wtf is wrong with me....never felt this way about a girl

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 09:48 PM

so i've hooked up with a lot of girls and dated a handful too, but i met this girl last night and i've been obsessing about her. my stomach is hurting it's that bad....i've never been this pathetic. she's a really cool girl and definitely one of a kind.

here's the story:
i went out with some of my friends last night, and she is friends with one of my friends and we were introduced to each other. i thought she was really cute, but didn't really do anything about it. my friend then told me later that night that she thinks i'm really cute. so i get her number by the end of the night, but the thing is she kinda has a "bf" but my friend said they're only "seeing" each other, nothing serious at all and i can definitely go for it. i pretty much got her number right in front of her bf.

so today i txt her saying what's up. she txts back like 2 hrs later saying "yo is this (my name)?" i say some cocky thing back, and i haven't gtten a response all day. i've never had this happen!

i know she's into me for sure. she found me and friended me on ********, but what's up with the txt?

i sound like a pathetic little bitch, but i need some advice...

**RandomMisc** · 03-14-2009, 09:59 PM

lol, what cocky thing did you text her?

**monster111** · 03-14-2009, 10:01 PM

Could be the dude shes "with" but the add on ******** is probably a good sign.

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 10:06 PM

Originally Posted by RandomMisc

lol, what cocky thing did you text her?

she was like "yo is this (my name)?"

and i said something along the lines of "you would want it to be (my name) wouldn't you?

" and i added some other inside joke we had

Originally Posted by monster111

Could be the dude shes "with" but the add on ******** is probably a good sign.

na the dude looks like a complete panzy. has no dominance whatever. me and the girl were eye fuking the **** out of each other while he was just standing there staring at me.

**D-Biggies** · 03-14-2009, 10:08 PM

already have an inside joke damn brah u already in her pants srs

**victorcantoran** · 03-14-2009, 10:09 PM

Originally Posted by solidsnake88

she was like "yo is this (my name)?"

and i said something along the lines of "you would want it to be (my name) wouldn't you?

" and i added some other inside joke we had

na the dude looks like a complete panzy. has no dominance whatever. me and the girl were eye fuking the **** out of each other while he was just standing there staring at me.

Lol eye fuking. Nice.
Dont know brah text her bck

**monster111** · 03-14-2009, 10:10 PM

I would jus wait and see bruh, you obviously made a good enough impression on her since she added you on ******** after meeting you once.

**LovesMuscles** · 03-14-2009, 10:11 PM

Sound like you're more obsessed about the text, not her.

What did you write?

And you met her last night. I would call that temporary one-itis. It'll probably pass after some time or once you get to know her better.

**Crusher_** · 03-14-2009, 10:17 PM

Chill out dude its been one day, you dont want to get "One-itis"

Stop thinking about her and if you haven't heard from her in a few days then text her again or something

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 10:23 PM

Originally Posted by victorcantoran

Lol eye fuking. Nice.
Dont know brah text her bck

ya seroiously dude. she would constantly be looking at me and i gave her that sly seductive smile and she would crack one of those shy smiles u know. then i just motioned with my eyes for her to follow me and got her number. gave her my phone, not even one word exchanged, and she entered her number in. it was freaking epic.

Originally Posted by D-Biggies

already have an inside joke damn brah u already in her pants srs

i hope so brah lol

Originally Posted by monster111

I would jus wait and see bruh, you obviously made a good enough impression on her since she added you on ******** after meeting you once.

ya that's what i was thinking.

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

Sound like you're more obsessed about the text, not her.

What did you write?

And you met her last night. I would call that temporary one-itis. It'll probably pass after some time or once you get to know her better.

i dunno man. i've NEVER felt this way about a girl i just met. she's...intriguing. maybe it is the txt..but either way i can't stop thinking about her lol. and as i said before, i just wrote her the you would want it to be me or smething with an inside joke. it's a dumb inside joke so i'm not gonna say what it is

Originally Posted by crusher_

Chill out dude its been one day, you dont want to get "One-itis"

Stop thinking about her and if you haven't heard from her in a few days then text her again or something

ya i seriously do need to chill out. i've never had one itis with a girl i just met.

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 10:25 PM

should i txt her tomorrow? i was thinking:

"has anyone told u how much u suck?"

and if she responds with why? i'll be like u'd be the worst txting buddy ever etc but there is one thing u can do to make it up...and set up a coffee date? yay or nay?

**XAU** · 03-14-2009, 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by solidsnake88

so today i txt her saying what's up. she txts back like 2 hrs later saying "yo is this (my name)?" i say some cocky thing back, and i haven't gtten a response all day. i've never had this happen!

i know she's into me for sure. she found me and friended me on ********, but what's up with the txt?

i sound like a pathetic little bitch, but i need some advice...

It's called mind games!! Girls like to do it all the time and you should start doing it too! just chill, don't jump...play it like you don't give ****!

**Sounds Good** · 03-14-2009, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by solidsnake88

should i txt her tomorrow? i was thinking:

"has anyone told u how much u suck?"

and if she responds with why? i'll be like u'd be the worst txting buddy ever etc but there is one thing u can do to make it up...and set up a coffee date? yay or nay?

this. don't do it.

just wait it out bro. and what kinda girl says YO.

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 10:35 PM

Originally Posted by XAU

It's called mind games!! Girls like to do it all the time and you should start doing it too! just chill, don't jump...play it like you don't give ****!

ya...but not txting back at all?!

Originally Posted by Sounds Good

this. don't do it.

just wait it out bro. and what kinda girl says YO.

wait, so ur saying doon't txt her or do txt her?

and this hot girl says yo apparently.

