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    Angry how to deal with a girl who is insecure about her body??? halp

    i recently started dating a new girl who i like alot and think is gorgeous. only problem is she is overly sensitive about her body, especially because i like to work out and stay active. we've only had sex a few times, and i was figuring we would smash tonight, but i just got a text saying " i ate too much at breakfast and lunch today"" i dont have to remind you what that means" she gets really insecure about her body and uses that as an excuse to skip sex, even tho i know she wants it as bad as i do. what do?

    i dont really want to say anything like "i dont care what you look like you are always hott to me" because she is already sensitive. how would you bros approach this situation?
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    Originally Posted by enc_fit View Post
    i recently started dating a new girl who i like alot and think is gorgeous. only problem is she is overly sensitive about her body, especially because i like to work out and stay active. we've only had sex a few times, and i was figuring we would smash tonight, but i just got a text saying " i ate too much at breakfast and lunch today"" i dont have to remind you what that means" she gets really insecure about her body and uses that as an excuse to skip sex, even tho i know she wants it as bad as i do. what do?

    i dont really want to say anything like "i dont care what you look like you are always hott to me" because she is already sensitive. how would you bros approach this situation?
    better question why would you want to fix this ?.
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    Originally Posted by dirtyram View Post
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    thing is she is not out of shape. shes pretty skinny, just really insecure

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    better question why would you want to fix this ?.
    i want sex
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    Originally Posted by enc_fit View Post
    thing is she is not out of shape. shes pretty skinny, just really insecure



    i want sex
    honestly its not worth it in the long run, far far to much hassle. date and **** her, dont make her your girlfriend.
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    I don't think there's really anything you can do. Until she's happy with herself nothing u say is going to matter.
    Every time you tell me how you should've, could've or would've it reminds me how I do, did and will. Your defeatist attitude and lack of willpower pushes me harder to not be like you.
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    someone who isnt comfortable in their own skin isnt worth the hassle, she needs to work out her own shiit, in the meantime hit on other bishes...
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    She sounds like she carries a lot of baggage brah. Carry on
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    another 5'8 brah smashing & me 76 1/2 inches never smashed one..for all the Fa's scamming this thread height yet again doesn't mean sh*t with women unless you are really short or 7+../rant over height issues done..If you have already smashed I don't see how she could be insecure about her body since she took her clothes off in front of you a few times & you were cool with it..it doesn't sound right at all
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    shheeeiiiitt thanks brahs. thats whats so frustrating is she is hott to me and i cant figure out why shes doing this. oh well ill put her on the backburner and look for other bishes in the meantime. probably got more issues if this is the first one to surface.
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    Sounds annoying "I'm insecure so no sex tonight!"...time to next.
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    Originally Posted by Legend1617 View Post
    another 5'8 brah smashing & me 76 1/2 inches never smashed one..for all the Fa's scamming this thread height yet again doesn't mean sh*t with women unless you are really short or 7+../rant over height issues done..If you have already smashed I don't see how she could be insecure about her body since she took her clothes off in front of you a few times & you were cool with it..it doesn't sound right at all
    we smashed in my car lulz. she kept her clothes on but i could still tell she was sensitive (moving my hands off certain places, etc.)

    and about the height thing. height really only matters on the misc. ive never really had an issue with it. obviously i would never be able to land a girl 5'9"+, but im really only attracted to petite smaller girls anyway so it works out in my favor. if you are decently aesthetic body, face and game wise, you shouldnt really be having too many problems.
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    Originally Posted by enc_fit View Post
    we smashed in my car lulz. she kept her clothes on but i could still tell she was sensitive (moving my hands off certain places, etc.)

    and about the height thing. height really only matters on the misc. ive never really had an issue with it. obviously i would never be able to land a girl 5'9"+, but im really only attracted to petite smaller girls anyway so it works out in my favor. if you are decently aesthetic body, face and game wise, you shouldnt really be having too many problems.
    In for this... height really doesn't matter as long as you're not shorter than me.
    Every time you tell me how you should've, could've or would've it reminds me how I do, did and will. Your defeatist attitude and lack of willpower pushes me harder to not be like you.
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    Sounds annoying, and not worth the effort.

