Being invited over to her place for a movie

[kona_mtb]

If you were to invite a guy over to your place for a movie, would the idea of sex atleast be in your mind? You must think that's what he is after?

I guess I'm asking if you get invited over would you be offended if a guy made a move?

I posted in the guys relationship misc but no girls seem to responde and I dont need guys opinions. I have been in a 4yr relationship since age 17 so Im new to this stuff

[Keltron]

Nobody can give you a definitive answer which is what you're looking for. You want someone to tell you what to do.
"yeah, make a move, she totally wants you to." or "No, it's definitely too soon. She'll push you away."
You have to make the decision on your own based on your own judgement. You have to take a risk if you want anything substantial in life.

But w/that said, most girls aren't going to agree to watch a movie at their place and be surprised if the guy makes a move. Plus SHE texted YOU.

[kona_mtb]

Nobody can give you a definitive answer which is what you're looking for. You want someone to tell you what to do.
"yeah, make a move, she totally wants you to." or "No, it's definitely too soon. She'll push you away."
You have to make the decision on your own based on your own judgement. You have to take a risk if you want anything substantial in life.

But w/that said, most girls aren't going to agree to watch a movie at their place and be surprised if the guy makes a move. Plus SHE texted YOU.

Thanks man, Im more just trying to figure out if I am way off base. It just seems to easy, one date and then a movie at her place. When I stopped dating (high school mind you), invite for a movie ment sex everytime but it usually took more work before you got that invite. any ladies have an opinion?

[FreeReport]

She won't get offended when she's chloroform'd, just saying. Just tell her she dosed off while you wake up naked in her bed.

[daonleebabe]

Nobody can give you a definitive answer which is what you're looking for. You want someone to tell you what to do.
"yeah, make a move, she totally wants you to." or "No, it's definitely too soon. She'll push you away."
You have to make the decision on your own based on your own judgement. You have to take a risk if you want anything substantial in life.

But w/that said, most girls aren't going to agree to watch a movie at their place and be surprised if the guy makes a move. Plus SHE texted YOU.

Yep im with Keltron...

[MelnCrash]

Personally if i invite a guy over for a movie i mean 'yes we are probably going to have sex'

BUT i'm not most girls and for some girls movie means movie.

So it very much depends on the girl.

[lotusdeva]

Hmm....trying to think why would I invite a guy for a movie when we can go to the movie theater? What does my place have that movie theater doesn't? Oh, a bed!

[SweetDreamz]

Maybe because there's no right answer to your question. It really depends on the girl. From body language you can tell if she wants you to make a move or not.
Also, it depends on how long you've known her for (i.e. first time hanging out or not)

Some girls want to bang fast, some just want to cuddle. It's up to you to observe.

[kona_mtb]

Maybe because there's no right answer to your question. It really depends on the girl. From body language you can tell if she wants you to make a move or not.
Also, it depends on how long you've known her for (i.e. first time hanging out or not)

Some girls want to bang fast, some just want to cuddle. It's up to you to observe.

Ya I get what your saying, im just new at this and nervous as ****. We went on a drink date, really hit it off but never ended up kissing or anything. Then she invited me over to her place for a movie. Made it known that if I come after 9 we will be alone (her roommate will be gone at that time)

[DBee]

Ya I get what your saying, im just new at this and nervous as ****. We went on a drink date, really hit it off but never ended up kissing or anything. Then she invited me over to her place for a movie. Made it known that if I come after 9 we will be alone (her roommate will be gone at that time)

Go with the flow bro the more you think about it the more nervous you're going to be. Let it be and what ever happens, happens... it'll be natural that way.

[skillz17]

Go for it.
Either she will slap you on the face or you will have her tongue in your mouth.

There is no door #3.

[Monicka8311]

She won't get offended when she's chloroform'd, just saying. Just tell her she dosed off while you wake up naked in her bed.

Is it bad that these are my favorite answers...

But I think it depends on where you're trying to go with the girl. I've never invited a guy over for a movie (mostly cause my place is my place and I don't want him knowing where I live cause he might decide to come over unannouced and if I want to chill with somebody i'll let them know)
I've gone over to guys' houses for movies but i've made sure it's earlier in the night and I leave. What time are y'all getting together? If it runs into bedtime... she's probably thinking you'll stay the night.. and that usually ends in no sleep.

