I'm So Tired Of People Saying "You Can Meet Girls Anywhere"

[IronTusk]

It's just pure nonsense


Let's talk about this logically


1)Gym - 90% of them have headphones on so you're f*cked there, you approach them and you look like a retard. No chance


2)Clubs/Bars - They all come there in groups of 4 or 5+ and you have no clue who is single and who is not. I don't know what percentage of guys actually feel comfortable approaching 5 strange women they don't know but I'm certainly not in that group. Horrible option


3)Work - you risk being fired for hitting on a girl if she doesn't like you. So that's another horrible option


A rare decent option is school but I'm about to be done with school and there are no attractive girls in my classes anyways (I live off campus). Meeting girls through friends is the only I one I would consider to be a natural situation but none of my friends have any girls for me to really meet. I went to a party for july 4th and there were some hot girls but as usual, they hung out in their little groups and made it impossible for me to talk to any of them


Women, do they even like men? Why must they make dating as difficult as humanly possible?

[poolshark472]

excuses excuses excuses blah blah blah blah blah blah

[ForeverYoung94]

i like approaching chicks in da club

[manletgenetics]

It's especially hard to meet girls if you lack a social life. The only place I can meet girls is online because I have no friends. I have go to school and work but don't make good connections and generally hate people. But I like getting my deek wet so I fuark the online bishes.

[Dr_Decay]

thats why instead of waiting for the perfect situation, you go up to them and find out for yourself.

/end

[IronTusk]

excuses excuses excuses blah blah blah blah blah blah

Just being honest here


Pretty much everybody I know met their girlfriend through a friend. That's the only way to get a girl. Every other option is horrible


For me, I have awful luck as none of my friends seem to have any female friends so I'm shit out of luck

[IronTusk]

It's especially hard to meet girls if you lack a social life. The only place I can meet girls is online because I have no friends. I have go to school and work but don't make good connections and generally hate people. But I like getting my deek wet so I fuark the online bishes.

Very true. Through friends and online dating are the only 2 seemingly decent options (although I don't know about online dating, I'm about to try it, we'll see how successful I am)



Do you get anything in terms of 7s or 8s on there brah? Or do you settle for the whales?

[Igmann]

OP I met about 90% of the women I've slept with at my university. For example I'm walking down the street going to class or something...girl is passing by and she's making strong eye contact or checking me out. I just stop and say "hey what's up..." she says "hey"...I introduce myself and tell her that I don't have time for small talk right now b/c I'm going to class. I tell her to gimme her number and I'll call her later. 4 hours pass by, I call her, we get together somewhere for coffee...small talk, get to know her, etc. At some point she says she has to go and invites me to her place either later that night or the following days. Or we just end it there and text back and forth. The texting gets sexual, I go to her place and we fck. Simple as that brah

OR

At my classes...Strong eye contact from any 7/10 or higher = sit next to her and say hi. Ask her if she wants to hang out later or something.

This can go for any scenario, you have to improvise.

OP...





















You Can Meet Girls Anywhere

[IronTusk]

OP I met about 90% of the women I've slept with at my university.

I already admitted this is not a bad option but I live off campus and I'm about to be done with school so this means nothing to me



Dating when you're out of school obviously blows

[robreynolds1234]

Club is the easiest option of all with no risk of being punished or anything, top of that if you are already a bit drunk you are already highly confident and don't have fear of being rejected or made fun of.

But at the end no matter where you are, it is the way and what you talk with them.

[JimmyRustle90]

OP is too pusssy to approach a group of drunk women and wonders why he can't get laid

[IronTusk]

Club is the easiest option of all with no risk of being punished or anything

Clubs are a ****ing horrible option. Anybody who says that is clearly a retard


BRB extremely loud music so you can't talk
BRB women come in packs of 4 so you have no idea who is single or not
BRB approaching them is hard as hell unless you feel comfortable approaching 4 strange women at a time (this is maybe 0.1% of guys)



Why do women go to clubs when they have zero interest in meeting guys?

