How come women get over relationships so easily? MIND=blown

[trollum]

How many times have you heard of a female killing themselves over a guy?? That's right, NEVER it's RARE but you hear of guys killing themselves all the time. A friend of mine was engaged to his girlfriend of 7 years and when they broke up I seen her like a week after with another guy happy as ****

Do women move on quicker or are they just heartless bitches that never truly care about their partner in the first place?


Discuss

[WHeitzman]

because they have already started the next one before ending the current relationship

[LucasDavenport]

Yep. Monkey branching. And for the most part women aren't secure enough to be single.

[machinebrah]

ok so misc this chick was talking to me for a couple months (flirtaitous) then broke up w/ bf of 2 yrs. feel like she might be monkey branching onto me. wat do? strong sl00t / 10? ignore / 10?

[Beararms]

Monkey branching, men tend to care very little at the begining but when he "thinks" she is legit men fall very hard.

[communistpanda]

this girl at my school said she talks to multiple guys at once just in case one breaks her heart she has another guy to go to.

[icemancl1]

How many times have you heard of a female killing themselves over a guy?? That's right, NEVER it's RARE but you hear of guys killing themselves all the time. A friend of mine was engaged to his girlfriend of 7 years and when they broke up I seen her like a week after with another guy happy as ****

Do women move on quicker or are they just heartless bitches that never truly care about their partner in the first place?


Discuss

Woman are ****ed up and will easily find someone to deal with their bull**** and They will use any guy to get what they want. It doesn't matter if they want their ego fed or their bills paid. The moment you give them any respect or care about them they will bounce on you

[WHeitzman]

ok so misc this chick was talking to me for a couple months (flirtaitous) then broke up w/ bf of 2 yrs. feel like she might be monkey branching onto me. wat do? strong sl00t / 10? ignore / 10?

WTF kind of question is this? You smash if you are attracted if not you move on.

[djole94]

because they have already started the next one before ending the current relationship

this. no need for another answer. first one said it ALL. They are already over you LONG before they break-up with you,

[Tomohokk]

Do women move on quicker or are they just heartless bitches that never truly care about their partner in the first place?

Give it time. Most if not all women have a fear of being alone, but years of being together with someone they'll eventually start reminiscing.

[its_mo]

i honestly believe men are the more emotional gender, the only difference is we don't let it mess with our decisions/judgement for the most part

[blueskyeye]

Because men fear intimate relationships with other men for fear of being labelled homosexual. And so they invest all of their desires for intimacy into relationships with women. They are completely dependant on them. Unlike women who have large social circles they can depend on for emotional support. And so when a man separates from a woman he feels cut off from love and support and is more prone to depression/suicide.

Men need to be more open with other men to reduce their dependence on women.

[ThaWhistle]

ok so misc this chick was talking to me for a couple months (flirtaitous) then broke up w/ bf of 2 yrs. feel like she might be monkey branching onto me. wat do? strong sl00t / 10? ignore / 10?

hop in there, but never, ever fall for her. Im in that same situation right now, its kind of a rebound for me, but this girl is a serial relationship girl. In the years Ive known her, shes only been single for a few weeks or a month here or there, and been in like 4 relationships.

Those kinds of girls should only be trusted as far as you can throw them.

[XxmartinixX]

How many times have you heard of a female killing themselves over a guy?? That's right, NEVER it's RARE but you hear of guys killing themselves all the time. A friend of mine was engaged to his girlfriend of 7 years and when they broke up I seen her like a week after with another guy happy as ****

Do women move on quicker or are they just heartless bitches that never truly care about their partner in the first place?


Discuss

Relevant IMO...From my experiences and that of a few mates, after the end of a relationship:
First few days: Male feels like utter crap, depression whatever, while woman is all YOLO and cheerful etc.
Week or so: Male is hanging out with his mates more, feeling better, while woman is still acting all happy but not as much as before, maybe doubts
Month or so: Male is happy...he's realised he's better off, hanging with friends again, going out whatever. Here is when the girl begins to get all depressed, whether its a realisation or its just because she sees the male is now happy, she then feels like crap and begins to ask for him back..this is when the male should under pretty much any circumstance say NO!

