Just went crazy because i'm 23 and haven't lived life (srs)

[endofdays89]

Just started slamming stuff around the house because i realized i'm 23 years old and have never went out. I haven't had friends in 7 years. I have no idea what it's like to go to a party or bar and get yucky and hit on girls. I live my entire life being uncomfortable around groups of people, severe anxiety around girls and awkward at everything i do. All these ****ing girls come at me but i'm such an awkward wreck i cannot pull one to save my life. It just pisses me off so much. I work at a supermarket and rarely greet/talk to customers because i'm so depressed. Some of you guys don't know how well you got it, ****ty friends or stupid gf you still have somebody

[johnissocoolio]

Then do something about it

[Upsss]

Go see a therapist immediately, u *******

[sumZy]

At least you have a job

[Eugene18]

If I knew you in real life we would be doing jackass stunts all day

[HMFIC_BROWSIN]

get professional help. the misc can't fix this bro.

[onthegrind88]

its not all that great OP

i spent 19-21 partying hard and it was fun and wild, but also dangerous and a waste

glad i got all that shiz out of my system

focus on the gym and gettin that cash brah and everything else will fall into place

[frozenbarb]

You need to start now. Start going fishing, traveling, just do it OP, don't think about things.
I've been on a plane 10+ times to different countries and states

I've done so much things i'd be satisfied if I were get hit by a meteorite. well hvnt tried anal yet.. but i think i could live without it.

[SUPER_MANLET]

I'm 26 does that make u feel better ? i'm the same

[gritbro]

stop being a sad**** and become a sick ****, all of us got a piece of zyzz in us.

pm if you need help brah

[bobbobson]

get professional help. the misc can't fix this bro.

this srs this isn't the right place if you actually wanna fix it

[zacharytucker]

but you have 1000 rep power...



















notsrs OP get out there and live dammit

[rjones416]

where do you live? im sure theres some cool miscers in your area that would take you under their wing and get yucky with you.

[SOLIDOPS]

"The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration."

at least your heart is right

start by making some friends

local misc meetup maybe?

[xslick]

Then do something about it

this. if you keep doing what you do, you will keep getting the same results you've been getting.

[Statticbrah]

Must be a miscer...












But good luck brah be positive

[OPsmom]

just start out small op, dont look at it as a race but as a marathon. You have your whole life ahead of you just try to put things in perspective. Set your mind on a big goal then break it up into smaller goals. Like tomorrow I will greet a couple people with a smile at work and work your way up from there. Basically expose yourself to situations that you normally wouldn't and tell yourself you can do them, it will be easier if you set your target goals low at first. Soon you will slowly notice your confidence building and you will begin to feel more alpha, the way you carry yourself will be completely different and you will notice that you wont be thinking about what you can't do but rather how much fun you have doing it. Thats the key right there, once you enjoy doing it, it wont feel depressing and you will be able to focus your thoughts more on things that matter rather than the things that don't (depression/anxiety). You will suffer some setbacks but you gotta realize you were born a man and born to dominate so use the balls that you were given and make life happen.

[treykcks901]

You need to start now. Start going fishing, traveling, just do it OP, don't think about things.
I've been on a plane 10+ times to different countries and states

I've done so much things i'd be satisfied if I were get hit by a meteorite. well hvnt tried anal yet.. but i think i could live without it.

Lol been on a plane 10 times and you've "done so much". Notsureifsrs

[Brick333]

ya know there is this cool new sticky on the first page... might wanna take a look at it. http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=143626783

[manletgenetics]

Life sucks. Why can people not just admit this? for most people you are either a bum, or you work a crappy job for 40+ hours a week. Then you might have a few douchebag friends and a GF who will eventually screw you over because something better comes along. And guess what no matter how good your life is we all die in the end anyway.

[endofdays89]

I'm 26 does that make u feel better ? i'm the same

you serious? why?

its not all that great OP

i spent 19-21 partying hard and it was fun and wild, but also dangerous and a waste

glad i got all that shiz out of my system

focus on the gym and gettin that cash brah and everything else will fall into place

Partying doesn't sound fun, but a normal social life would be ****ing fantastic compared to what i'm going through now. I've been waiting for things to fall into place, i've tried over the years but it's such a slow and painful process. I can't stand people right now because they all have gf's or are married and everyone seems to have no problems socially except me.