[manletgenetics]

Very true. Through friends and online dating are the only 2 seemingly decent options (although I don't know about online dating, I'm about to try it, we'll see how successful I am)



Do you get anything in terms of 7s or 8s on there brah? Or do you settle for the whales?

honestly i get girls that are in the 3-6 range lol

there are 7-8's on there but they get so many messages from taller better looking guys that its tough to compete. But hey it's easy pussay. Its a good thing to do while waiting to snag a 7-8 quality girl in real life.

[IronTusk]

OP is too pusssy to approach a group of drunk women and wonders why he can't get laid

I don't really care about getting laid. I want a girlfriend



Fcking a bunch of women holds ZERO value to me whatsoever

[robreynolds1234]

Clubs are a ****ing horrible option. Anybody who says that is clearly a retard


BRB extremely loud music so you can't talk
BRB women come in packs of 4 so you have no idea who is single or not
BRB approaching them is hard as hell unless you feel comfortable approaching 4 strange women at a time (this is maybe 0.1% of guys)



Why do women go to clubs when they have zero interest in meeting guys?

Not all the time, some women also come in alone or with just with one friend, but mostly the lonely women are in their 30's who see club as the last option to meet a partner.

And yeah women go to clubs to enjoy music and drinking and maybe get a chance at getting free drinks from the man.

Just out of curiosity would you ever hit at a woman at the club in her mid 30's if you were just in your early 20's?

[robreynolds1234]

And yeah clubs are not a horrible option, it is the easiest option and some clubs are full of professional mature people.

[IronTusk]

Not all the time, some women also come in alone or with just with one friend, but mostly the lonely women are in their 30's who see club as the last option to meet a partner.

And yeah women go to clubs to enjoy music and drinking and maybe get a chance at getting free drinks from the man.

Just out of curiosity would you ever hit at a woman at the club in her mid 30's if you were just in your early 20's?

Yea I love cougars if they still look pretty good but I'm looking for a girlfriend so I'm not all that interested in a one night stand that doesn't lead to anything

[NorrisSWAG]

Work and Gym Agreed..but for the most part it sounds like u want an excuse to not approach the vagina and someone to pat u on the back and tell u "i know man". Truth is, u gotta have balls and thats what seperates u from women. Like it or not its the guys job to initiate..its the girl thats getting harrased at bars/clubs not the guy. just make sure u aim at ur level.. if u feel ur a good looking cat then the women will recognize it.if not, aim a lil lower..#REALTALK***GOT

[IronTusk]

Work and Gym Agreed..but for the most part it sounds like u want an excuse to not approach the vagina and someone to pat u on the back and tell u "i know man". Truth is, u gotta have balls and thats what seperates u from women. Like it or not its the guys job to initiate..its the girl thats getting harrased at bars/clubs not the guy. just make sure u aim at ur level.. if u feel ur a good looking cat then the women will recognize it.if not, aim a lil lower..#REALTALK***GOT

I understand it's the guys' job to initiate but I wish they would make it at least somewhat reasonable



Go to the gym without headphones on if you want to meet a guy. Go to the club with just a friend or two who are both single, stop bringing your friends out who have boyfriends. A club is supposed to be a singles hangout



As far as my looks go. I showed my pictures to an attractive female member here who said I'm very good looking (which I really appreciate, thank you again) and it's an older picture of me with a bad haircut and 30 LBs more weight than how I look now so I have no issues at all in that area

[jayohthatman]

the misc is full of bulls*it OP, stop listening.

[robreynolds1234]

Yea I love cougars if they still look pretty good but I'm looking for a girlfriend so I'm not all that interested in a one night stand that doesn't lead to anything

But even on a relationship level, a pretty cougar or a MILF can provide with you all kinds of mature love and protection you will never get from a wannabe, insecure girl in her 20's.

[robreynolds1234]

And yeah such woman are loyal too.

[IronTusk]

the misc is full of bulls*it OP, stop listening.

