I always thought I didn't want kids, now I am convinced (srs discussion)

[ReecesNikka]

http://www.forbes.com/sites/ericagie...ouldnt-either/

I’m not having kids because I can’t in good conscience contribute to the rapid diminishment of our world. If I were to have kids, their quality of life would be less than mine, and I don’t want to condemn them to that.

Opening up my thread with a quote, hell yeah.

Anyways, I always thought I didn't want kids, but in the last month I have been convinced.

My current boss was 9 months pregnant when I joined the company. This was in May, so the baby has been born.

During pregnancy

-She couldn't move very well
-Had to watch what she ate and drank
-Couldn't really go out as much as she used to
-Was a cranky bish (she said so herself); imagine living with that?
-Husband gained 25 lbs from all the cakes/desserts were giving them. Dude used to be handsome (no homo), but now pudgy as fuk

Now that baby is born

-She has no free time to do anything on the weekends/evenings with her husband or family
-The baby is basically attached to her 24/7. Bathroom, bedroom, going out to eat, meeting with clients etc. Imagine having this dependent attachment on you whereever you go
-Same with her husband, no free time, also cares for the baby so can't really do much
-She brings the baby to work; cries all the fooking time, chits everywhere
-I overheard her saying she breastfed him in front of one of her clients once. whatamihearing.mp4
-She had to take time off of work, in which the company was a fuking mess cause she wasn't there to take care everything
-Spending $ on all these clothes that he will outgrow in 6 months


Basically her entire life revolves around this little chit. Can't go out, can't go to the bathroom to take a duece without carrying him along.

Heard yesterday on the radio it costs $265k to raise a kid to 18. u wot m8. On top of that, I also heard that husbands and wives talk to each other about 11 mins a day once they have kids. Da fuk.

Sorry I want to be able to spend time and money on myself, with my family and friends than have a little chit dependent upon me.

Seems like society paints you as an outcast if you don't have kids, so everyone has them. If you really truly want them, and are good at raising them, more power to you, and no hate. Just not for me.

(This is assuming I actually fook a girl ever )

[ReecesNikka]

discuss

[nyczace]

[Jrdath]

She breastfed her baby in front of a client? What type of tacky chit is that?

[ReecesNikka]

She breastfed her baby in front of a client? What type of tacky chit is that?

very srs. heard her say this to another coworker.

[bmp010]

Agree op

[CheeBye]

I support children, I just dont think that I should be a parent.

[ReecesNikka]

Agree op

I support children, I just dont think that I should be a parent.

good call

[Jalexander1994]

Eh, disagree.
You're thinking of the baby as a drag on your life.
A THING rather a person.
Parents don't look at the stuff like that, they enjoy the fact they have a child.
But your opinion is your opinion.
I'll respect that.

[PhrygianLydian]

I have 2 uncles on my mom's side. 1 had 4 kids and his once tiny wife is a fat reclusive blob. Now my one slut cousin is knocked up and he's finna be a grandpa at age 48. My other uncle never had kids, and is happily married, still very in love with his wife, self employed, lives in a ballin house on like 50 acres. Makes his living taking rich dudes from the city on hunting trips and being a snowboard instructor in the winter. Guess which life I'd rather have

[ReecesNikka]

Eh, disagree.
You're thinking of the baby as a drag on your life.
A THING rather a person.
Parents don't look at the stuff like that, they enjoy the fact they have a child.
But your opinion is your opinion.
I'll respect that.

thanks brah

I have 2 uncles on my mom's side. 1 had 4 kids and his once tiny wife is a fat reclusive blob. Now my one slut cousin is knocked up and he's finna be a grandpa at age 48. My other uncle never had kids, and is happily married, still very in love with his wife, self employed, lives in a ballin house on like 50 acres. Makes his living taking rich dudes from the city on hunting trips and being a snowboard instructor in the winter. Guess which life I'd rather have

not sure if copy pasta but i agree. ballin that he has a wife but not a stressful life. good work uncle #2.