    But, if you want to try to change the game, you need to change your approach. Make her feel hot as phuck during sex. Get her revved up and in the mood, then once she's turned on, escalate quickly. Don't give her time to be insecure. You keep the lights on (if indoors,) you get vocal, make it obvious that you're extremely turned on... maje ger feel like she's fkn irresistable and you can't keep your hands off her. Get her shirt off while you're kissing her. If she tries to move your hands or pulls away/covers up, you smile and playfully say "nuh uh, you're hot as phuck, i wanna see you" and keep kissing/touching her as you're undressing her. No asking if she's okay, no requesting or waiting for permission, no apologies at any point. Stay vocal. No over the top ridiculous grunting and groaning, but some moaning, heavy breathing, telling her she's fkn sexy, hot, you want her so bad, etc. Make her feel like she's the hottest chick in the world in your eyes. After she gets off, tell her how much it turned you on/how hot it was. Srs.

    The goal is to keep it moving and keep her turned on and feeling highly desirable. And dominate the phuck out of her. Never ask what she wants to do... tell her what you want her to do. You're in charge, and she does what you want--you don't ask, you command. "God you're fkn hot, take your bra off." (Then when she does, "that's better." or "God damn, your tits are perfect.") Reassure her in a casual, non-beta way, and then show that you mean it by destroying her.

    Never give her time to think, to say no, or to be insecure. Once you've done it this way a couple times, she should get a lot more comfortable around you. In the future, do it from the start and you can usually avoid the insecure crap entirely. A girl who is a freak with one guy can be timid and insecure with another... it's all about how he makes her feel. Be the dude who makes every bish you're with feel like she's the hottest chick you've ever seen naked (in the bedroom--don't whiteknight her all the time) and profit.
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    Originally Posted by RandomMisc View Post
    Sounds annoying, and not worth the effort.

    But, if you want to try to change the game, you need to change your approach. Make her feel hot as phuck during sex. Get her revved up and in the mood, then once she's turned on, escalate quickly. Don't give her time to be insecure. You keep the lights on (in indoors,) you get vocal, make it obvious that you're extremely turned on... to the point that she's fkn irresistable and you can't keep your hands off her. Get her shirt off while you're kissing her. If she tries to move your hands or pulls away/covers up, you smile and playfully say "nuh uh, you're hot as phuck, i wanna see you" and keep kissing/touching her as you're undressing her. No asking if she's okay, no requesting or waiting for permission, no apologies at any point. Stay vocal. Not over the top ridiculous grunting and groaning, but some moaning, heavy breathing, telling her she's fkn sexy, hot, you want her so bad, etc. Make her feel like she's the hottest chick in the world in your eyes. After she gets off, tell her how much it turned you on/how hot it was. Srs.

    The goal is to keep it moving and keep her turned on and feeling highly desirable. And dominate the ohuck out of her. Tell her what you want her to do. You're in charge, and she does what you want--you don't ask, you command. "God you're fkn hot, take your bra off." (Then when she does, "that's better." or "God damn, your tits are perfect.")
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    Originally Posted by Boffothe View Post
    this forum is supposed to be no-fap-safe browsing, thanks a lot woman
    lol, you need to get laid.
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    Originally Posted by UgotItbad View Post
    In for this... height really doesn't matter as long as you're not shorter than me.
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    Originally Posted by enc_fit View Post
    i recently started dating a new girl who i like alot and think is gorgeous. only problem is she is overly sensitive about her body, especially because i like to work out and stay active. we've only had sex a few times, and i was figuring we would smash tonight, but i just got a text saying " i ate too much at breakfast and lunch today"" i dont have to remind you what that means" she gets really insecure about her body and uses that as an excuse to skip sex, even tho i know she wants it as bad as i do. what do?

    i dont really want to say anything like "i dont care what you look like you are always hott to me" because she is already sensitive. how would you bros approach this situation?
    i had a girl like this VERY recently.

    it started to turn into her tryign to get me to stop dieting the way i do and stop working out... which wasnt gunna happen...

    so i broke up with her. lol...
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    Originally Posted by enc_fit View Post
    i recently started dating a new girl who i like alot and think is gorgeous. only problem is she is overly sensitive about her body, especially because i like to work out and stay active. we've only had sex a few times, and i was figuring we would smash tonight, but i just got a text saying " i ate too much at breakfast and lunch today"" i dont have to remind you what that means" she gets really insecure about her body and uses that as an excuse to skip sex, even tho i know she wants it as bad as i do. what do?

    i dont really want to say anything like "i dont care what you look like you are always hott to me" because she is already sensitive. how would you bros approach this situation?
    It sounds like she has body dysmorphic disorder or the beginning stages of it. This can easily slide into an eating disorder.

