaiyan]

Why don't you get her back/ Tell her those things instead of crying about it. ****ing tell her how you feel about her and share you're last few weeks or whatever TOGETHER.

Actually, we decided to spend the rest of her time together. We're not together anymore but it will be as if we were when we're together in person.

better she has to move than she cheat bro. Now that **** sucks and makes you feel like hell. I'm currently going through that with this one girl (only considering staying because the sex is awesome)

I was never worried about her cheating.

Coming to pick stuff up from your house.
You're 16.

wtf? What does she have to pick up lol?

Anyway, as I already said, you're 16. Plenty of time to develop new relationships with tons of others.

Clothes, a few gifts (I insisted that she take them back)

Im sorry for this stupid chit to happen, seems like this happens alot and it sucks brosef,
but soon you'll realize that all girls in high school will never be the ones we truly want, and relationships are a dead end until college or post-college,
I've stopped going for girlfriends but rather girls to talk to and have fun. High School sweethearts dont last, keep your head up and yolo

I realized that before man, but I let myself fall for this one girl. She caught me off guard.

"Now I understand that I shouldn't have ever let someone get close to me, and I'm paying the price for it..."
The sad love life of a teenager.

I've crushed on 2 girls in the last 5 years.

Girl 1 asked me out, and before we went I found out she had a boyfriend, so I bailed on her.
****ing wh0re.

Girl 2 lives several hours away + moved to a new continent.

[Socalchoirboy]

that sucks OP
I feel you

[AlphaSaiyan]

Holy phuck. My girlfriend found out about bodybuilding.com, and saw that I have thousands of posts. She was like "baby what do you post about?" And I was like "Uh, bodybuilding stuff of course." And she was like "oh okay." Whew, bullet dodged.

Damn, just posting that made me sad. I have so many great memories with her and they only bring me pain now. So now I'm stuck between either living in yesterday being sad all the time, or forgetting one of the best things in my life. Haha love sucks dude. I'm not getting another girlfriend, I'm just going back to banging random sloots.

[Socalchoirboy]

Holy phuck. My girlfriend found out about bodybuilding.com, and saw that I have thousands of posts. She was like "baby what do you post about?" And I was like "Uh, bodybuilding stuff of course." And she was like "oh okay." Whew, bullet dodged.

Damn, just posting that made me sad. I have so many great memories with her and they only bring me pain now. So now I'm stuck between either living in yesterday being sad all the time, or forgetting one of the best things in my life. Haha love sucks dude. I'm not getting another girlfriend, I'm just going back to banging random sloots.

damn bro

[BobbaLoggan]

Love can suck can't it? We're here for you bro. PM me if you need to. Breakups never seem to be easy, especially when you fell hard for the girl. I went through a breakup too, but she still lives 15 minutes away and I see her around quite a bit.

[AlphaSaiyan]

I'm editing my post now (srs)
please edit your quote lulz

Done bro.

Love can suck can't it? We're here for you bro. PM me if you need to. Breakups never seem to be easy, especially when you fell hard for the girl. I went through a breakup too, but she still lives 15 minutes away and I see her around quite a bit.

I know man.



UPDATE: I'm well aware I'll probably get some sh*t for this, but I don't care. Her mother's plans changed and she's not moving for at least a month, and there's a chance she won't move at all. We're getting back together tomorrow. Realistically that's just going to make it hurt more when we break up, but I don't care one bit. I love her so I'm doing it lulz.

[strangeclouds]

better she has to move than she cheat bro. Now that **** sucks and makes you feel like hell. I'm currently going through that with this one girl (only considering staying because the sex is awesome)

I suggest you keep her around and find some other ladies on the side.