[Fred87nc]

Eh, disagree.
You're thinking of the baby as a drag on your life.
A THING rather a person.
Parents don't look at the stuff like that, they enjoy the fact they have a child.
But your opinion is your opinion.
I'll respect that.

lol fukin 17, gtfo

[Unpleasantries]

agreed

breastfeeding in front of clients? u wot m8

[blink702]

All you guys need to know is that soon one day youll get old.....yep you will....than you will wish you had one...then when you do and you fall in love with it youll want more....having a baby changed my life 100% and im a lot more happier. One thing I beleive in is you can NEVER be prepared for a child, everyone will react and have different experiences. But none the less its the most amazing feeling to have your child smile, hug, kiss, and fall asleep in your arms. GL to you all

[Fred87nc]

agreed

breastfeeding in front of clients? u wot m8

it could of been another female, and was understanding about it.

[PEETcassidy]

I understand that this kinda logic is lost on a bunch of virgins, but the feeling of being a father is indescribable and defintely somthing that can be regarded as priceless.

My uncle told me when i was a young teenager that no matter what you achieve you dont really know what it is to be a man until you have a kid. I thought he was a senile old dikk, until i became a father myself. I wouldnt swap my son for a hundred billion.

[ReecesNikka]

$10,000: Amount a couple will spend on their baby in the first year

Department of Agriculture survey says it costs $234,900 to rear a youngster from birth through the age of 17, and wealthier families pay more. And that doesn't include college.

[ReecesNikka]

that means 2 kids costs $500k. ill have this instead, thanks.

[JordanBrah]

All you guys need to know is that soon one day youll get old.....yep you will....than you will wish you had one...then when you do and you fall in love with it youll want more....having a baby changed my life 100% and im a lot more happier. One thing I beleive in is you can NEVER be prepared for a child, everyone will react and have different experiences. But none the less its the most amazing feeling to have your child smile, hug, kiss, and fall asleep in your arms. GL to you all

I understand that this kinda logic is lost on a bunch of virgins, but the feeling of being a father is indescribable and defintely somthing that can be regarded as priceless.

My uncle told me when i was a young teenager that no matter what you achieve you dont really know what it is to be a man until you have a kid. I thought he was a senile old dikk, until i became a father myself. I wouldnt swap my son for a hundred billion.

These


Those $$ statistics are a load of shyt too.

[mafland]

procreating is the only reason we are on this earth.

It's the only purpose.

man the **** up *******.

[PhrygianLydian]

@ all the butthurt *******s with kids: Not everyone wants to live their life like you do

[ReecesNikka]

@ all the butthurt *******s with kids: Not everyone wants to live their life like you do

There seems to be some stigma in society if you don't want to have kids.

When there is a couple with no kids, it seems often times people think maybe she wasn't able to have any, or they are "weird" for not wanting them.

[Ek2]

wait until your midlife crisis comes and you're ****ting your pants trying to find a woman that you don't despise and can bear children for you



seriously though, I want kids, but only if I'm able to support a family on what I make. **** that early 20's having children crap, if I'm having kids I don't want to be scrounging for money to pay the babysitter and whatnot, I want to be able to enjoy it.

[footmenrow]

I will not be the first in my ancestral history, to fail the continuation of my genes.

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

She breastfed her baby in front of a client? What type of tacky chit is that?

She probably shot him some milk across the desk. Hell, I would've ask for a shot my damn self.....

[jayohthatman]

if I have a lot of money, i'll adopt. if not no kids and not a phuck given

[ReecesNikka]

if I have a lot of money, i'll adopt. if not no kids and not a phuck given

good call on adoption. so many of them out there.

[jayohthatman]

I wouldnt swap my son for a hundred billion.

oxytocin / explanattion

id sell my own soul for 100 billion, let alone some dependent baby I slave for

[Mysterious One]

I would honestly rather spend my life working hard to develop my career and turn myself into a CEO 10k/day.

Then when I'm 50 I'll adopt a little Korean kid and with my millions I'll turn him into a ninja assassin.

[jayohthatman]

I will not be the first in my ancestral history, to fail the continuation of my genes.

its not a fail if u didnt want to. lol that u feel obligated, u dont owe s*it to anyone.