relationships with military men

[Monicka8311]

So if we were with somebody in the military and they were leaving... we have no problem staying faithful, do you think we would have to worry about them cheating?
I like to believe if i'm dating somebody in the military he's going to be a bit more grounded as well as appreciate he's got a good girl at home, but park of me feels like i'd be stupid to believe that.
To me that's a bigger question that if I could stay faithful.

^^^ This one

[Punisher1012]

^^^ This one

a lot of guys do cheat too but not as much as the wives and gfs that stay home. we go under the UCMJ and would be charged with adultery even though I seen female Marines get away with cheating many times. if a married guy cheats he's really screwing himself over. if a married woman cheats she's just cheating. it was pretty hard for me to cheat while deployed. you know being in a combat zone surrounded by guys and shiit

[cosgrove06]

Quite honestly coming from a veteran who has seen this a million times, if your asking then you most likely aren't ready for the commitment. The best option or staying together through military life is marriage so that you can be stationed with him. Because truth be told military men cheat too but not as much as the wives and girlfriends of military men though. He more than likely will not get his choice of duty stations. And if you don't already have trust issues they will most likely arise not saying that your a cheater or he is however all of the infidelity issues he sees with his fellow airmen and their wives will raise suspicions I'm sure. Ultimately the decision is yours and I am an outsider offering my story. I hope you find this information helpful.

US marine with 2 combat tours OIF & OEF

[Monicka8311]

a lot of guys do cheat too but not as much as the wives and gfs that stay home. we go under the UCMJ and would be charged with adultery even though I seen female Marines get away with cheating many times. if a married guy cheats he's really screwing himself over. if a married woman cheats she's just cheating. it was pretty hard for me to cheat while deployed. you know being in a combat zone surrounded by guys and shiit

Right, and I been friends with guys in the military and granted they were single, they've told me stories that tell me rules are bent and even high ups are going places they are supposed to be and doing things they aren't supposed to do, but they can't really say much to you because they have more to lose.
So female personnel can usually get away with cheating on their spouses, but guys not so much?

[Punisher1012]

Quite honestly coming from a veteran who has seen this a million times, if your asking then you most likely aren't ready for the commitment. The best option or staying together through military life is marriage so that you can be stationed with him. Because truth be told military men cheat too but not as much as the wives and girlfriends of military men though. He more than likely will not get his choice of duty stations. And if you don't already have trust issues they will most likely arise not saying that your a cheater or he is however all of the infidelity issues he sees with his fellow airmen and their wives will raise suspicions I'm sure. Ultimately the decision is yours and I am an outsider offering my story. I hope you find this information helpful.

US marine with 2 combat tours OIF & OEF

Join Date: May 2011

Posts: 1

lol damn it took you a year to make a post.. either way kill babies! OIF x2 here

[cosgrove06]

Also feel free to ask me any questions and I will answer to the best of my ability without discrimination like some of the bitter people in this thread that like to pass judgement because of past experiences

[Punisher1012]

Right, and I been friends with guys in the military and granted they were single, they've told me stories that tell me rules are bent and even high ups are going places they are supposed to be and doing things they aren't supposed to do, but they can't really say much to you because they have more to lose.
So female personnel can usually get away with cheating on their spouses, but guys not so much?

I'm going from what I personally have seen. not by stories I've heard. I've only seen 2 female Marines get in trouble for it out of many. not going to get in detail here about them but they disgust me specially the last one I seen that didn't get in trouble and should have. I've always been against cheating and also higher ups and others throwing their politics around to get out of trouble but that's a whole another beast. no place is perfect

[iphone4s]

link to her photo bucket =

[cosgrove06]

Yeah I originally just got on for the store.

[YesWayNoWeigh]

Yeah so wtf is this pic i found in your photobucket hmmmm? STRONG JOIN DATE.

u wot m8

[Lottabody]

I hope you guys are serious because something about military men makes them always want to get married and have kids young. Plus he won't be around much so you wanna be able to have faith that he isn't cheating with the thirsty hoes in his unit or prostitutes from overseas. Can't help you with the rest but those are some things to consider.

[IronOynx]

Never understand why guys in the military get into serious relationships. ends up one of two ways usually..

[careot]

I honestly am not worried about the cheating aspect once so ever. Him and I have been dating long distance for about a year now, and I trust him wholeheartedly as he does me. I'm sure y'all are going to give me **** about being only 21 and in a LDR too, but that's not what I was looking for. I'm confident in our relationship, and all I wanted to know was what to expect. I don't have any doubts about us making it work, I just wanted to know what I could possibly be getting myself into because it is his decision and I want to be able to support him with whatever choice he makes as best I can so thank you to those who provided constructive and helpful advice.

