OK, my girlfriend said that she wanted me to be dominant to her in bed. We always do stuff that feels good for one another. Our sex life is great but I think she wants me to bring out the animal instincts in me. So my question is, what can I do to be more dominant in bed for her?
Thread: How to be dominant in bed?
05-22-2012, 11:07 PM #1
How to be dominant in bed?
05-22-2012, 11:10 PM #2
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05-22-2012, 11:11 PM #3
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Dude, its no huge secret the best thing anyone can do is just fcuk like how they want. Not only is it a turn on but it just feels better its a win win. Everyone wants to know that their partner is just enjoying themself. Don't you like when your girl is just enjoying herself doing her own thing? Well the same thing turns her on, so let your inner man out and fcuk her how you want.
Forget about taking her feelings into consideration, just lay the pipe that is usually what they mean by this. Grab her and touch her however you feel like she is going to love you for this.
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05-23-2012, 02:35 AM #7
If doing her doggy pull her/spank her ass. If you are pounding away and want your dick sucked pull out and tell her to suck your fuking cock hell tell her to lick your balls while she is at it. Just control her man.
Make sure you cum on her titties when you finish and make sure she sucks the rest out of your knob.
05-23-2012, 03:44 PM #8
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05-23-2012, 05:30 PM #9
Just take control of her. F*ck her on YOUR terms, not hers. Pin her arms in missionary, pull her hair if you're doing it doggy, plow her hard and fast like you're trying to drill an oil well with your cawk. Randomly pull your cawk out and tell her to suck on it, hold her head down when she's giving you a BJ, bite her neck and lips while f*cking her etc.. hope this helps
05-23-2012, 07:28 PM #10
couple things you can start with..
When in doggy style, slap her ass and pull her hair, put a hand around the back of her neck, don't be afraid to grab her by the back of her head and like pull it toward you (srs) it sounds a little extreme but a lot of girls really get off on this.
When in missionary, put a hand around her neck, as you get more and more into it squeeze harder and harder, obviously don't make her go unconscious but you catch my drift.
During the actual act of sex, make sure to switch up the rhythm sometimes and really slam it in there hard and fast for periods of time lol.
Before sex sometime have a belt in your hand and start joking around at first, start slapping her ass with it, make her bend over and start doing it, eventually pull her pants down and continue to do this, she will probably start to get turned on and then you gotta continue to slap her ass with this thing for a while until she can't take it anymore then get to work.
Bite her nipples
I used to clamp my teeth down on this girl's ass cheek and bite hard, she had a really nice ass though. This was kinda just messing around but she liked that pain sensation.
Put a blindfold over her eyes..
you just gotta take complete control and be dominant
05-23-2012, 07:32 PM #11
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05-23-2012, 08:33 PM #14
you just have to act more aggresive.
hold her down. be commanding, dont wait for her to say "give it to me already." she already wants it, you decide when teasing her is enough.
another thing, take commanding sex positions. for ex..if your in missionary already, switch to doggy.
do everything to be dominant, and dont let her have it easy. be aggresive, be a little mean, shove her around...nothing gets a girl off other than a dominant male. all comes down to human nature. women want a big strong man who is assertive.
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