gf advice from a none loser please ?

[gycraig]

right been with my girlfriend for 9 months,

had a 1 month break a few months ago, both slept with someone else neither care.

thought our relationship was going well, however the first week we got back together she saw a message from my old **** buddy (move absolutely miles away). saying when was i gonna come see her and **** her brains out since im single again.
(she was checking the time on my phone i hadnt seen the message so just said yes when she asked me).

i hadnt talked to the other girl at all for like a year she must of seen my facebook status. my gf wouldnt tell me why she wouldnt talk to me for about 2 hours and was miserable. when she told me i explained and told her if anything like that happens to just talk to me about it.

last week i was a bit drunk and a bit bored, and a fat girl was messaging me while i was gaming (strong geek)

anyway i said to her show me your boobs or im not talking to you, she asked me to come for a drive and shed show me, i told her no i had a girlfriend.

basically wasnt interested in her at all was just having a laugh, my girlfriend today looked through my messages on facebook cause i left it on my pc while i was asleep. shed never checked my messages before as far as i could see.

we went to the gym after she read them and i didnt know,she was miserable etc for about 3 hours and i kept asking her what was the matter with her she and wouldnt tell me

she told me when i was dropping her off and i said what iv told you about it, that i was just messing about. then said i was annoyed at her reading my messages. i was dropping her off so just said get out ill talk to you later about it.

not sure what i want to do. i would never read any of her messages and i dont want to be in a relationship where im being checked on. shes a really nice girl perfect gf but i cba with the hassle/drama.

[Amstel1987]

Cut her lose bro, she deserves better.

[QisGQ]

Seems like you're the one with the issues. And for goodness sakes why not delete your facebook messages? And if the shoe was on the other foot, this wouldn't be cool at all. Clearly you're in the wrong. Get your ish together bro.

[RoWdY_RuFf_BoY]

Your playing it up too much.

This type of thing would be good if it happens once in a while.

You have to balance between showing your gf that your desirable to other women vs. letting her know that you chose her instead of others.

I'm not telling you to not flirt or whatever, but tone it town.

Right now, your more towards like your actually single than having a gf. Your bahaviour would be fine if you were single.

Tone is down abit.

[gycraig]

Your playing it up too much.

This type of thing would be good if it happens once in a while.

You have to balance between showing your gf that your desirable to other women vs. letting her know that you chose her instead of others.

I'm not telling you to not flirt or whatever, but tone it town.

Right now, your more towards like your actually single than having a gf. Your bahaviour would be fine if you were single.

Tone is down abit.

the first girl was literally within a week of me and girlfriend getting back together. i hadnt even spoken to her for like a year, she just messaged me because she had seen i wasnt in a relationship on facebook.

the second i admit was out of order of me, but it was just a bit of boredom, i wouldnt of met her or anything like that.

i know iv been a dick head.but still think she shouldnt be checking my messages. i dont check hers

[KenStiffyJr]

Lol urine idiot for not deleting messages


But ya I wouldn't be cool w her goin through my phone or messages. Thing is, regardless if u make up, she will ALWAYS be looking through ur sht now

[gycraig]

Seems like you're the one with the issues. And for goodness sakes why not delete your facebook messages? And if the shoe was on the other foot, this wouldn't be cool at all. Clearly you're in the wrong. Get your ish together bro.

the shoe wouldnt be on the other foot as i wouldnt look at her messages, if you look at someones messages you will ALWAYS find something to be pissed off bout, her slagging me off to one of her sisters ?. or a white night phaggot sending her messages.

id love to know what my exact issues are though please ?.

[manletgenetics]

had a 1 month break a few months ago, both slept with someone else neither care.

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haha. i don't think either of you are ready for a relationship, and i really think you want to play the field more and have fun. Just let her go bro.

[gycraig]

haha. i don't think either of you are ready for a relationship, and i really think you want to play the field more and have fun. Just let her go bro.

hmm maybe, it wasnt a break we broke up because i was working 70 hour weeks and was very stressed.

now im down to 40 we got back together and was going great till this.