Seems to be the general trend, anyone else see this?

[Archangel_Lost]

women mentally break up with you long before they actually break up with you. That's also why a lot of times they don't have trouble cheating, blame it on the guy, etc. They don't see you as "together" anymore even though the guy may be completely oblivious to this. That's basically why it's good advice to go ahead and sever **** with a female if she starts dropping hints that she's going through that process. The reason girls cry/beg/etc when a guy balls up and breaks it off is because she's not ready yet and needs that continual safety net of attention.

[djole94]

this girl at my school said she talks to multiple guys at once just in case one breaks her heart she has another guy to go to.

they all do this. thats why they text 342342 guys at the same time until they choose one. its because they get to choose, while men usually have to work (white knight mentality). men with higher status its the opposite, girls come to them naturally

[Tsudo]

Girls fall faster; guys fall harder.

Break-up commenced at 0900
******** status/relationship updated at 0859
Wk's start at 0901

Their options come out of the woodwork asap, ergo their options and distractions start immediately.

Also, girls have a far more truncated grieve time. As soon as it happens or before it happens, her girls are already there backing her up, listening to her, and helping her cope. Guys have been trained to just suck up the emotions and remain stoic. The sooner you grieve over any loss, the easier it is to move forward. Guys delay this as long as possible.

[JVRICHARDS]

because they have already started the next one before ending the current relationship

This. Women in general have ended a relationship (emotionally) a long time before actually breaking it off officially.

Kinda like those ****ty 20 something friends who've always got the next buddy to crash with by the time you get fed up with his **** and kick him out.

[Archangel_Lost]

Relevant IMO...From my experiences and that of a few mates, after the end of a relationship:
First few days: Male feels like utter crap, depression whatever, while woman is all YOLO and cheerful etc.
Week or so: Male is hanging out with his mates more, feeling better, while woman is still acting all happy but not as much as before, maybe doubts
Month or so: Male is happy...he's realised he's better off, hanging with friends again, going out whatever. Here is when the girl begins to get all depressed, whether its a realisation or its just because she sees the male is now happy, she then feels like crap and begins to ask for him back..this is when the male should under pretty much any circumstance say NO!

Seems to be the general trend, anyone else see this?

If a girl does that, it isn't really because she misses the guy. She just needs someone to validate her existence once she begins to feel like a yolo slut, or the new guy dumps her. If an ex takes her back, she'll just leave again soon after once she gets dat dere attention quickening.

[Yes-Xplode]

Because that girl has probably been getting texted and messaged by guys, and go out to the bar the night she's single and be picked up. A guy is going to have considerably more trouble replacing the girl.

[Tamorlane]

it's part of female evolution/biology, where a woman can pick and choose he she's with based on certain qualities but you will see male animals always having to go above and beyond to win the heart of the female for mating purposes.

[WHeitzman]

women mentally break up with you long before they actually break up with you. That's also why a lot of times they don't have trouble cheating, blame it on the guy, etc. They don't see you as "together" anymore even though the guy may be completely oblivious to this.

Female logic, my whore ex wife claimed screwing other guys wasn't cheating because she was going to divorce me. She had never said a word to me about divorce until I caught her cheating

[Tomohokk]

Relevant IMO...From my experiences and that of a few mates, after the end of a relationship:
First few days: Male feels like utter crap, depression whatever, while woman is all YOLO and cheerful etc.
Week or so: Male is hanging out with his mates more, feeling better, while woman is still acting all happy but not as much as before, maybe doubts
Month or so: Male is happy...he's realised he's better off, hanging with friends again, going out whatever. Here is when the girl begins to get all depressed, whether its a realisation or its just because she sees the male is now happy, she then feels like crap and begins to ask for him back..this is when the male should under pretty much any circumstance say NO!

