right been with my girlfriend for 9 months,
had a 1 month break a few months ago, both slept with someone else neither care.
thought our relationship was going well, however the first week we got back together she saw a message from my old **** buddy (move absolutely miles away). saying when was i gonna come see her and **** her brains out since im single again.
(she was checking the time on my phone i hadnt seen the message so just said yes when she asked me).
i hadnt talked to the other girl at all for like a year she must of seen my facebook status. my gf wouldnt tell me why she wouldnt talk to me for about 2 hours and was miserable. when she told me i explained and told her if anything like that happens to just talk to me about it.
last week i was a bit drunk and a bit bored, and a fat girl was messaging me while i was gaming (strong geek)
anyway i said to her show me your boobs or im not talking to you, she asked me to come for a drive and shed show me, i told her no i had a girlfriend.
basically wasnt interested in her at all was just having a laugh, my girlfriend today looked through my messages on facebook cause i left it on my pc while i was asleep. shed never checked my messages before as far as i could see.
we went to the gym after she read them and i didnt know,she was miserable etc for about 3 hours and i kept asking her what was the matter with her she and wouldnt tell me
she told me when i was dropping her off and i said what iv told you about it, that i was just messing about. then said i was annoyed at her reading my messages. i was dropping her off so just said get out ill talk to you later about it.
not sure what i want to do. i would never read any of her messages and i dont want to be in a relationship where im being checked on. shes a really nice girl perfect gf but i cba with the hassle/drama.