Just broke up with my GF of 5 years. Feeling like crap. 485 reps. GTFIH SRS

[Synthetis]

Alright guys,

i have just broken up with my girlfriend. Been with her since i was 18. had a lot of ups and downs. She is really a great girl and she has actually done everything for me. The sex was great too as she also did whatever i wanted. 2 years ago i moved to another city, about 150 miles away, to study and have therefore only seen her 5-6 days a month. We still did amazing things such as playing pokemon for over 12hours straight competing who gets the better pokemon and that. The last few months i was getting more and more interested in other girls...think about it...5 years with the same girl and never doing anything. She was also the one who took my virginity and was also my first girlfriend.

I have broken up with her because i think the distance is phucking our relationship up as we only see each other around 6 times a month. Now im sitting here feeling like a complete chit. All i remember is all the good times with her and Im thinking i did the wrong thing. She was still deeply in love with me and told me when i broke up with her that she will forever and always love me and that she doesnt think she will find another guy like me.

Im a ****en wreck now and i dont know what to do. She said that the distance is a problem but if we really love each other, that we could make it work out. Just as long as we prove our love to one another. I dont ****en know what to do now...


Heres a pic for you guys. thats her.






cliffs:
-i broke up with my girlfriend who i was 5 years together with.
-dont know if i did the right thing...
-feeling like a complete crap..

Please help me what to do guys. Will rep srs and good answers.



BY THE WAY: IT'S NOT ME ON THE PIC. IT'S MY BROTHER.

[chosenbrahh]

will read then reply

seems like you done goofed but probably should just continue on. If you wanted badly enough to be single, that you broke up with her. Then you cant regret that decision. The next months or more will be hard. All youll remember are the good times. But concentrate on bettering yourself, doing the things you wanted to, and hanging out with friends. Good luck op

[NoochBrah]

but you guys look so happy together.






















not srs.

[AMERICAN_BEAST]

seems like you guys had a lot of fun judging on the pic

[irboreddd]

don't worry, you'll eventually get it over brah

[swaptrex]

looks like you were having a blast!

[Callous]

make a list of all her flaws

it'll make you feel better brah

[OPofPiece]

many fish in the sea

[kyokushin1]

lol long distance for 2 years? pretty good chance she cheated on you anyway brah

[AdamofAsgard]

Damn, sorry brother. POF is always there ya know...

[Synthetis]

lol its not me on the pic. that was my brother. i was the one who took the pic.

[batop]

on to the next brah

[Starred]

ya dun goof'd op. you split up with her only because of distance? you only split up IF the distance is cuasing other problems. It's not a problem in itself, it can work (in rare occasions admittedly)

[NoochBrah]

lol its not me on the pic. that was my brother. i was the one who took the pic.

ahh well that makes more sense. maybe my reps will make you feel better.

[XenoKlast]

You'll get over it dude, just dont get too hung up about her.
Just get back out there and enjoy singledom again, you only live once, try not to use up to much time being sad...

[Gibb1991]

Got dumped by gf of 3.5 years 1 month ago as of yesterday. First gf, first make out, first everything.

My advice for you, is to distract yourself as much as possible. I ended up making out and fingering a girl a week after we broke up (only stopped there because she had a huge bush...) and now I'm hitting on everything that walks, getting results too.

I know this is your general misc BS advice, but its made me feel so much better man. Get out there and entertain yourself.

[TrainInsane1987]

stay safe and strong op... i just did the same, but gf of 2.5 years... it's hard but when you realize it's gotta be done.... OFF LIKE A BAND-AID!

[lobs3537]

i just broke up with gf as well.

not of five years but one year lol



basically you can't keep going back forth with her on whether or not you want to date. You made your decision and you should stand by it. It is unfair to string her along. Now if you truly think you made the wrong decision then try to bring things back together but in all honesty you are feeling what most people feel after a break up. just stick it out

[Synthetis]

You'll get over it dude, just dont get too hung up about her.
Just get back out there and enjoy singledom again, you only live once, try not to use up to much time being sad...

Yeah but im not sure if i did the right thing...It wasnt really a problem. Maybe i just needed a break and have some fun with other girls after 5 years of being in a relationship..

Got dumped by gf of 3.5 years 1 month ago as of yesterday. First gf, first make out, first everything.

My advice for you, is to distract yourself as much as possible. I ended up making out and fingering a girl a week after we broke up (only stopped there because she had a huge bush...) and now I'm hitting on everything that walks, getting results too.

I know this is your general misc BS advice, but its made me feel so much better man. Get out there and entertain yourself.

Its different if you got dumped. But i dumped my girlfriend who really didnt do anything bad...

stay safe and strong op... i just did the same, but gf of 2.5 years... it's hard but when you realize it's gotta be done.... OFF LIKE A BAND-AID!

