Ask a Guy Who is Married and Rarely Has Sex Anything...

[jiMithing11]

10 whole years. There's a lot that goes into the mix in terms of hours worked and such. I'd hope I'm still attracted to her, as she is to me. Who knows.

well, as a newlywed i can't really speak from experience, but try talking to her about it, and definitely try some new stuff in the bedroom.

[povertybrah]

you're lucky that you get it once a week. i've been with the same girl for 3.5 years (not engaged, not married). i get it once every 2-3 months and she's super lazy. never does anything, just lies on her back, and complains that she doesn't like any other position so she doesn't want to do them.

no bj either. EVER.

fuk that...how did you last over 3 years with THAT? she better be rich or super hot

[clivecarver]

what is the typical day like in a married mans life?

[PrimusPalus]

OP I have a solution for this. It'll spice things up in your marriage, 100% guarantee.

Become a certified masseuse it takes like 6-8months. Then you're a master.

You give your wife a massage with nice baby oil. And then you smash away.

1. She's gonna want it every day. You will only give it to her once a week at a specific time, make it something she looks forward too.
2. Make her do things like give you head 10 times a week so that she can earn herself a Massage and Smash session.
3. Send Kard $1000 he needs it to pay for his college tuition on july 16th. (optional, but mandatory)

Interesting logic. I've done the massage thing before but never certified. Haha. I'll consider that.

1.Do you have kids
2.Does your wife seem into you at all
3.Are you into your wife still
4.Other than teh secks, how is life

1. Yes
2. I think so
3. Yes
4. Meh

Do you still think that handing in your balls was a good decision?

I'll say this... to those single, stay single. Enjoy the time and don't attach to one person forever just yet. For those in long term relationships... go for it. I don't regret it... but it's not turned out as best as I'd hoped.

you're lucky that you get it once a week. i've been with the same girl for 3.5 years (not engaged, not married). i get it once every 2-3 months and she's super lazy. never does anything, just lies on her back, and complains that she doesn't like any other position so she doesn't want to do them.

no bj either. EVER.

Ouch. Thanks for the motivation I guess. Once ever 2 or 3 months is a deal breaker for me.

You're doing it wrong bro.. Watch out before she starts creeping!

You gotta make sex as good for her, as it is for you.

Switch it up brah. Maybe she sick of your meat and potatoes.

I always thought it was for her... maybe I was wrong?

[TomByron]

you're lucky that you get it once a week. i've been with the same girl for 3.5 years (not engaged, not married). i get it once every 2-3 months and she's super lazy. never does anything, just lies on her back, and complains that she doesn't like any other position so she doesn't want to do them.

no bj either. EVER.

We should make a crew

[Chronic93]

you should whack yourself off and cum in the triangle between leg/vagina/leg after she's fallen asleep. Do this day upon day, and one day she'll realize its a lot more fun to **** than wake up with dried cum between her legs every morning cos u getting no pussy.

nomsayin?

[notsostrong]

I am no wizard but if you marry I see her becoming fat and never putting out then cheating on you with an agent from the British Broadcasting Corp

she's put on about 30lbs since we met. turning in to a whale. dumping her soon.

[TP800]

Hate to say it, maybe because I'm not married. Don't think it's right to divorce someone over sex lol. I mean is it really that important. If she is what you want in a part in every other way, do you divorce over sex. Lol what if you have kids. What do you say to them "mommy and daddy are splitting up because your mother isn't haven't sex with me enough" Lol wut!????? Going into marriage, you might not want to face it, but there isa very good possibility your wife may stop want to having sex on an everyday, or even an every week basis. Lol if you can't handle that, it's probably not a good idea to get married. Oh and if your wife has kids, and she changes, your pretty much ****ed. I have a question fo you though OP would you ever think about divorcing your wife, if she decides to have sex once every 1 or 2 months(Srs)?

[PrimusPalus]

do you turn to escorts/hookers when in dire need?

Not once.

I feel you bruh in the same situation once a week if lucky and she did the kids bulk not fat but not 120 pounds anymore. sucksman.jpg

Yeah.

Confront your wife straight away and tell her it is a serious issue and you won't be happy until she tells you the truth behind that ****. It's not your responsibility to try and entertain her with new ideas like a ****ing child, she should be more than happy to work through it together.

I've confronted her about it a couple times. Made it clear it's not acceptable for me. For a couple months or so things will get better, but never like it was (back before getting married... multiple times a DAY). After a short time, it always goes back to this.

what is the typical day like in a married mans life?