[UgotItbad]

Wait... does he know you have a picture of yourself in a bra as your avi... that seems pretty shady for somebody who says they would never cheat

[Punisher1012]

Wait... does he know you have a picture of yourself in a bra as your avi... that seems pretty shady for somebody who says they would never cheat

lol was just about to call her out on this

[careot]

Wait... does he know you have a picture of yourself in a bra as your avi... that seems pretty shady for somebody who says they would never cheat

He is completely aware, but thanks for the concern!

[Punisher1012]

He is completely aware, but thanks for the concern!

sure he is

[Monicka8311]

He is completely aware, but thanks for the concern!

Of course he is! Silly me! Y'all will do great, clearly wife material... Good luck!

[TheOchocinco33]

lmao strong whore

[Boffothe]

I honestly am not worried about the cheating aspect once so ever. Him and I have been dating long distance for about a year now, and I trust him wholeheartedly as he does me. I'm sure y'all are going to give me **** about being only 21 and in a LDR too, but that's not what I was looking for. I'm confident in our relationship, and all I wanted to know was what to expect. I don't have any doubts about us making it work, I just wanted to know what I could possibly be getting myself into because it is his decision and I want to be able to support him with whatever choice he makes as best I can so thank you to those who provided constructive and helpful advice.

Best of luck to you honey, I wish you well.

But I want you to remember this thread, and remember my words. As the cute bartender down the street penetrates you from behind and leaves a handprint on your ass because you were lonely and teehee drank too much, remember that women who cheat on servicemen are the lowest of the low and may god have mercy on your soul

[UgotItbad]

Best of luck to you honey, I wish you well.

But I want you to remember this thread, and remember my words. As the cute bartender down the street penetrates you from behind and leaves a handprint on your ass because you were lonely and teehee drank too much, remember that women who cheat on servicemen are the lowest of the low and may god have mercy on your soul

I have No reps to offer you... but I will rep you anyway!

[devil_s haircut]

I know of only one relationship (one of my bros) that has lasted. He's been deployed twice, and she stayed at home raising their daughter. Fantastic woman, you'd have to meet her to realize that women like her actually exist...i Know I never would have believed it.


But yeah, for every one of her, there's like a million cheating whores floating around military bases. I was at a bar in Killeen, TX right before I deployed and there was this chick sitting next to us flirting with some older dude. She was fat, decent face, and talking about how her husband was deployed, flashing her ring for everyone to see, and all the while flirting hardcore with this dude. Eventually, she left the bar with him. Yep, that's military wives for you. And that's just one of a thousand stories I could tell.

[kickblake]

I hope you guys are serious because something about military men makes them always want to get married and have kids young.

There is a financial incentive to marry. I don't know the exact values but the pay is more for married men in the military. Also, it gives them "something to fight for" when they're deployed.

[Candees]

Here is the truth stripped of all of this woman's "but I'm not like them" ego-protecting BS.

Pretty much why the female opinion is never valued, because it's always from females who "would never do that,are not like that, have never done that ect.".

Women just can't be honest, especially when they think there are men reading whatever they write. Always the opportunist, gotta peddle that ring finger nomsayin'?

I guess they have their faces and boobies all over their bodyspace so they have to talk up a front to look like a decent person.

[rackpullxtreme]

Pretty much why the female opinion is never valued, because it's always from females who "would never do that,are not like that, have never done that ect.".

Women just can't be honest, especially when they think there are men reading whatever they write. Always the opportunist, gotta peddle that ring finger nomsayin'?

I guess they have their faces and boobies all over their bodyspace so they have to talk up a front to look like a decent person.

That's why it's best to have no pics, we can say whatever we want without pink knighting.

[Punisher1012]

That's why it's best to have no pics, we can say whatever we want without pink knighting.

shut the fukc up *******. first to judge someone's pics when you have none. you're a guy trolling to be a hoe. you belong back in the red

[rackpullxtreme]

shut the fukc up *******. first to judge someone's pics when you have none. you're a guy trolling to be a hoe. you belong back in the red

You call me out for trolling meanwhile you avi says "Jersey Troll". Pot meet kettle.

You're jelly because of all of the Playboy models I date.

[Lottabody]

shut the fukc up *******. first to judge someone's pics when you have none. you're a guy trolling to be a hoe. you belong back in the red

look who's talkin Urkel.

[sincity88]

You call me out for trolling meanwhile you avi says "Jersey Troll". Pot meet kettle.

You're jelly because of all of the Playboy models I date.

You date playboy models? I thought you were married? Are you now a lesbun?

Post pix nao tranny.

[rackpullxtreme]

look who's talkin Urkel.

lmao

Oh Lottabody you crack me up!