**LovesMuscles** · 03-14-2009, 10:41 PM

Ok solidsnake, how cocky was the text? Tell us.

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 10:55 PM

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

Ok solidsnake, how cocky was the text? Tell us.

i already said twice. here i'll say a third time:

she was like "yo is this (my name)?"

and i said something along the lines of "you would want it to be (my name) wouldn't you? " and i added some other inside joke we had

u want the inside joke too? fine. we were all chilling at her house and she had some chicken that she was giving to ppl cuz everyone was hungry (she put some chicken in a plate and asked me first if i wanted it btw, and i said no give it to other ppl)

so in my txt i said: you know, you still owe me some chicken....apparently it tastes good but i never got some

now the reason it's an inside joke is bc i was asking if the chicken was any good, and she said "my chicken is very tasty" totally implying the sexual innuendo. so there, u have it.

**LovesMuscles** · 03-14-2009, 11:04 PM

Originally Posted by solidsnake88

i already said twice. here i'll say a third time:

she was like "yo is this (my name)?"

and i said something along the lines of "you would want it to be (my name) wouldn't you? " and i added some other inside joke we had

u want the inside joke too? fine. we were all chilling at her house and she had some chicken that she was giving to ppl cuz everyone was hungry (she put some chicken in a plate and asked me first if i wanted it btw, and i said no give it to other ppl)

so in my txt i said: you know, you still owe me some chicken....apparently it tastes good but i never got some

now the reason it's an inside joke is bc i was asking if the chicken was any good, and she said "my chicken is very tasty" totally implying the sexual innuendo. so there, u have it.

lol ooo. I just skimmed.

Text her again I guess?

One thing I've learned from girls is that just because they act interested or flirt, doesn't mean they actually are.

**XAU** · 03-14-2009, 11:06 PM

nothing wrong with your reply to her, and I don't find it cocky!

Like I said it's mind game, so you better wait some days (maybe next weekend) before texting her again. Take it slow if you really like the girl so you don't ruin it!

And if she text you back, don't text her right away, add elements of mystery and always reply like you are not putting that much effort in writing the text! Just keep it short, witty and funny so you keep her interested in you.

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 11:07 PM

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

lol ooo. I just skimmed.

Text her again I guess?

One thing I've learned from girls is that just because they act interested or flirt, doesn't mean they actually are.

wait, i thought u were a girl?

and she txted my friend telling him she thought i was cute. and like 3 of my friends told me that i'm her "perfect" type of guy and she was literally oogling over me the whole time. my friends totally noticed it haha

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 11:10 PM

Originally Posted by XAU

nothing wrong with your reply to her, and I don't find it cocky!

Like I said it's mind game, so you better wait some days (maybe next weekend) before texting her again. Take it slow if you really like the girl so you don't ruin it!

And if she text you back, don't text her right away, add elements of mystery and always reply like you are not putting that much effort in writing the text! Just keep it short, witty and funny so you keep her interested in you.

maybe i should add the fact that she said she's having her bday party this friday, and literally asked me TEN times to come and said i HAVE to come. i can't wait till next weekend to txt her lol

**Sounds Good** · 03-14-2009, 11:18 PM

Originally Posted by solidsnake88

maybe i should add the fact that she said she's having her bday party this friday, and literally asked me TEN times to come and said i HAVE to come. i can't wait till next weekend to txt her lol

dude, you're in. quit questioning yourself.

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 11:21 PM

Originally Posted by Sounds Good

dude, you're in. quit questioning yourself.

i think i am freaking out about the txt then...why didn't she txt me back?!?@#?!@?@#!%#@$^#$^&%#$ lol

**XAU** · 03-14-2009, 11:22 PM

Originally Posted by solidsnake88

maybe i should add the fact that she said she's having her bday party this friday, and literally asked me TEN times to come and said i HAVE to come. i can't wait till next weekend to txt her lol

ok then here is your chance, either you text her a day or two before her BD party, oh simply show up since you already got invited.

And you never know, maybe she will text you back before that!

but rules that never text her or make two phone calls to her less than 48 hours apart, unless she's texted you or called you back.

Give her some challenge, girls don't like a total desperate loser!

**user45354** · 03-14-2009, 11:23 PM

the dude prob intercepted the text and deleted that ****

**solidsnake88** · 03-14-2009, 11:39 PM

Originally Posted by Sl@yer

the dude prob intercepted the text and deleted that ****

oh **** dude what if it was the case?

naaaa i'm being paranoid

or am i??

**Kang114** · 03-15-2009, 12:40 AM

Originally Posted by Sl@yer

the dude prob intercepted the text and deleted that ****

how was this not the first obvious thought?

**spank_lolz** · 03-15-2009, 12:44 AM

maybe she doesnt like cocky dudes. i sure dont

**Amoral** · 03-15-2009, 12:53 AM

Biggest mistake you can do is be impatient. So many dudes think that if they drift off and do their own thing its all over. THAT IS NEVER THE CASE.

**willoughby** · 03-15-2009, 12:59 AM

No girl is special brah, remember that.

I'd just wait until she texted me back and then go from there like other's have suggested.

**solidsnake88** · 03-15-2009, 01:04 AM

Originally Posted by MetallicaMan88

Biggest mistake you can do is be impatient. So many dudes think that if they drift off and do their own thing its all over. THAT IS NEVER THE CASE.

Originally Posted by willoughby

No girl is special brah, remember that.

I'd just wait until she texted me back and then go from there like other's have suggested.

but what about that possibility of her bf really intercepting the txt? i think i'm gonna wait till monday and then ill txt her again.

or i can ask out mutual friend what's up with her in like 3 or 4 days if i don't get a txt or any response.

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