Let's see I work nights so... wake up... gym... eat dinner with the family... go to work. Come home, eat breakfast, see them off to work/school, then sleep. I still see them for a few hours a day (which seems fine considering they go to school and she works anyway). We take a day or so a week to do something fun and even hit up the occasional date. But yeah... I didn't even get any on Fathers Day. I don't think I got any on my birthday either.

Hate to say it, maybe because I'm not married. Don't think it's right to divorce someone over sex lol. I mean is it really that important. If she is what you want in a part in every other way, do you divorce over sex. Lol what if you have kids. What do you say to them "mommy and daddy are splitting up because your mother isn't haven't sex with me enough" Lol wut!????? Going into marriage, you might not want to face it, but there isa very good possibility your wife may stop want to having sex on an everyday, or even an every week basis. Lol if you can't handle that, it's probably not a good idea to get married. Oh and if your wife has kids, and she changes, your pretty much ****ed. I have a question fo you though OP would you ever think about divorcing your wife, if she decides to have sex once every 1 or 2 months(Srs)?

No. It's been suggested to me before my co-workers and such... but I wouldn't do it for just that fact alone.

Do you still have date nights as a couple? Do you surprise her with gifts or make her feel special?

I hear kids can affect romance though.

We try once a week for some us time... but it's in the afternoon and not what I'd consider a TRUE date. I try and get her things every once in a while and used to surprise her with cards in the morning just because.

[cyde]

How long into the marriage did it take for vagina stock to plummet? Did regular sex gradually phase out or was it a hard crash?

[Source7769]

Once a week? If I'm lucky.

buy her the 50 shades of grey books

[Eruption]

buy her "50 Shades of Grey"

[jm78]

Does your wife just have low sex drive? Or is she too busy, stressed out, or something else?

[clivecarver]

Let's see I work nights so... wake up... gym... eat dinner with the family... go to work. Come home, eat breakfast, see them off to work/school, then sleep. I still see them for a few hours a day (which seems fine considering they go to school and she works anyway). We take a day or so a week to do something fun and even hit up the occasional date. But yeah... I didn't even get any on Fathers Day. I don't think I got any on my birthday either.

what are your hobbies?

[Unberievable]

OP does every woman your wifes age eventually turn into an anti-sexual prude? If so I'm never f*cking getting married.

[ryan36_1]

I'm on that once a week schedule too, but for somewhat legit reasons. Both work 50 hrs/wk. Me the 9-5, her shifts, weekends. Kids are 1, 3, 11. 11 year old is in travel soccer, local soccer, swim, girl scouts.....


Honestly, have you guys talked? Sometimes it isn't the sex itself that's the problem, it's the routine.

Take the kids to your moms one day without telling her, take her out on a proper date, light some candles, and rock her world.

[Fortitudo]

Sorry to hear it OP. But you're forever in my thoughts.
Now every time I bang a sloot, prior to ejaculation, i'll shout.." This is for PrimusPalus"!
srs

[povertybrah]

OP does every woman your wifes age eventually turn into an anti-sexual prude? If so I'm never f*cking getting married.

pls dont

[E90335i]

All I can say is sorry. Maybe other things are affecting life. Like her work or your work. Stresses never help.
I hope things get better.

[PowerD]

Does she exercise? I know for a fact that a girl that works out regularly has a higher sex drive. Plus, if youve been working out, and shes put on a couple pounds, she probably feels unattractive

[PrimusPalus]

How long into the marriage did it take for vagina stock to plummet? Did regular sex gradually phase out or was it a hard crash?

It was gradual. Plummeted after first kid born, then started back up. Plummeted again after second kid... and then hasn't picked back up after 2 years. First kid was normal birth, second C Section so I don't think that can be blamed.

buy her the 50 shades of gray books

buy her "50 Shades of Grey"

I'm intrigued. I never heard of that book.

Does your wife just have low sex drive? Or is she too busy, stressed out, or something else?

I guess she does. Mine is retarded and is through the roof. She works, comes home, and repeats. On days off she hangs out here at home. I can't see her being too stressed. I can be a butthole sometimes but that's just when I'm neglected. :\

what are your hobbies?

Right now it's work and the gym. We've gone together to the gym but she doesn't like some of the stuff I do (like my bootcamp). I used to go fish, play paintball, etc. Just not a lot of time for it.

I'm on that once a week schedule too, but for somewhat legit reasons. Both work 50 hrs/wk. Me the 9-5, her shifts, weekends. Kids are 1, 3, 11. 11 year old is in travel soccer, local soccer, swim, girl scouts.....


