I'm So Tired Of People Saying "You Can Meet Girls Anywhere"

[Casser12]

I know that feel. My friends don't particularly hang out with many girls so its difficult. The only thing I can say is: expand your network of people. The more outgoing you are, the better the chance you will find girls around. Widen your network. Relying on friends and going to clubs to pick up girls is not going to happen.

Pursue activities and go out. Even if that means going out for a jog, taking the dogs for a walk, joining clubs to play sports even if you don't know anyone (srs). It's funny how things can happen. Just get out there I guess. That's the least you can do..

[WWE-TicK]

Does it matter? He sits when he pees.

I was gonna suggest learning how to salsa/latin dance and hitting up the latin dance clubs. Asking a girl to dance is much better than buying her a drink and then trying to think up a bunch of bullshyt to say to her. At least, thats how it was for me. And if you don't know how to dance, take lessons. That's what I did. Probably one of the best things I've ever done for myself.

[jamestown0101]

I was gonna suggest learning how to salsa/latin dance and hitting up the latin dance clubs. Asking a girl to dance is much better than buying her a drink and then trying to think up a bunch of bullshyt to say to her. At least, thats how it was for me. And if you don't know how to dance, take lessons. That's what I did. Probably one of the best things I've ever done for myself.

That and lifting I would say is an awesome thing any man can do for themselves. I hope this salsa dancing you speak of his much more masculine then the **** I see on tv. Too many nancy boys on tv these days prancing around. Yeah, there are tons of Salsa clubs and well, you can even learn on resorts when you leave the country for vacation depending where you go. Lots of entertainers have it but, its not easy. I did however meet a girl who was into salsa. I should say girls cause, she wasn't the only one. One was a skank and the other is much cooler. We still talk and hump.

girls approach me so s'all good

Same however, they are usually skanks and huge sloots that just want the daddy dick from some good looking guy to make them feel special about their ****ty life. It temporarily makes them forget about being a cum stain in life.

[Tony_S]

some guy i heard about would stop at bus stops and hit on the girls there/offer them rides lol


i'm with you OP but i don't ever approach women regardless. when i do go out they almost always come around and talk to me but i blow them off because i don't feel like having a conversation in a loud club via yelling in each others ear back and forth, and i don't care to walk outside with the bish to talk to her. i'm fine with that though. it sounds like you're not. if you're willing to be aggressive, you CAN meet girls anywhere. just gotta know when the right time to approach is and what to say.

edit - and my height has NEVER been an issue. brb dating girls that are 5'7 and over 6ft with heels.


manletting up in this mutha fukka cuzz

[Grimboslyce]

Day game cold approaches are the way to go. Book stores are very good, shoe stores are fckin bank, grocery stores are ok i guess...Though recently I have been obsessed with using PoF, but that's because I have been extremely lazy lately. Use those places OP.

Finally someone is speaking my language :P - try okcupid bro. It blows POF outa the water I believe.

[PowerTricks]

It's just pure nonsense


Let's talk about this logically


1)Gym - 90% of them have headphones on so you're f*cked there, you approach them and you look like a retard. No chance


2)Clubs/Bars - They all come there in groups of 4 or 5+ and you have no clue who is single and who is not. I don't know what percentage of guys actually feel comfortable approaching 5 strange women they don't know but I'm certainly not in that group. Horrible option


3)Work - you risk being fired for hitting on a girl if she doesn't like you. So that's another horrible option


A rare decent option is school but I'm about to be done with school and there are no attractive girls in my classes anyways (I live off campus). Meeting girls through friends is the only I one I would consider to be a natural situation but none of my friends have any girls for me to really meet. I went to a party for july 4th and there were some hot girls but as usual, they hung out in their little groups and made it impossible for me to talk to any of them


Women, do they even like men? Why must they make dating as difficult as humanly possible?

If you get fired at work for saying "hey, you wanna go out sometime?" then you must work at the lamest fuking place

[jamestown0101]

If you get fired at work for saying "hey, you wanna go out sometime?" then you must work at the lamest fuking place

I been smashing skanks in the work place since my first job. The **** is this ****? Op is a *******!

some guy i heard about would stop at bus stops and hit on the girls there/offer them rides lol


i'm with you OP but i don't ever approach women regardless. when i do go out they almost always come around and talk to me but i blow them off because i don't feel like having a conversation in a loud club via yelling in each others ear back and forth, and i don't care to walk outside with the bish to talk to her. i'm fine with that though. it sounds like you're not. if you're willing to be aggressive, you CAN meet girls anywhere. just gotta know when the right time to approach is and what to say.

edit - and my height has NEVER been an issue. brb dating girls that are 5'7 and over 6ft with heels.


manletting up in this mutha fukka cuzz

Tony S, check out pubs, parties or hit on bishes where the **** you go. You in school brah? I just simply do not give a single ****. Its funny too how much stigma there is about height in here in the misc or irl. I got a few friends that are by misc standards, considered manlets, and they slam bishes. Respect for not letting any of that **** hold you back. At clubs, I just grab women straight up. Still awaiting the day my ass gets slapped or into a bar fight cause of some bish.

Not real life! That **** only happens on tv or in the movies.