    Honestly there isn't much you can do, other than suggest she get some professional help or join Overeaters Anonymous (good luck at suggesting that one).

    Well, hot people can have issues too, especially if she feels insecure. She probably thinks she looks fat when she's really skinny because she's malnourished and it affects her brain to see a reflection of fat in the mirror when she's thin. Her overeating was probably too much salad at breakfast and lunch.

    If you want to get involved with her, I would suggest this forum for Friends and Families:

    http://fishybb.something-fishy.org/
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    Originally Posted by RandomMisc View Post
    Sounds annoying, and not worth the effort.

    But, if you want to try to change the game, you need to change your approach. Make her feel hot as phuck during sex. Get her revved up and in the mood, then once she's turned on, escalate quickly. Don't give her time to be insecure. You keep the lights on (if indoors,) you get vocal, make it obvious that you're extremely turned on... maje ger feel like she's fkn irresistable and you can't keep your hands off her. Get her shirt off while you're kissing her. If she tries to move your hands or pulls away/covers up, you smile and playfully say "nuh uh, you're hot as phuck, i wanna see you" and keep kissing/touching her as you're undressing her. No asking if she's okay, no requesting or waiting for permission, no apologies at any point. Stay vocal. No over the top ridiculous grunting and groaning, but some moaning, heavy breathing, telling her she's fkn sexy, hot, you want her so bad, etc. Make her feel like she's the hottest chick in the world in your eyes. After she gets off, tell her how much it turned you on/how hot it was. Srs.

    The goal is to keep it moving and keep her turned on and feeling highly desirable. And dominate the phuck out of her. Never ask what she wants to do... tell her what you want her to do. You're in charge, and she does what you want--you don't ask, you command. "God you're fkn hot, take your bra off." (Then when she does, "that's better." or "God damn, your tits are perfect.") Reassure her in a casual, non-beta way, and then show that you mean it by destroying her.

    Never give her time to think, to say no, or to be insecure. Once you've done it this way a couple times, she should get a lot more comfortable around you. In the future, do it from the start and you can usually avoid the insecure crap entirely. A girl who is a freak with one guy can be timid and insecure with another... it's all about how he makes her feel. Be the dude who makes every bish you're with feel like she's the hottest chick you've ever seen naked (in the bedroom--don't whiteknight her all the time) and profit.
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    Originally Posted by dxw View Post
    ... so it does matter, LOL
    Touché... Well played sir
    Every time you tell me how you should've, could've or would've it reminds me how I do, did and will. Your defeatist attitude and lack of willpower pushes me harder to not be like you.
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    Originally Posted by RandomMisc View Post
    Sounds annoying, and not worth the effort.

    But, if you want to try to change the game, you need to change your approach. Make her feel hot as phuck during sex. Get her revved up and in the mood, then once she's turned on, escalate quickly. Don't give her time to be insecure. You keep the lights on (if indoors,) you get vocal, make it obvious that you're extremely turned on... maje ger feel like she's fkn irresistable and you can't keep your hands off her. Get her shirt off while you're kissing her. If she tries to move your hands or pulls away/covers up, you smile and playfully say "nuh uh, you're hot as phuck, i wanna see you" and keep kissing/touching her as you're undressing her. No asking if she's okay, no requesting or waiting for permission, no apologies at any point. Stay vocal. No over the top ridiculous grunting and groaning, but some moaning, heavy breathing, telling her she's fkn sexy, hot, you want her so bad, etc. Make her feel like she's the hottest chick in the world in your eyes. After she gets off, tell her how much it turned you on/how hot it was. Srs.

    The goal is to keep it moving and keep her turned on and feeling highly desirable. And dominate the phuck out of her. Never ask what she wants to do... tell her what you want her to do. You're in charge, and she does what you want--you don't ask, you command. "God you're fkn hot, take your bra off." (Then when she does, "that's better." or "God damn, your tits are perfect.") Reassure her in a casual, non-beta way, and then show that you mean it by destroying her.

    Never give her time to think, to say no, or to be insecure. Once you've done it this way a couple times, she should get a lot more comfortable around you. In the future, do it from the start and you can usually avoid the insecure crap entirely. A girl who is a freak with one guy can be timid and insecure with another... it's all about how he makes her feel. Be the dude who makes every bish you're with feel like she's the hottest chick you've ever seen naked (in the bedroom--don't whiteknight her all the time) and profit.
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