[CoffeCanSlayer]

Make a move, but if you want to GF her I wouldn't take it past making out and heavy groping.

[Monicka8311]

^^^ agreed. But if she's a good girl the heavy groping might get you in a bit of trouble, play it by ear for sure.

[CoffeCanSlayer]

^^^ agreed. But if she's a good girl the heavy groping might get you in a bit of trouble, play it by ear for sure.

No, I meant even if SHE wants it, if you want a girlfriend, you shouldn't be having sex with her within 2 times of spending time with eachother. Whether or not she wants it, you base a relationship off of orgasms........it will fail.

[Monicka8311]

Alright... I can agree with that. So basically it comes down to what you really want from that girl... just sex or a relationship.

[whatevergirl]

Just enjoy the night, have fun...and let it lead you. Don't overthink it.

[MsAurora]

Keltron NAILED it! Great post, bud

[kona_mtb]

What time are y'all getting together? If it runs into bedtime... she's probably thinking you'll stay the night.. and that usually ends in no sleep.

9. She said to come over then cause it's when her roommate goes to bed usually

[W8sB4dates]

9. She said to come over then cause it's when her roommate goes to bed usually

Get it in son.

[luckynumber13as]

Just enjoy the night, have fun...and let it lead you. Don't overthink it.

This Exactly.

[Monicka8311]

9. She said to come over then cause it's when her roommate goes to bed usually

Did you get some noche?!

[luckynumber13as]

Did you get some noche?!

The suspense is killing us....

[themyth2009]

No, I meant even if SHE wants it, if you want a girlfriend, you shouldn't be having sex with her within 2 times of spending time with eachother. Whether or not she wants it, you base a relationship off of orgasms........it will fail.

I am with you on this. If I went on one date with woman then movie to house and banged her probably be the last time I ever talked to her.

I would rather just be honest up front and say we are meeting for sex. That way no confusion in expectations.

[Monicka8311]

I am with you on this. If I went on one date with woman then movie to house and banged her probably be the last time I ever talked to her.

I would rather just be honest up front and say we are meeting for sex. That way no confusion in expectations.

It's sad but i'd rather a guy be up front as well... I kind of hitn around the question so I know what kind of guy i'm talking to. I've never had a one night stand and never slept with somebody I wasn't in a realtionship with and i'm up front with it because I don't want to get put in the awkward spot of shooting them down and making them mad and ruining a friendship.

If a guy is just looking for noche, i'd rather him find it someplace else and us keep each other in the friendzone.

[5more]

Go with the flow bro the more you think about it the more nervous you're going to be. Let it be and what ever happens, happens... it'll be natural that way.

This is the best advice right here. Just go with it if it feels right.

[fringey187]

there are more guys in the female misc section then their are girls...

[themyth2009]

It's sad but i'd rather a guy be up front as well... I kind of hitn around the question so I know what kind of guy i'm talking to. I've never had a one night stand and never slept with somebody I wasn't in a realtionship with and i'm up front with it because I don't want to get put in the awkward spot of shooting them down and making them mad and ruining a friendship.

If a guy is just looking for noche, i'd rather him find it someplace else and us keep each other in the friendzone.

Works out better that way. No one gets hurt. It is hard to be up front with a woman and say hey you are a POA only. It works out better if a woman tells you that. But be prepared as a man to have your ego bruised because lots of women will stick to it and never return your calls or texts again. Feel used and cheap. Hold me.

[ladybugg101306]

If you were to invite a guy over to your place for a movie, would the idea of sex atleast be in your mind? You must think that's what he is after?

I guess I'm asking if you get invited over would you be offended if a guy made a move?

I posted in the guys relationship misc but no girls seem to responde and I dont need guys opinions. I have been in a 4yr relationship since age 17 so Im new to this stuff

I invited a guy friend over for a movie with NO intention of sex. It wasnt on my mind at all, i even TOLD him be expecting no hankey pankey!! Didnt even make it through the movie before ending up in my bed because he pulled the "let me give you a massage move". It turned into a 3 year relationship with a beautiful son. Just depends on the girl. If shes laying with you during the movie and isnt being distant, id say its ok to maybe make a move for a kiss...but dont EXPECT that sex is on her mind or that youll get it.