ツ Forever Alone Crew ツ Part 2

[psai]

honestly, i think you guys need to stop discussing which one of you is more foreveralone than the others

it's depressing, and focusing on negative aspects of yourself and negative thought processes only makes your self-esteem and confidence worse.

ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE! i can't stress that statement enough


btw, how's everyone's week 2 assignment coming along?

[Exodus420]

haha well i completed that, i can hold eye contact with people. its a bit awkward but doable

[HYFA]

Alright guys, so as I've mentioned on here before, took a year course that involved working with a group for the entire year. Got into one group, developed crush on extremely cute girl in the group. However, I acted extremely FA in the group, especially around the girl. Wouldn't talk in the group unless spoken to, wouldn't make jokes, always quiet, and when she spoke to me, I literally would look at the ground refusing to make eye contact. I know I came off hard with that negative energy, no confidence, the works. I felt like shiat before this group, but being in this group made things even worse. It was during this group that I realized that I am so ugly as fuark, that I will never be able to get a girl that I like to like me back not only because of my looks, but how shiatty I came off in regards to personality. Funny thing is i'm way different around friends/family. It's just around strangers and especially attractive girls I go into a shell.

Anyways, only in the last month did I not give a fuark, and I kind of slowly opened up in the group, but it was obviously too late.

Long story short, group wants to meet up for drinks, I said I don't know, but I'm thinking of not going. I just want to move past these people, cuz these were the last people I met in my FA/self hate state of mind. Barely got over the oneitis. This summer, I plan on just not giving a fuark, joining sports clubs etc to expand my social life. These are the last people I met that I was fuarking FA around as strangers. Should I even bother going?

[Exodus420]

Alright guys, so as I've mentioned on here before, took a year course that involved working with a group for the entire year. Got into one group, developed crush on extremely cute girl in the group. However, I acted extremely FA in the group, especially around the girl. Wouldn't talk in the group unless spoken to, wouldn't make jokes, always quiet, and when she spoke to me, I literally would look at the ground refusing to make eye contact. I know I came off hard with that negative energy, no confidence, the works. I felt like shiat before this group, but being in this group made things even worse. It was during this group that I realized that I am so ugly as fuark, that I will never be able to get a girl that I like to like me back not only because of my looks, but how shiatty I came off in regards to personality. Funny thing is i'm way different around friends/family. It's just around strangers and especially attractive girls I go into a shell.

Anyways, only in the last month did I not give a fuark, and I kind of slowly opened up in the group, but it was obviously too late.

Long story short, group wants to meet up for drinks, I said I don't know, but I'm thinking of not going. I just want to move past these people, cuz these were the last people I met in my FA/self hate state of mind. Barely got over the oneitis. This summer, I plan on just not giving a fuark, joining sports clubs etc to expand my social life. These are the last people I met that I was fuarking FA around as strangers. Should I even bother going?

i'd only not go if you are SURE you are going to do that other stuff . . . . .

but i sure as fuk know that feel where around family/friends you are social and confident but around strangers and cute girls you are asocial . . . . . feelsbatman

[HYFA]

honestly, i think you guys need to stop discussing which one of you is more foreveralone than the others

it's depressing, and focusing on negative aspects of yourself and negative thought processes only makes your self-esteem and confidence worse.

ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE! i can't stress that statement enough


btw, how's everyone's week 2 assignment coming along?

Haven't really had time to do assignment 2 since I've only been home/hanging around with friends.

Went to the grocery store, had a little talk with the female cashier, but nothing special. I would say I've definitely improved in the eye contact. I mean it's still forced when I do which makes me feel more nervous, but I still maintain it which feels good. It's something I've been working on for the last month I'd say, since it was so obvious and makes a person come off as a social reject.

[HYFA]

i'd only not go if you are SURE you are going to do that other stuff . . . . .

but i sure as fuk know that feel where around family/friends you are social and confident but around strangers and cute girls you are asocial . . . . . feelsbatman

I'm thinking that if I do go, i'll just pull an 180 for the lulz and act like a completely different person. Straight up don't give a fuark what that girl thinks of me, and just have a good time/be positive.

[Exodus420]

a tip-people think i make eye contact but i make little eye contact actually

just look at their general forehead/facial area, but not directly in their eyes

also well, the thing is, how do you know going to these people wont trigger the foreveralone personality again?

it wud be like me going to my high school reunion, idk how i would act

[HYFA]

a tip-people think i make eye contact but i make little eye contact actually

just look at their general forehead/facial area, but not directly in their eyes

also well, the thing is, how do you know going to these people wont trigger the foreveralone personality again?

it wud be like me going to my high school reunion, idk how i would act

That's definitely a reason why I'm thinking just to say fuk it and not go. Haven't seen the group like in a month. Felt like shiat with this group from like Sept-March, March was where I decided to change my thought process etc. Basically, yea they would be the last people who I met in my negative mind set, I mean they're cool people I have nothing against anyone, but its the fact that yea I might just feel like shiat again if I see that girl again.