Seems to be the general trend, anyone else see this?

Haha read my post above. This is true. Give it a month and they BEG yo ass.

This. Women in general have ended a relationship (emotionally) a long time before actually breaking it off officially.

Kinda like those ****ty 20 something friends who've always got the next buddy to crash with by the time you get fed up with his **** and kick him out.

You still do form an emotional bond with someone you spend a lot of time with. A random new bf/gf can't replace that all so soon. Eventually the chick's gonna be in a wreck, unless she didn't have feelings for the guy to begin with.

[Jtoddz]

OP is a dumb kunt.

Women feel it just as hard, sometimes harder, they are just better at hiding it.

[icemancl1]

Because men fear intimate relationships with other men for fear of being labelled homosexual. And so they invest all of their desires for intimacy into relationships with women. They are completely dependant on them. Unlike women who have large social circles they can depend on for emotional support. And so when a man separates from a woman he feels cut off from love and support and is more prone to depression/suicide.

Men need to be more open with other men to reduce their dependence on women.

You are a pucking *******. Def on dat der ****gy time. I hope your trolling

[PSTriple]

this girl at my school said she talks to multiple guys at once just in case one breaks her heart she has another guy to go to.

my grandpa taught my cousin that. he said to keep at least 3 bitches on call so if one fails you got a backup.




just asked chic, it's cuz they have so many white knights out there to cater to them. so their self esteem never drops. "oh, you're single? let me make my move!!

[djole94]

it's part of female evolution/biology, where a woman can pick and choose he she's with based on certain qualities but you will see male animals always having to go above and beyond to win the heart of the female for mating purposes.

it is also part of human evolution/biology that the alpha male of a group picks and chooses the females he has sex with, or has sex with them all. thats why we all strive to be that alpha male here on the misc, we're nothing but a bunch of semi-advanced monkeys

[icemancl1]

women mentally break up with you long before they actually break up with you. That's also why a lot of times they don't have trouble cheating, blame it on the guy, etc. They don't see you as "together" anymore even though the guy may be completely oblivious to this. That's basically why it's good advice to go ahead and sever **** with a female if she starts dropping hints that she's going through that process. The reason girls cry/beg/etc when a guy balls up and breaks it off is because she's not ready yet and needs that continual safety net of attention.

100% agreed

[RedSoxfan1978]

women mentally break up with you long before they actually break up with you. That's also why a lot of times they don't have trouble cheating, blame it on the guy, etc. They don't see you as "together" anymore even though the guy may be completely oblivious to this. That's basically why it's good advice to go ahead and sever **** with a female if she starts dropping hints that she's going through that process. The reason girls cry/beg/etc when a guy balls up and breaks it off is because she's not ready yet and needs that continual safety net of attention.

THIS x100

This man knows the deal.

Women can and will justify anything. ANYTHING. They are creatures of emotion. Once their emotions concede their chosen course of action you will never be "right" again.

Even the Nazi's on trial would not concede any wrongdoing, whatsoever, at all. NONE.
Think about that segment of the human condition. When dealing with most every woman, you are dealing with that mindset. It's never their fault. They were just going with things. It just happened. They weren't happy etc. Pick your poison as they say.

For whatever it's worth, I have never met a man yet that came out of divorce court ahead, or in better condition than when he walked into it. Remember, the entire system is built for, around, and because of WOMEN. They have moved on, they can hold careers like men, make as much money as men, get an education like men. They have equality and then some. However when you walk through the doors of the courthouse, you are transported back to the archaic laws of say 1959.

Don't get married brah's. Remember she can and will justify everything she does and when it all goes down and you're in front of the judge she will still get at least half of everything you own and ever WILL own. At least half.

Food for thought.

[xvicknumber7x]

Because they get over it while still in the relationship and blindside the male once they are through with everything. This is why they get emotionally distant and flaky at times before the end of the relationship.