New Gay Thread - Part 5

[drowskie]

Didn't know how serious this was until I read some post but everyone on this thread seems cool and easy to talk to so with that said what up guys

[MiamiSpartan]

sup...

[atticus_a]

Wow...haven't posted in forever. Miss me some mtnbikedude, miami spartan, ATTICUS, WLM and trvlr

Hi there mister D. Most of us are seldom around. I haven't seen trvlr post for a twink age. Mostly, I think he is a ******** person nowadays. If you don't have him on yours, I could probably contact him for a re-connection. I haven't seen mtnbikedude post in a long time either but I really don't know him that well so don't know why that case maybe. AS you can see Miami and lol Rick are carrying the torch for the long timers attempting to breath life into this thread. lol.

You are in Alt, now? How is it going?

[drowskie]

sup...

Just hanging, so what do you guys talk about in here

Hi there mister D. Most of us are seldom around.

lol thats good to know im not a drama kind of guy so seldom works for me

[wouldlikemuscle]

Wow...haven't posted in forever. Miss me some mtnbikedude, miami spartan, ATTICUS, WLM and trvlr

Now there's a face that could make anyone happy to see!! How ya doing? I still post on the odd occasion. Me and fellow Brit Misti are on a little comp... think he's whooping my arse right now though.

[Misti]

Now there's a face that could make anyone happy to see!! How ya doing? I still post on the odd occasion. Me and fellow Brit Misti are on a little comp... think he's whooping my arse right now though.

That he is...

[graciejjbrazil]

What's the best website to jack on on Cam? Trying to make some money here, any ideas?

[armyrugby88]

Hello to all the new people on here!

Guys I gotta say for the first time in my life I've actually been sticking with working out and not quitting! Normally I get pumped up and hit it hard for a couple months then quit, but this time I've stuck with it! I'm on my 5th month.. weigh more than I ever have in my life (and still growing).. and my strength is through the roof! I really hope everyone is reaching (or on the way to reaching) their fitness goals!

Keep it going. It's Definatly tough to keep it going at first.

[bhujerban]

I'm going to be breaking up with my new guy. He has admitted to me that he is attracted to Latino men, and I am not one. I caught him in a lie about the taco he's been seeing behind my back. Said this guy doesn't do the whole F*ckbook thing, and three days later I found his FB page. This burrito interrupted my date with the cheater, and he actually took the call and went outside for nearly 40 minutes, leaving me to wonder if it's worth sticking around. And my answer was 'no'. He didn't really love me, and clearly didn't respect me either. So we're breaking up next time I see him. Hopefully his enchilada will keep him warm in that big empty bed of his.

****s are a real hoot sometimes!

[Misti]

I'm going to be breaking up with my new guy. He has admitted to me that he is attracted to Latino men, and I am not one. I caught him in a lie about the taco he's been seeing behind my back. Said this guy doesn't do the whole F*ckbook thing, and three days later I found his FB page. This burrito interrupted my date with the cheater, and he actually took the call and went outside for nearly 40 minutes, leaving me to wonder if it's worth sticking around. And my answer was 'no'. He didn't really love me, and clearly didn't respect me either. So we're breaking up next time I see him. Hopefully his enchilada will keep him warm in that big empty bed of his.

****s are a real hoot sometimes!

Lords no! Sorry bud, you ere so chipper getting back on the horse again. What a **** valentines.

[MenStraight]

Sorry to hear that jerbs, and good for you in not becoming a doormat.
Wishing everyone a Happy Valentines!

[colbytim]

I'm going to be breaking up with my new guy. He has admitted to me that he is attracted to Latino men, and I am not one. I caught him in a lie about the taco he's been seeing behind my back. Said this guy doesn't do the whole F*ckbook thing, and three days later I found his FB page. This burrito interrupted my date with the cheater, and he actually took the call and went outside for nearly 40 minutes, leaving me to wonder if it's worth sticking around. And my answer was 'no'. He didn't really love me, and clearly didn't respect me either. So we're breaking up next time I see him. Hopefully his enchilada will keep him warm in that big empty bed of his.

****s are a real hoot sometimes!

Sorry to hear but racism not necessary at all

[Misti]

----------------GREAT GAY OFF 2013-----------UPDATE--------------
I had a great night out with Woody seeing him off before his trip to Oz. He set me up with a vgl fella and I went home with a spring in my step; mainly to catch the last tube! It was nice to be out for the first time in as long time and have the body confidence to pull. Woody needs a little encouragement as soon as he`s back from Oz though - hes not trained since November! We have dates now too. London Pride 2013 is from 21st to 28th of July this year with the parade on the sunday. Seems daft too me; either all the big pride nights will be sat night with everyone too far gone to do the parade or on sunday when no-one will want to go cause they have work the next day! Daft. There's also the return of a BB comp in September called Titan. I helped out backstage there a few years back when it was last on, and I am tempted, seeing on how well this goes, to enter a novice class. Seems a little rediculous right now but give me a few months and...

[Rizing42]

hey. I'm back

[mikel1975]

I'm going to be breaking up with my new guy. He has admitted to me that he is attracted to Latino men, and I am not one. I caught him in a lie about the taco he's been seeing behind my back. Said this guy doesn't do the whole F*ckbook thing, and three days later I found his FB page. This burrito interrupted my date with the cheater, and he actually took the call and went outside for nearly 40 minutes, leaving me to wonder if it's worth sticking around. And my answer was 'no'. He didn't really love me, and clearly didn't respect me either. So we're breaking up next time I see him. Hopefully his enchilada will keep him warm in that big empty bed of his.