[Lieb]

I was in Ulta the other day with my girl and the place was crawling with women. my first thought was I should share this with the Misc. Pro tip:

beauty super stores like Ulta also carry Men's stuff, and are crawling with women- check it out

[jamestown0101]

I was in Ulta the other day with my girl and the place was crawling with women. my first thought was I should share this with the Misc. Pro tip:

beauty super stores like Ulta also care Men's stuff, and are crawling with women- check it out

Respect!

I get my haircut in a place crawling full of gorgeous women. I don't even have to be ****ing them but, the streets are full of gorgeous women, I am not shy, and they are all practice. Its not the super bowl. Its not the stanley cup finals best of 7. Its just about having fun and finding out are they adventurous?

Not a fan of the corpse in the sack.

[nzgs]

Where to find decent girls:

-socialise with your female colleagues after work, and meet their friends
-join some kind of sports club, for example beginner self defence classes
-go to low-key gigs, local bands, jazz nights etc. Go with friends and you have common things to talk about at the bar to any girls
-book/film clubs, LOADS of girls attend these.
-hit on shopkeepers, if you're not ugly it's surprisingly effective. Dont hit on the obvious 9/10 who gets hit on all day, pick the shy ones.

and finally the best way:
-do a psychology or sociology course.

nzgs approved

[trainTilfailure]

go up to girls in the street. Im dating my current gf cuz I approached her randomly while walking lol

[jamestown0101]

go up to girls in the street. Im dating my current gf cuz I approached her randomly while walking lol

picked up my gf on a flight back home from a business trip. Bishes be mirrin hard!

[Stankus]

go up to girls in the street. Im dating my current gf cuz I approached her randomly while walking lol

Same. About to enter into a relationship myself because I approached a girl outside of a restaurant at 10 pm at night.

You CAN meet girls anywhere. You're just a pussy.

[Jelet]

Gym is a decent place. But LOL @ clubs/bars. y the fk would u get a number from a girl from the club or bar.those are 1 night stand girls.... secondly, work lol if u get rejected how can u ever look her in the eye again? not to mention she will tell every1 that u asked her out... and u will like a beta *******.

u meet girls from cold approaching.


/thread.

[InsideMan]

holy sht OP http://lmgtfy.com/?q=places+to+meet+women

[HunterSadEyes]

i think its true you can meet them anywhere

[Jelet]

i just got a number tonight. i went to pick up my pizza at 9:50 pm today. and one of the cute girls that worked there was walking and smiled to me and said "ur not getting pizza are you" then i said " nah im getting a pie that i ordered" then we talk for 2 mins bs talk. and then i tell her shes cute and that we should hang out some time. and i got the number.


so LOl @ op. if u cant meet girls anywhere then you are pathetic and u need to focus on the gym. i dont even have game. i let my body do the work for getting numbers. i mean dont get me wrong. i have ok game. but im not some pimp game guy.

[Dr_Decay]

go up to girls in the street. Im dating my current gf cuz I approached her randomly while walking lol

picked up my gf on a flight back home from a business trip. Bishes be mirrin hard!

Same. About to enter into a relationship myself because I approached a girl outside of a restaurant at 10 pm at night.

You CAN meet girls anywhere. You're just a pussy.

Anyone can say that, but tell us what you SAID and the situation and the indicators. This is how people learn, through example, not by blindly being pushed into a situation without any guidance. That's how guys get traumatized by this stuff. They go in and make it all awkward. Tell them how you successfully approached, not just "just go and do it" .

[jasowhit]

It's all a numbers game. I just use every interaction as a learning experience. Just today I was standing in a checkout line behind a 6.5/10 (always head for a register with a cute girl in line/checker). Anywho, she drops something which pretty much lands at my feet. I pick it up and hand it to her with a smile. Fukcing kunt could barely grunt out and inaudible thanks. I wanted badly to go into rude mode. But you never know, maybe her dog just died or something.

[Family_Guy]

Maybe try the bookstore like Barnes and Nobles.

[AirJordanB]

2)Clubs/Bars - They all come there in groups of 4 or 5+ and you have no clue who is single and who is not. I don't know what percentage of guys actually feel comfortable approaching 5 strange women they don't know but I'm certainly not in that group. Horrible option

This is probably the ****giest/most stupid thing I've ever read. Picking up chicks in the bar is the easiest option. Their inhibitions are lowered due to the booze. You're obviously going about this the wrong way. You don't approach a whole group of girls...you pick one in the group and approach her. If you have a wingman, take him with you and let him distract the other girls while you talk to their friend. If you can't get the didgits from at least one girl everytime you go to the bar, you're probably just ugly as phuck and are therefore beyond helping.

[jayohthatman]

If you can't get the didgits from at least one girl everytime you go to the bar, you're probably just ugly as phuck and are therefore beyond helping.

at least u admit this is possible. most of misc says theres no such thing as ugly

[tikeshe]

I personally like talking to girls on trains. Reminds me of some french film (nohomo).

See someone you think is nice looking, find something to start the conversation and go from there.

Girl last week was reading fifty shades of grey, which made it easy for conversation and comments of the sexual nature.

In other words, just do it.

[exrtytos]

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