Honestly, have you guys talked? Sometimes it isn't the sex itself that's the problem, it's the routine.

Take the kids to your moms one day without telling her, take her out on a proper date, light some candles, and rock her world.

Yeah it's been talked about before. Always seems to improve then get back to this. Which like I said is COMPLETE opposite of how we used to be.

Sorry to hear it OP. But you're forever in my thoughts.
Now every time I bang a sloot, prior to ejaculation, i'll shout.." This is for PrimusPalus"!
srs

HAHA... please do! "This is for Primus!" Haha.

All I can say is sorry. Maybe other things are affecting life. Like her work or your work. Stresses never help.
I hope things get better.

I hope that's all it is and it'll blow over.

Does she exercise? I know for a fact that a girl that works out regularly has a higher sex drive. Plus, if youve been working out, and shes put on a couple pounds, she probably feels unattractive

She goes a couple times a week... used to go everyday (as of last month) but not as much this month. I didn't notice any change though in frequency of sex.

[tund3]

Am i the only one who is fine with sex once a week? I find that with any new girl, the novelty wears off after like 3 months and then I don't want sex with them anymore than once a week anyway ...

[Kard]

Interesting logic. I've done the massage thing before but never certified. Haha. I'll consider that.

Oh thanks man, it's very much appreciated.

So should I just pm you my paypal or can you transfer the money over to my bank account?

[TP800]

Of the married guys who havE KIDS in here. Would you ever decide to divorce your wife because she didnt want to have alot of sex with you anymore. Say she went from even once a week to once every one or two months maybe even three. would you be ok with explaining to your kids or having your wife tell your kids "the reason mommy and daddy are getting divorced is because mommy isn't having sex with me enough". Lol do you think that's right?

[trailwkr]

You're just a pussy. It's time to move on, brah.

Sometimes a relationship is more than sex...I have been married many years... get sex once every 12-14 days-wish I had it more. However but we are best friends and get along great. Wife let's me do anything I want, buy anything without asking permission and go anywhere I want. NEVER BITCHES AT ME EVER

Some guys get great sex but their wives/girlfreinds are total beotches and are high maintence and are no fun to be around after sex..

When you get a little older you will see what I mean..

[BeReal23]

you're lucky that you get it once a week. i've been with the same girl for 3.5 years (not engaged, not married). i get it once every 2-3 months and she's super lazy. never does anything, just lies on her back, and complains that she doesn't like any other position so she doesn't want to do them.

no bj either. EVER.

I feel bad for the OP but this sh!t is just too pathetic to feel sorry for. Wtf?

[PrimusPalus]

Am i the only one who is fine with sex once a week? I find that with any new girl, the novelty wears off after like 3 months and then I don't want sex with them anymore than once a week anyway ...

All I know is... that's not cool with me. If I don't get some every other day at least I get to be a butt hole.

Oh thanks man, it's very much appreciated.

So should I just pm you my paypal or can you transfer the money over to my bank account?

Haha... if I had money to give, I would. The mouths need to be fed. I'll keep you in mind if I should win the lotto.

Of the married guys who havE KIDS in here. Would you ever decide to divorce your wife because she didnt want to have alot of sex with you anymore. Say she went from even once a week to once every one or two months maybe even three. would you be ok with explaining to your kids or having your wife tell your kids "the reason mommy and daddy are getting divorced is because mommy isn't having sex with me enough". Lol do you think that's right?

For me, no. I don't necessarily think that's a legit reason.

[ClothesRod]

my last GF froze on me so i know that feel.

her sex drive became 0, we 'broke up' she literally told me that she does not get horny ever, and slicks like once every 8 months (we were long distance for school)

meanwhile when i get with her i wanted it 4 times a day.


she literally just told me she could not handle that. and that i should get it elsewhere.


atm we are split, she has said she is is staying faithful to me, and that if her sex drive returns she will tell me and we can see if we want to pick it back up. . .

so now im single on a couple month drought, been awhile since i was in the game.



feels weird man.

[clivecarver]

Right now it's work and the gym. We've gone together to the gym but she doesn't like some of the stuff I do (like my bootcamp). I used to go fish, play paintball, etc. Just not a lot of time for it.

whelp i think im all out of questions. put money away for the future in a place she cant get to it, just in case things go sour between you two.

[Homeboyjosh1]

your 234 lbs maybe cut down to 200 man. (SRS)