****s are a real hoot sometimes!

Sorry Jerbs. Glad you can move and like men straight says, your not allowing yourself to be someone's doormat". Right person is out there somewhere for you.

[cool2001]

[bhujerban]

Lords no! Sorry bud, you ere so chipper getting back on the horse again. What a **** valentines.

Sorry to hear that jerbs, and good for you in not becoming a doormat.

Sorry Jerbs. Glad you can move and like men straight says, your not allowing yourself to be someone's doormat". Right person is out there somewhere for you.

Thanks guys.

This morning, his status says "Sent the bf off to work. Now I can't go back to sleep. fml."

So he went and got another one. Guess I got recast... lol. I replied "I'd like to know HOW you sleep at night." Is that catty enough?

[colbytim]

Thanks guys.

This morning, his status says "Sent the bf off to work. Now I can't go back to sleep. fml."

So he went and got another one. Guess I got recast... lol. I replied "I'd like to know HOW you sleep at night." Is that catty enough?

Well played

[LoL Rick]

Well played

Yeah I think that's sufficient. Given the history that jerbs told me on the phone, I'd say cut off all ties with this one. If he contacts you, be gracious and tell him you hope he's happy with his new bf. But don't let him back into your life.

Sorry I haven't been in touch - coming back from the cruise last week was extremely crazy at work.

[Misti]

How was life on the ocean waves Rick?

[LoL Rick]

How was life on the ocean waves Rick?

Unbelievably fun. Look up the last Atlantis cruise review I did, and this one was 25% funner.

[Rizing42]

guys I made new years resolution two months back to swear off men for the year. the first month has been easy but I'm really struggling with this.

[Misti]

guys I made new years resolution two months back to swear off men for the year. the first month has been easy but I'm really struggling with this.

Dont do it! Your 21! You should be relishing all your encounters. rough smooth, long short, your missing out on some serious personal growth, experiance and...fun.

[Rizing42]

Dont do it! Your 21! You should be relishing all your encounters. rough smooth, long short, your missing out on some serious personal growth, experiance and...fun.

I wish I could be there were some men in my past that ruined it for me. I hope I never see those sons of bitches again

[bhujerban]

Yeah I think that's sufficient. Given the history that jerbs told me on the phone, I'd say cut off all ties with this one. If he contacts you, be gracious and tell him you hope he's happy with his new bf. But don't let him back into your life.

Sorry I haven't been in touch - coming back from the cruise last week was extremely crazy at work.

Actually, I'm doing all right. I think I kinda knew this one was trouble. Not sure I want to keep a friendship either - before our relationship began, we got along great. The chemistry was definitely good. But after this... I really don't know. I'm gonna give him some hell tonight when I go to get my things.

I wish I could be there were some men in my past that ruined it for me. I hope I never see those sons of bitches again

I think I see what you did there. Possib-LOLs.

[bhujerban]

Just found out that Chicago Pride this year is on the last weekend of the month. I don't work that weekend at the church. Which means I can get there in time for the parade AND all the hot guys AND not get stuck at Union Station for seven hours when I miss the bus back to town at 8:30pm. Yay, go me!

Oh, and I might get the opera company to perform at the local Pride on the first weekend of June. Also yay!

[LoL Rick]

Actually, I'm doing all right. I think I kinda knew this one was trouble. Not sure I want to keep a friendship either - before our relationship began, we got along great. The chemistry was definitely good. But after this... I really don't know. I'm gonna give him some hell tonight when I go to get my things.

No no no no NO! Don't try to be friends, and DON'T give him hell! Be civil and get away from him before you get your tires slashed or worse.

[broad.stance]

guys I made new years resolution two months back to swear off men for the year. the first month has been easy but I'm really struggling with this.

I wish I could be there were some men in my past that ruined it for me. I hope I never see those sons of bitches again

It could be you are struggling with the resolution because the reason you swore off men isn't a good one.

You got screwed over by a couple of guys - this can happen, and for a lot of people it needs to happen - and it would be understandable if you wanted to take a step back to figure out why you responded toward them. What benefit is there to this decision, and what do you hope to learn in this year-long process? There should be something that'll help you grow as person and learn more about yourself, and if not, this is punishment. You've written only two lines on the topic, but it reads as though you've placed yourself in a position that will prevent you from moving past these bad experiences. As long as the decision hinges on those men, they will remain a large influence in your life. Ask yourself if they are worth it.

[Misti]

I wish I could be there were some men in my past that ruined it for me. I hope I never see those sons of bitches again

Ive been ruined by some men in my past - thats why Im a size queen (King) now. Jks aside though, dont let your perception of your past ruin the potential for your future - be gratefull for the crap relationships because it helps refine and define your spec`s for future ones - Alanis Morrisettes 21 things comes to mind.

[Misti]

It could be you are struggling with the resolution because the reason you swore off men isn't a good one.

You got screwed over by a couple of guys - this can happen, and for a lot of people it needs to happen - and it would be understandable if you wanted to take a step back to figure out why you responded toward them. What benefit is there to this decision, and what do you hope to learn in this year-long process? There should be something that'll help you grow as person and learn more about yourself, and if not, this is punishment. You've written only two lines on the topic, but it reads as though you've placed yourself in a position that will prevent you from moving past these bad experiences. As long as the decision hinges on those men, they will remain a large influence in your life. Ask yourself if they are worth it.

Brava. The lasting pain we feel from most people is because we carry it.