Am I wrong to be apprehensive about going for this girl?

[hannibalnavies]

I've been talking to this girl. She likes me a great deal and she looks good and is fun to kick it with. She has had only one boyfriend before, for 3.5 years, who she was with up until six months ago. She has had sex with 4 guys in total, though. The other 3 guys were just FBs before he boyfriend. The girl turned 23 this year (just to give you a frame of reference as to how many guys she's been with).

To get to the point, while she seems to no longer be that 'easy' girl that she was before who would have sex with FBs and have sex so easily, I still feel that I'd be working with damaged goods. If I meet those past guys, in their mind they can laugh at me like a chump since they got it very easily, while I'm in a relationship with her.

Is it crazy for me to think this way?

[Exane]

I've been talking to this girl. She likes me a great deal and she looks good and is fun to kick it with. She has had only one boyfriend before, for 3.5 years, who she was with up until six months ago. She has had sex with 4 guys in total, though. The other 3 guys were just FBs before he boyfriend. The girl turned 23 this year (just to give you a frame of reference as to how many guys she's been with).

To get to the point, while she seems to no longer be that 'easy' girl that she was before who would have sex with FBs and have sex so easily, I still feel that I'd be working with damaged goods. If I meet those past guys, in their mind they can laugh at me like a chump since they got it very easily, while I'm in a relationship with her.

Is it crazy for me to think this way?

Yes, very srs. Get help

[HeBrewHammah]

lol, 4 guys and that's damaged?


You're going to be a FA in no time bro once you realize the average these days! Congrats! Enjoy your stay!

[John$Galt]

I know girls who more than doubled your girl's # in one night...at the same time. lol

[Boffothe]

If this bothers you, you're going to need to start looking for chicks at literal nunneries and hope one of them likes you

[MYF]

Lmao strong nunnery roll bread, you're probably better off turning gay and finding some foreveralone internet warriors

[UsernameOfPeace]

Usually 4 wouldn't be so bad if they were relationships.

But FBs. Each to their own but personally would not wife a girl who has had FBs

[hannibalnavies]

Usually 4 wouldn't be so bad if they were relationships.

But FBs. Each to their own but personally would not wife a girl who has had FBs

I guess you and I are somewhat alike. I'm just trying to decide in my head and weigh the positives and negatives.

[LaDonnaMF]

FBs, and 3 at that, are better than one night stands.

How many FBs/ONS/etc. have you had OP? If you've had less than her then I can see why you may not want to be in a relationship with her... but if you've had tons then you have no ground to stand on.

If it really bothers you that isn't going to go away so don't start a relationship with her.

[hannibalnavies]

FBs, and 3 at that, are better than one night stands.

How many FBs/ONS/etc. have you had OP? If you've had less than her then I can see why you may not want to be in a relationship with her... but if you've had tons then you have no ground to stand on.

If it really bothers you that isn't going to go away so don't start a relationship with her.

I've had none of the above. You are likely correct as to why it bothers me.

[ragingcrayon]

the thing is... ur right... if u meet them... ur the guy who wifed up the girl they just hit when they felt like

[intense77]

4 guys? I wish I could deal with girls that have ONLY ****ed 4 guys. You got to be kidding me OP. I'd say the average girl I have encountered, and I know a lot of girls is probably 8-10+ on the low side. Just think about it. 4 isn't bad at all. I also don't ask girls their number even if they ask me.

[GenderOfPeace]

OP let me ask you this. What would you want more in a girl
- Someone who is loyal, faithful
- Someone who is a virgin (or like, 1 partner)

Serious bro... I'll be the first to admit would not wife up girls with 50 partners, but 5 or under and you are even thinking of this ****? Unbelievable.


If she is loyal and faithful and loves you, focus on that. Seriously.

[hannibalnavies]

OP let me ask you this. What would you want more in a girl
- Someone who is loyal, faithful
- Someone who is a virgin (or like, 1 partner)

Serious bro... I'll be the first to admit would not wife up girls with 50 partners, but 5 or under and you are even thinking of this ****? Unbelievable.


If she is loyal and faithful and loves you, focus on that. Seriously.

Woah. Is 4 really not that bad of a number? Maybe I think today's girl is more prudish than they actually are. That is scary that 8-10 is on the low side.

[hannibalnavies]

the thing is... ur right... if u meet them... ur the guy who wifed up the girl they just hit when they felt like

*cries*

Also, to the dudes who would have no problem with it. Have you all had FBs?

[NoBSfromBishes]

*cries*

Also, to the dudes who would have no problem with it. Have you all had FBs?

I don't get it, why the fuk would you care what some other cheeky kunt thinks? So what if she had fuk buddies before? Maybe she wasn't looking for a relationship? We are humans and all have basic sexual instincts. You sound like a virgin with a twisted view of the world.

[hannibalnavies]

I don't get it, why the fuk would you care what some other cheeky kunt thinks? So what if she had fuk buddies before? Maybe she wasn't looking for a relationship? We are humans and all have basic sexual instincts. You sound like a virgin with a twisted view of the world.

I suppose I shouldn't be too caught up with that stuff.