I dunno man, it feels like I'm the only f*cking guy out there who is forever alone among my friends


Practically all my friends have attractive girlfriends and year after year, I'm the one who is single and alone everywhere we go. I'm just so fed up and tired of it


I'm tired of asking questions about why I'm single, I'm tired of people bugging me about why they've never seen me with a girl. I'm tired of it all

[FeelTheFear]

All I see are limiting beliefs

[IronTusk]

All I see are limiting beliefs

limiting beliefs? Which ones?


I see a girl at the gym with headphones on. How in the world would I approach her without coming across like a retard?


I see a girl I like at the club, she's of course there with 80 of her friends. How in the world do I approach the one I like without looking like a retard? I don't feel comfortable talking to a huge group of people I don't know. Kudos to you if you can do that, you're clearly far more alpha than I am


Work is self explanatory. I don't want to get fired


Stores/Mall? How do you make enough of an impression on somebody in a 2 minute conversation at a Sears to make them want to date you?


Friends is the only natural option, of course none of my friends have any girls for me to meet (as I would expect with my luck). Once in a while I go to a party with some girls there but as usual, they hang out with their group of friends all night and make it impossible for me to talk to them

[robreynolds1234]

Try finding a lonely girl at a bus stop or a coffee shop

[iamdetermined]

OP I met about 90% of the women I've slept with at my university. For example I'm walking down the street going to class or something...girl is passing by and she's making strong eye contact or checking me out. I just stop and say "hey what's up..." she says "hey"...I introduce myself and tell her that I don't have time for small talk right now b/c I'm going to class. I tell her to gimme her number and I'll call her later. 4 hours pass by, I call her, we get together somewhere for coffee...small talk, get to know her, etc. At some point she says she has to go and invites me to her place either later that night or the following days. Or we just end it there and text back and forth. The texting gets sexual, I go to her place and we fck. Simple as that brah

OR

At my classes...Strong eye contact from any 7/10 or higher = sit next to her and say hi. Ask her if she wants to hang out later or something.

This can go for any scenario, you have to improvise.

OP...





















You Can Meet Girls Anywhere

not everyone is an 8/10+ buddy

[FeelTheFear]

You trolling bro? Just because you don't know how to doesn't mean it's not possible.

1. Easy, signal for her to take out her earbuds and just approach when she isn't busy

2. Go in and directly start talking to her. If the friends talk to you, then talk to them. But don't go out of your way to talk to them, focus on the girl. If you get blown out or cockblocked, keep doing it until it works.

3. Be friendly and not creepy and do most of the seduction through text, IM, or outside of the workplace

4. It's not 2 minutes. If you talk to a girl you can talk for as long as you want. Usually you aren't going to make a good enough impression unless you talk with her for 5-20 minutes. The 2 minute number closes are usually just that, number closes. They don't lead to dates.

oh and how to make a good impression? Be yourself, be direct, and ultimately don't care about the outcome

5. Just talk to them but I agree friends is not a very good way unless you are very popular

[FeelTheFear]

not everyone is an 8/10+ buddy

yea that wouldn't usually work LOL.

BRB girl looking at me, fuk her same night

[Southerncali805]

It's just pure nonsense


Let's talk about this logically


1)Gym - 90% of them have headphones on so you're f*cked there, you approach them and you look like a retard. No chance


2)Clubs/Bars - They all come there in groups of 4 or 5+ and you have no clue who is single and who is not. I don't know what percentage of guys actually feel comfortable approaching 5 strange women they don't know but I'm certainly not in that group. Horrible option


3)Work - you risk being fired for hitting on a girl if she doesn't like you. So that's another horrible option


A rare decent option is school but I'm about to be done with school and there are no attractive girls in my classes anyways (I live off campus). Meeting girls through friends is the only I one I would consider to be a natural situation but none of my friends have any girls for me to really meet. I went to a party for july 4th and there were some hot girls but as usual, they hung out in their little groups and made it impossible for me to talk to any of them


Women, do they even like men? Why must they make dating as difficult as humanly possible?

A true playa can get a girl ANYWHERE!

I picked up girls at the hospital, church, fast food places, hell even walkin down the street I talk to girls

Key is confidence.. Don't you have a single pimp bone in your body?

Girl is a HUMAN don't be afraid! If you get rejected don't stress there are another 3 million girls out there