Yeah but why did you break up bro? any real reason?

[Pyrodox11]

u can do better than that brah (srs). keep your head up, it'll get easier as the time passes i promise

[RoscoeBlunt]

go out there and meet some other girls. don't look for girlfriends though. just go out there and have some fun. take the time off to figure out who you are as a person, you might find that you wanna be back with her. more than likely, though, you'll realize that even though what you had was great, there are better things out there.

[Pliffy]

Right thing bro. Even having a slight second thought about the relationship of that long @ this point in your life means you should try and experience the single life. The next 5 years of your life will be the best. You'll have money, freedom, and now you're single to make the absolute most of it.


I as a single baller couldn't imagine being tied down right now at this point in my life.

[mcopo]

Got dumped by gf of 3.5 years 1 month ago as of yesterday. First gf, first make out, first everything.

My advice for you, is to distract yourself as much as possible. I ended up making out and fingering a girl a week after we broke up (only stopped there because she had a huge bush...) and now I'm hitting on everything that walks, getting results too.

I know this is your general misc BS advice, but its made me feel so much better man. Get out there and entertain yourself.

lmao ^

[Criscofats]

Just convince her to let you have a one sided open relationship, brah. I can't offer any advice though, I'm currently in the same kind of relationship without the distance, don't know what I would have done in your situation.

[SquallFF8]

Damn brah, reading this thread actually made me sad. I know that horrible feeling that you've got right now. I told myself after my ex of 2.5 years that I hope that I never have to go through that feeling agin. And you were together for twice as long as that...so I can only imagine.

The part about you two playing pokemon hit me hard because my ex and I had a relationship like that where you could do anything together. It really is a horrible feeling to break up after something like that. I'd give you the typical advice about how theres other girls out there, keep your head up, blah bah blah...but the only thing that will help you is time. Don't get on that ****gy time and call her up or try to get back together....just move on. You're 23. It'll be the best for you in the long run. You know this.

Feel free to vent on here or even PM me for the hell of it. Letting it out definitely helps.

[Synthetis]

Yeah but you always realise what youve just lost when you havent got that anymore. Any of you guys ever broke up with your girlfriend, but then a few weeks later got back together again?

[Alfha]

Hey brah, come here and have a e-misc-hug (since it's a misc hug it includes some gay ass chit).

You were thinking about other bishes, feeling starts to grow and grow. You could cheat on her and maybe her never finding out, but it would still be cheating and it isn't fair to her. She's a great person dude, maybe comfort her, make her know that it really isn't her, it's you. Ofcourse, the time will come when you'll have to tell her you have to let go comforting her so she grows strong.

Keep strong brah. Try to do chit. Walk, go to the movies, go to a (sport) game, try not going with friends and talking about it because it will drive you crazy. Again, try doing chit, you will acquire more and more perspective, and will see the light. It's all good brah. You were a great boyfriend, and ended things right instead of ending them when it's all gone down the toilet because you're not in love anymore. You love her, but you're not IN love with her.

[Synthetis]

Just convince her to let you have a one sided open relationship, brah. I can't offer any advice though, I'm currently in the same kind of relationship without the distance, don't know what I would have done in your situation.

yeah i dont know why i have done that...i think i have done a big big mistake...

Damn brah, reading this thread actually made me sad. I know that horrible feeling that you've got right now. I told myself after my ex of 2.5 years that I hope that I never have to go through that feeling agin. And you were together for twice as long as that...so I can only imagine.

The part about you two playing pokemon hit me hard because my ex and I had a relationship like that where you could do anything together. It really is a horrible feeling to break up after something like that. I'd give you the typical advice about how theres other girls out there, keep your head up, blah bah blah...but the only thing that will help you is time. Don't get on that ****gy time and call her up or try to get back together....just move on. You're 23. It'll be the best for you in the long run. You know this.

Feel free to vent on here or even PM me for the hell of it. Letting it out definitely helps.

Thanks bro. seriously. Will rep you in a minute. Yeah man and not just that..we went to the cinema to watch films such as aliens vs predator (she wanted to see it), we played mortal kombat until late in the morning...phuck man..i seriously think i phucked up..

[RainMak3r]

Takes a while to get over your first but it'll happen.

Listen close.. It's Friday. Go out tonight, have some fun, get distracted.. Etc. You need this. In a day or two your mind will be more clear and you can really think about what you want... Trust me, you need this

[bluemarlinO4]

I was in the exact same situation as you OP. Same age, same time with girl but we broke up cause she was a dumb sloot using me. Things get better. You're mind is tricking you right now into thinking you should have stayed. CUT ALL CONTACT and in six months this will be a distant memory.