[Maverick77]

Bro your an idiot.

Put yourself in her position. What if you saw messages she was sending to guys saying send me shirtless picks, send me pics of your dick etc. When your in a relationship you dont do that stuff.

Your girlfriend doesn't have a right to look at your stuff, but lets be realistic here, shes looking through your stuff because your a ****ty boyfriend. If you were both older, you would know this wasn't a good relationship and you would breakup. But because your both so young you think its normal to have these "issues" and "fights", its not.

You will be 1000 times happier being single for a few years and running your game as you put it.

[b0yer2]

How about you delete facebook? Problem 1 solved.


After that why don't you respect the relationship you are in and not entertain these random requests from girls. Just ignore them.


Before you know if you are gonna bang one of these girls and cheat on your gf. Then it will really be over. Let her cool off, but in the meantime get rid of facebook to stop from talking to randos.

[hai2dehfolks]

How about you delete facebook? Problem 1 solved.


After that why don't you respect the relationship you are in and not entertain these random requests from girls. Just ignore them.


Before you know if you are gonna bang one of these girls and cheat on your gf. Then it will really be over. Let her cool off, but in the meantime get rid of facebook to stop from talking to randos.

this

*facepalm*

[Stix14]

So a loser is asking for advice from non-losers...interesting...

[twilighters]

Bro your an idiot.

Put yourself in her position. What if you saw messages she was sending to guys saying send me shirtless picks, send me pics of your dick etc. When your in a relationship you dont do that stuff.

Your girlfriend doesn't have a right to look at your stuff, but lets be realistic here, shes looking through your stuff because your a ****ty boyfriend. If you were both older, you would know this wasn't a good relationship and you would breakup. But because your both so young you think its normal to have these "issues" and "fights", its not.

You will be 1000 times happier being single for a few years and running your game as you put it.

this!

[gycraig]

So a loser is asking for advice from non-losers...interesting...

im a loser because my girlfriend caught me talking to another girl,

meh we broke up mutually anyway

[SteezyChr]

Not sure why you would get all butt hurt about someone looking through your messages if you have nothing to hide. Thats just my logic and you also sound like a typical douche, also you dont seem very smart because you clearly cant handle a situation as simple as that. If I was your gf and you told me that I'd laugh in your face and tell you to piss off. Nothing personal, but anyone who handled the situation like that is a real dumbass.

Just my thoughts, thanks for asking.

[Gris419]

She cheated on you and you cheated on her, imho the loyalty isn't there from either sides and this sh!t isn't going to work out. She will always have doubts and something to complain about and so will you.

[truthhurts]

she won't stop trying to check up on you ever sicne she saw that first msg. I can assure you of that much. Any chance she gets she'll snoop from now onwards. Think about that and deal with it how yu want.

[bigmonster1]

last week i was a bit drunk and a bit bored, and a fat girl was messaging me while i was gaming (strong geek)

anyway i said to her show me your boobs or im not talking to you, she asked me to come for a drive and shed show me, i told her no i had a girlfriend.

You serious brah? Youre the one causing the hassle and drama. lol

[Mercadeus]

Delete messages like everyone says, lol.

But gotta at least show her she's loved if you do bro.

[rackpullxtreme]

im a loser because my girlfriend caught me talking to another girl,

meh we broke up mutually anyway

No you're just obviously too young to be handling a relationship if you're flirting with other girls and asking them to show dem tits. Yeah it's wrong that she checked your messages but you were in the wrong too. Conclusion - both are too young to be committed.

[J2BDifferent]

You sound like a drama queen bro, and what guy doesn't password protect his computer?

[DTRrex]

You sound immature and probably shouldn't be a real relationship.

Abort this relationship and live the single life until you mature up some.

[krodoslol]

Lol dumbest ***ot ive ever read