[OPsmom]

Life sucks. Why can people not just admit this? for most people you are either a bum, or you work a crappy job for 40+ hours a week. Then you might have a few douchebag friends and a GF who will eventually screw you over because something better comes along. And guess what no matter how good your life is we all die in the end anyway.

thanks for the motivation, will definitely give my children this advice.

[terzcal]

Life sucks. Why can people not just admit this? for most people you are either a bum, or you work a crappy job for 40+ hours a week. Then you might have a few douchebag friends and a GF who will eventually screw you over because something better comes along. And guess what no matter how good your life is we all die in the end anyway.

jakes on you, supported by parents, pursuing my dream, back up plan as a high school gym teacher ahhh

[GavriloPrincip]

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

[sonnicc88]

Just started slamming stuff around the house because i realized i'm 23 years old and have never went out. I haven't had friends in 7 years. I have no idea what it's like to go to a party or bar and get yucky and hit on girls. I live my entire life being uncomfortable around groups of people, severe anxiety around girls and awkward at everything i do. All these ****ing girls come at me but i'm such an awkward wreck i cannot pull one to save my life. It just pisses me off so much. I work at a supermarket and rarely greet/talk to customers because i'm so depressed. Some of you guys don't know how well you got it, ****ty friends or stupid gf you still have somebody

1st world problems

[mikevall]

just focus on changing ourself for the better 1 step at a time each day bro, be grateful to be alive, live in the present. just be positive bro

[CreatineHulk]

strong username to OP's realisation ratio



go read some self help-ish type books... get the ball rolling with changing things
i.e how to win friends and influence people

[Fairplay]

what's your diet like? eat absolutely clean. meat, eggs, veges, fruits, nuts, THAT'S IT. Drink only water. get off the fukking computer and take up hobbies that are outdoors and in the real world. relax doing the finer things in life, reading, fishing, swimming etc. and smash the gym everyday. learn how to fight and take up an mma class. take a multi every day. if ater 6 months of this you still feel the same (you won't), but if you do, then go and talk to someone like a psychologist who can help you through your sh!t.

[fex]

I give you permission to go out and have fun

srs just go and enjoy life your the one whose holding yourself back from doing all those things

[GoingGuido]

Just started slamming stuff around the house because i realized i'm 23 years old and have never went out. I haven't had friends in 7 years. I have no idea what it's like to go to a party or bar and get yucky and hit on girls. I live my entire life being uncomfortable around groups of people, severe anxiety around girls and awkward at everything i do. All these ****ing girls come at me but i'm such an awkward wreck i cannot pull one to save my life. It just pisses me off so much. I work at a supermarket and rarely greet/talk to customers because i'm so depressed. Some of you guys don't know how well you got it, ****ty friends or stupid gf you still have somebody

Back in the Renaissance, we would have condemned fools like you to a lifetime of servitude to Christ in the Roman Catholic Church.

Seriously though, don't make the error of equating partying with living your life. They're two entirely separate things. Living your life entails being successful in whatever you do, and leaving your mark on society whether through your daily interactions with others/your work. Pursue what you enjoy, whether it be study, sport, philosophy, politics, making money, whatever. Do not make the error of equating the possession of a woman with happiness. That's a huge blunder that so many guys on this forum seem to make. A girl isn't going to make you happy. She frequently invites more problems into your life with her incessant bull**** and nagging (srs, i have a gf here). Instead, focus on yourself. I know I'm repeating the words of so many other miscers here, but that's because they're so right. Rather than basing the success of your life on the amount of friends around you, cherish instead your immediate family. Friends are fleeting, but family is forever. I understand that we live in a very individualistic society that idolizes successful individuals, but possessing strong family ties is essential to social mobility. They can help you get into the job of your dreams, etc. and can cure your loneliness. ****TY FRIENDS AINT WORTH ****.

Back on the notion of partying is that it should be a celebration of one's success. If you're not successful, don't party. Non-stop partying is ****ing detrimental to one's personal and mental health. It distracts you from your goals. Pop bottles only when you're CEOing 10k a day.
Tl;dr. Go read some classical literature and broaden your horizons.