I don’t really care if it’s a random person but why does he do that way with ONLY me?
He’s a friend of a friend and the first time I met him he did the same thing like talk to me and not look at my face again (you’re NORMALLY supposed to look at the person you're talking to)… I thought he was shy and I wasn’t too bothered because I didn’t talk to him for long as it was the first time.
Since then I’ve seen him around talking and smiling with other girls and even one of my close friends.
I saw him again yesterday and talked to him and he did the same again and it kind of really upset me for some reason. I found it rude because we were talking and he was asking me questions without even looking at my face or he would just look at his phone screen and ask me questions. It was so awkward, I feel like avoiding him next time and not talking.
I don’t know if he’s just a snob or stuck up because he was being nice :S. I don’t understand why he would do that? Like why would you continue talking and ask someone questions if you’re not going to make any eye contact? He’s not shy otherwise he wouldn’t talk and ask me questions in the first place.
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08-01-2012, 08:19 AM #1
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He only looked at my face once throughout the whole time :/
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08-01-2012, 08:20 AM #2
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08-01-2012, 08:24 AM #4
Jaw drop @ bodyspace
he might just be intimidated by you, maybe because youre alone? When he smiles and stuff at other girls is he around a group of people?
If thats the case it might be habit, I sometimes notice myself not actually making eye contact and force myself to look at them. He may just not realise. I wouldn't take it to heart.
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08-01-2012, 08:27 AM #5
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08-01-2012, 08:37 AM #14
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The girl he was talking to, smiling and looking at her face before me was really pretty, he always talks to my close friend and she's really pretty too so i don't think he's intimidated by girls. I've actually seen him flirt with other girls too, And also he hadn't met my friends sister before and when he did for the first time ( I was observing from far) he was talking to her properly.
I couldn't help but get upset for about 20 minutes after this although I didn't tell anyone. Like what did he think I would do as a result of that? What does he want me to do?
It's happened before where I was talking(flirting though) to an older guy and he doesn't look at my face. It's a little awkward because i'm not sure what I should do when i'm talking to someone and they avoid eye contact. Just drop it and not talk anymore? so awkward!
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08-01-2012, 08:38 AM #15
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08-01-2012, 08:43 AM #17
this is a VERY strong possibility. you're obviously attractive. and you mentioned you thought he was shy at first. but he's only like that with you... ding ding.
ALSO, that he continues to talk to you. so he's obviously not put off or trying to get away.
IMO, he probably likes you and sucks with girls he likes.
my suggestion is to throw him a bone. make things easier for him.
edit - maybe your face/eyes is what gets him. where he cant look into your eyes without being a spaz.
REAL TALK. no misc bs
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08-01-2012, 08:45 AM #18
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08-01-2012, 08:45 AM #19
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08-01-2012, 08:59 AM #29
It's not rocket science. He's obviously more comfortable with the other girls, even if they are pretty. You are probably a little intimidating to him, that combined with the fact that he isn't as comfortable makes him act like that. I've been in that situation before and probably made girls go "WTF he hates me" just like you are. It makes girls wonder about you and desire you because you seem uninterested, when really you are.
Word of advice...guys don't just do random chit for no reason. Think about that...are you really THAT ugly that he would ignore you? No you arent. We don't just disregard/ignore pretty girls, and judging from your bodyspace you are. If anything you should be glad he treats you differently then the others, shows that he's somewhat interested and trying to build rapport. There's always a reason to why we do what we do, we don't do random things. So in other words, we arent women.
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08-01-2012, 09:02 AM #30
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