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Met in may, chick became my onitis quick style. She treated me like a door mat, and I tried leaving eventually. Then she claimed prego and I was dumb enough to say yes to marriage. Bish lied about prego and turned into crazy bish super Saiyan mode post marriage. Destroyed my life along with being abusive (never layed a finger on her, wish I had, called cops before and they took her side). I eventually filed for divorce and had it finalized in early December. We had been separated a month prior but tried working it out after divorce meeting. She admitted to having fcked around, while apart. **** goes sour within a week with her being abusive and crazy again so I bounce and call it quits for good.
Chick is mentally ill, but I truly loved her and wanted things to work. **** was like living with the devil srs. I went no contact with her making several attempts to contact me, I stood my ground because I had given her so many chances.
Last night was first weekend off in months, I decide to go downtown with guy friends. We were club hopping and while exiting this one club, ex and I cross paths (I just smirked and kept walking). She immediatly grabs my arm and tries talking to me. Saying why is it I'm still talking **** about her (says a friend told her). I respond with that I've only been talking **** about troll fb accounts (which she's made several as well as other stupid girls I banged).
She keeps trying to talk and I'm just responding with let's be cool, what happened happened, we live different lives now (deep down I still love her, I could never go back tho cuz bish crazy). Finally I just walk off, keeping it nice (happy cuz I kept my cool and realized that I'm better without her, fckn happy seeing her didn't get me sad, which is what I was expecting).
My buddies and I go to different club, across the street. We are there for a good 30min and decide to leave. When we exit I see my ex at the corner of my eye sitting outside with her girl friends. I'm like fck she going to start drama (heard stories of her going crazy on exs and girls at clubs). I tell my friends lets ignore and keep walking. She jumps up from sitting Down As we walk past her I hear a loud "hi Andrew" while seeing her do her typical myspace fck me poses from the corner of my eye. I don't turn my head, waved and said hi, and kept walking. Friends I was with said she kept trying to get my attention.
As we are waking my buddy then tells me he saw her the other day with some short chubby guy at the gym. Pretty much unaesthetic as fck. **** had me laughing because she use to insult me on how my body sucks compared to her exs.
I feel fckn happy because I was always afraid if I had ever seen her I'd have a meltdown or something. I would've done literally anything for this girl back in the day, she took advantage of it to the extreme. Was crazy and even tried getting everyone n her side. Luckily she has a past which is full of drama and thankful those who didn't know her past saw her I action.
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Reps til I'm out. Bumped into exwife at club
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well done for avoiding drama.
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Guy she had fcked whil apart was withing rank 20 of heavy weight boxing. Bish threw it in my face as she claimed I'll never amount to his status. After divorce I messaged guy on fb to keep her away from me. Guy took her side and then dropped her a few weeks in. Guess he saw how fcked she was. Feels good that she stooped low. Chick has a bad name where I live, would have randoms approach me telling me crazy stories about her
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I'd damm well rep you into the heavens for the way you handled this. You kept the high-ground, remained calm and above all managed to be the better person. Some people start to fight fire with fire at times like that, but all that does is put yourself in a worse position. You handled it more than well. Also, lold at short chubby guy.
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Atta boy. Glad you we're able to handle it so smoothly. **** a bish like that man, you've done well my son.
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This is probably the first tl;dr posts I actually read lol.
Sloots gonna sloots.
Crazy's gonna cray.
Ex's gonna ex.
Looks like you still have that oneitis OP, but are trying to play it off.
It's either you tell her to phuck off and just wipe her out of your head or attempt to "fix things" up with her (extremely unlikely/10 ).
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