Ex GF Help?

[grinnell27]

Hi guys,

Me and my ex broke up about 8months ago and since then i have now got a new gf

New GF:



Anyway i check my fb as usual this morning to see a message notification, i proceed to open the message to be greeted with a message that reads:

(Message from ex GF)

"Hello. i Thought id message you to say im sorry we ended on bad terms. I see your happy now which is good im glad. I just dont want it to be akwaaaaaard if i see you up town or something. So i wanted to be civil.. I Hope work is going well and the gym. If you dont message me back i completely understand. Have a good day today x"

Im like WTF... Yeah okay she wants to be civil and chit but with her ex's she wasnt like this, she HATED them.

But putting that aside im not sure if i should tell my current GF about the message, I feel kinda bad to keep it secret.

What Do?

[jxm26]

just be honest about it

[laydizzile]

let your current gf know, let her know that you just disregarded that message. this will help your relationship because she will trust you even more now

[grinnell27]

just be honest about it

This is what im thinking

let your current gf know, let her know that you just disregarded that message. this will help your relationship because she will trust you even more now

Yeah i think im gona tell her, we trust each other now anyway... I have full faith in her and if her ex messaged her i would like to know... And i wouldn't care either.

[laydizzile]

Ya good call OP, cause if you dont tell her and she finds out on her own. **** will probably hit the fan. anyhow good luck brah

[CfcTorres]

Nice pic

Wouldn't reply to ex or would reply saying **** off

No point in having a friendship with an ex.. You were friends to become more than friends. Know what I mean?

Tell current gf about it.

[Andreipat]

Tell her

[grinnell27]

Nice pic

Wouldn't reply to ex or would reply saying **** off

No point in having a friendship with an ex.. You were friends to become more than friends. Know what I mean?

Tell current gf about it.

Yeah im just disregarding her message and i never want to be her friend shes a major b!tch...

But im defo gona tell her about the message

[Brozart]

what's the big deal?

she didn't say she misses you, she didn't say she wants to fuk, she didn't say you should hang out. that's not even a secret to keep, just another facebook message...

[madBrosef]

yeh just tell her bro, i kno its a nothing msg from ur ex, but looks bad if u dont tell ur current girl and she finds out, plus like u said u wouldd wanna kno if she had an ex msg her

[RaaaR]

what's the big deal?

she didn't say she misses you, she didn't say she wants to fuk, she didn't say you should hang out. that's not even a secret to keep, just another facebook message...

Thats bull****, it has a hidden message. The ex-gf cares about him and wants to know if he still cares to, and if he made a emotional response back, she thinks she have OP still by the bals. So OP, DONT RESPONSE ON IT! Just disregard and let ur gf know about it = win, she wil trust u more = profit.

[Brozart]

Thats bull****, it has a hidden message. The ex-gf cares about him and wants to know if he still cares to, and if he made a emotional response back, she thinks she have OP still by the bals. So OP, DONT RESPONSE ON IT! Just disregard and let ur gf know about it = win, she wil trust u more = profit.

no, she just feels unwanted because OP got a new girlfriend, so she sent the message hoping she'd get some kind of affirmation by OP's reply.

[goodthings]

Thats bull****, it has a hidden message. The ex-gf cares about him and wants to know if he still cares to, and if he made a emotional response back, she thinks she have OP still by the bals. So OP, DONT RESPONSE ON IT! Just disregard and let ur gf know about it = win, she wil trust u more = profit.

this is the correct response..NO RESPONSE!
I would let your gf know about it, will keep her on her toes and value you a bit more, lets her see what happens should you two split

[MEDITATE]

tell your c.gf about the msg and dont reply back to your ex

[RaaaR]

no, she just feels unwanted because OP got a new girlfriend, so she sent the message hoping she'd get some kind of affirmation by OP's reply.

thats in essence what i ment.

[John$Galt]

bunch of idiots ITT

OP ignore the message and don't tell your gf. wtf is the big deal?

jesus christ

inb4 op responds to message with something nice, then tells his gf

[W8sB4dates]

bunch of idiots ITT

OP ignore the message and don't tell your gf. wtf is the big deal?

jesus christ

inb4 op responds to message with something nice, then tells his gf

^^ This no need to even bring it up. If you have no interest in any contact with your ex just delete it and move on.

[UMadOrMirinBrah]

Just got the most retarded message from my ex who ****ed me over broke my heart blah blah, went no contact, deleted her from fb and i get a message when i come home from smashing a next girl "sdfsdjdsglksg..." literally thats what it said... I have disregarded and will not tell girl i smashed.

[BigJohnny999]

bunch of idiots ITT

OP ignore the message and don't tell your gf. wtf is the big deal?

jesus christ

inb4 op responds to message with something nice, then tells his gf

This. If you message her back it's because you're not over her.

[sda]

Delete. No need to waste time with an Ex-GF when you have a new one you can smash whenever.

Seriously, delete and go lift.

[CodyKG]

Tell your current gf, but don't respond. She couldn't find better and is now scurrying back brah.

[TimDF]

Don't reply back or acknowledge your ex in anyway. No need to tell your current girlfriend. Just delete the message and move on. Oh and I didn't know you were dating Katy Perry.

[UMadOrMirinBrah]

lol BRAH i'm in the same situation right now just got this 13 mins ago "hey how are you ? can i have ur new number cuz i know you changed it .... and i wanna talk" LMFAOOOOOOOO this bish is crayyyyyy the last time i spoke wiht her she was telling me off th most rudest **** BROOOOO **** KTHATTT

[b0yer2]

You cant control your ex and whether or not she messages you. Just tell your gf about it. If she is cool she won't even care.

[agile321]

Whats the point of telling your current girlfriend this? Thats just going to create anxiety for her regardless if you respodned or not.

If somehow she does find out she mssaged you and gets upset you can disregard her argument by saying you didn't message her back and didn't want her to worry. Boom.

[twilighters]

just ignore lol. no point in even showing your girlfriend wtf is that gonna do lol

[DarrenUK]

Ignore it and delete it like it never even happened.

[BigBlobby]

do not reply to her do not reply to her do not reply to her