It could be you are struggling with the resolution because the reason you swore off men isn't a good one.
You got screwed over by a couple of guys - this can happen, and for a lot of people it needs to happen - and it would be understandable if you wanted to take a step back to figure out why you responded toward them. What benefit is there to this decision, and what do you hope to learn in this year-long process? There should be something that'll help you grow as person and learn more about yourself, and if not, this is punishment. You've written only two lines on the topic, but it reads as though you've placed yourself in a position that will prevent you from moving past these bad experiences. As long as the decision hinges on those men, they will remain a large influence in your life. Ask yourself if they are worth it.
Originally Posted by Misti
Ive been ruined by some men in my past - thats why Im a size queen (King) now. Jks aside though, dont let your perception of your past ruin the potential for your future - be gratefull for the crap relationships because it helps refine and define your spec`s for future ones - Alanis Morrisettes 21 things comes to mind.
That is probably what I need to do, especially because I really don't want this hanging over my head should someone new come along and he's a great guy. I need to learn to let go sometimes but I still don't know how, which is why I want to take some time away from dudes. I unfortunately can't deal with the people who screwed me up in the first place
Jerbs has a small happy. Today I met this hot young thing at the gym. Inky, wears a "Beast Mode" shirt and beardy face. And he apparently didn't bathe today. One thing that gets me sexually excited is the natural scent of a man. And this bro was trying to drive me crazy with his pheromones. So I finally talked to him. Nice guy, friendly, and being around him for just that minute (right in the face of that odor) was intoxicating. If it were a gay gym or a Boystown bar, I would have jumped him right there. Well, probably not... but I'd at least ask him a few more questions and see if we can't have a little fun... tee hee
Somebody's on the rebound, ya?
The thing I like least about the treadmill is that I can't run from my farts. -- Source unknown
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Originally Posted by bhujerban
Jerbs has a small happy. Today I met this hot young thing at the gym. Inky, wears a "Beast Mode" shirt and beardy face. And he apparently didn't bathe today. One thing that gets me sexually excited is the natural scent of a man. And this bro was trying to drive me crazy with his pheromones. So I finally talked to him. Nice guy, friendly, and being around him for just that minute (right in the face of that odor) was intoxicating. If it were a gay gym or a Boystown bar, I would have jumped him right there. Well, probably not... but I'd at least ask him a few more questions and see if we can't have a little fun... tee hee
Somebody's on the rebound, ya?
I know exactly what you mean. Sound really does it for me too, all that grunting sets me off sometimes.
As to "other" previous slanderous comments - I wish I could say you were wrong. Im listed for potholing in a holiday brochure somewhere.
Location: Harrow, London, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
Age: 33
Stats: 6'0", 228 lbs
Posts: 755
BodyPoints: 8762
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Originally Posted by stu-boy
It seems the London gay bodybuilder type is a minority around here. Shame.
Oh no, what can I expect when Woody returns?
There's a few of us, Woody and I are the gobby ones and his good self is a bit of a predator; like a venus fly trap on legs, quiet, deadly, a bit of a weed with a big head and ready to snap his meaty lips around you so you can never escape. (Hehe oh hes so gonna kill me when he reads that-hehe)
Has anyone ever been to the point where you don't care how much money you make at work... its not enough to keep you there to deal with the bull****t anymore!?
I think I'm there! I'm sick of the workers and the whole oilfield environment is just not where I want to be anymore. I'm the operations manager for the whole company so ALL of the problems and BS come to me. I work an insane amount of hours and rarely get a day off and I've been thinking I'm pretty much selling my life to the company for an "X" amount of dollars per year and I want my life back...
Is it time to go? I made it to the top so do I really want to start at the bottom somewhere else? I just don't know... I got into it with the President yesterday and after we exchanged some unprofessional words, I capped it off with "FUK YOU AND THIS JOB"... after we hashed it out then it was like it never happened.
Oh well. I'm here now and just needed to vent a little. Hopefully things will get better.
My name is Josh, and I joined the website a few days ago. I was looking through the forums tonight and ran across this thread. There are some definitely interesting conversations going on, and I think its great that we have our thread. SO how is everybody doing tonight?
Thanks MiamiSpartan I am glad I found the thread. I am new to the whole bodybuilding scene as well. I am not interested in the competition side, but more so in getting stronger and more defined.
I started a bodyblog as well, but I think I rushed into it before I was ready as I'm still recovering from surgery.
Location: Harrow, London, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
Age: 33
Stats: 6'0", 228 lbs
Posts: 755
BodyPoints: 8762
Rep Power: 127
Originally Posted by jwelbo00
Thanks MiamiSpartan I am glad I found the thread. I am new to the whole bodybuilding scene as well. I am not interested in the competition side, but more so in getting stronger and more defined.
I started a bodyblog as well, but I think I rushed into it before I was ready as I'm still recovering from surgery.
30, gay, recovering from surgery and trying to get ur body back/together...yep ur in good company.
30, gay, recovering from surgery and trying to get ur body back/together...yep ur in good company.
Thanks Misti,
Yes I will confirm being gay as well since you highlighted it. I also attached a pic from a few secs ago shirtless which I rarely do. How are things in London?
Thanks Misti,
Yes I will confirm being gay as well since you highlighted it. I also attached a pic from a few secs ago shirtless which I rarely do. How are things in London?
My, what a big scar! What did they do to you??
The thing I like least about the treadmill is that I can't run from my farts. -- Source unknown
walk it off bud .... walk it off...... hard to leave when you dont have anything to go too....... in this economic climate.. not the best decision... way out the options.... make a plan and then move forward.. but dont cut off your nose to spite your face......
Originally Posted by nick03
Let me ask yall a question...
Has anyone ever been to the point where you don't care how much money you make at work... its not enough to keep you there to deal with the bull****t anymore!?
I think I'm there! I'm sick of the workers and the whole oilfield environment is just not where I want to be anymore. I'm the operations manager for the whole company so ALL of the problems and BS come to me. I work an insane amount of hours and rarely get a day off and I've been thinking I'm pretty much selling my life to the company for an "X" amount of dollars per year and I want my life back...
Is it time to go? I made it to the top so do I really want to start at the bottom somewhere else? I just don't know... I got into it with the President yesterday and after we exchanged some unprofessional words, I capped it off with "FUK YOU AND THIS JOB"... after we hashed it out then it was like it never happened.
Oh well. I'm here now and just needed to vent a little. Hopefully things will get better.
I had abdominal surgery to take care of a blocked bowel that was caused by scarred tissue. This is the second time I have had this surgery as well. I have heard that once a muscle is cut it can only become half as strong as it could be.
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