[revolutionbrah]

was sitting in my communications class today and immediately thought of the foreveralone.jpg crew when my professor asked the class: "on average how many text messages do you get per day?'

everyone pretty much answered: at least 100. lolwat i was just sitting in the back corner shocked as i have only received 2 over the last couple of weeks lulz.

[HYFA]

was sitting in my communications class today and immediately thought of the foreveralone.jpg crew when my professor asked the class: "on average how many text messages do you get per day?'

everyone pretty much answered: at least 100. lolwat i was just sitting in the back corner shocked as i have only received 2 over the last couple of weeks lulz.

That's the dream...I probably get max like 5-10 contacts a day. Gotta expand that social circle.

[AhDo]

well i'm just gonna go ahead and lay my resume out there

-never intimately talked to a girl
-been one year since high school ended and every friend except one stopped talking to me
-never intimately touched a girl
-throw in masturbation addiction (view porn and masturbate around 2 hours a day since i was 12, a few months away from being 19 now, one hour session early in day and one hour session late in day)
-social anxiety not too bad, i can go out, buy things, go in public, not any problems

Top 3 I have, except I didn't even have any friends in high school
You got me beat on the masturbation addiction, but I get social anxiety going to places, especially around white frat guys and hot girls. For some reasson they give me social anxiety attacks, probably because of the bullchit I had to deal with in high school.

to add to the list:
-never hung out with anyone in my first year of college
-never been to a party
-never drank with anyone
-never ate with anyone ever except my roommate
-mumble when talking to girls

honestly, i think you guys need to stop discussing which one of you is more foreveralone than the others

it's depressing, and focusing on negative aspects of yourself and negative thought processes only makes your self-esteem and confidence worse.

ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE! i can't stress that statement enough


btw, how's everyone's week 2 assignment coming along?

I pride myself in being the biggest FA in this thread (half-srs)

[endofdays89]

are you social when you are drunk?

I've never been drunk see my sig. I'm probably going to get drunk tonight though can't ****ing take it anymore

bro I guarantee you I'm 10X worse than you. I'm the FA king, worse than any of these *******s ITT.

You are 18 though, i'm ****ing 23 and can't do ****. I literally can only talk to people as acquaintences.

Just talked to a girl again today and i was awkward as **** (shaking, not making sense, just looking like a complete retard), only reason i even try is because i crave social interaction.

[revolutionbrah]

I've never been drunk see my sig. I'm probably going to get drunk tonight though can't ****ing take it anymore



You are 18 though, i'm ****ing 23 and can't do ****. I literally can only talk to people as acquaintences.

Just talked to a girl again today and i was awkward as **** (shaking, not making sense, just looking like a complete retard), only reason i even try is because i crave social interaction.

u have kissed girls in the past, claimed u have went to a girls house in high school for some pool hangout, lost ur vcard, u are better than the majority of people here if u accomplished all that awkward or not..

[endofdays89]

are you social when you are drunk?

u have kissed girls in the past, claimed u have went to a girls house in high school for some pool hangout, lost ur vcard, u are better than the majority of people here if u accomplished all that awkward or not..

The other girl was a neighbor and that was when i was 17 i didn't have as many insecurities back then. And it wasn't a pool party we had a pool in our apartment complex. I got lucky getting laid it will never happen again i don't know how to ****ing talk to girls or seduce them i got ****ing lucky with one because she liked me whoopedy ****ing doo. Why do i even try to talk to people anymore i wish i could just lock myself in a room by myself and never come out **** this world. And **** social anxiety too what a crock of **** i have to deal with every day.

[endofdays89]

I feel like if i don't open up to someone i know i might go crazy or end my life soon tried therapy, tried medication none of that **** is working ahhhh smirnoff is so good

[maori-rap]

was sitting in my communications class today and immediately thought of the foreveralone.jpg crew when my professor asked the class: "on average how many text messages do you get per day?'

everyone pretty much answered: at least 100. lolwat i was just sitting in the back corner shocked as i have only received 2 over the last couple of weeks lulz.

Don't think I've rec'd even 50 over my 8+ years of having a mobile...alot of those have been circulars from my phone provider. Thats understandable as literally no-one has my no. and I haven't had a social circle since prim ary school. My phone is basically for emergencies and very rare business use.

[The_Assassin]

100 texts a day.... lol wat

[Dude069]

^lol 100 text messages per day, they liyin niggas

just as I was about to forget about it, 2 days later she now messaged me:

"hello)
Big thanks for the compliment) it was so nice)
But I don't think we have met before.
Why did you decide to write me, if this is not a secret information?)))"

unexpected lol. Thinking of what to respond (actually I have no idea, I didn't think this far). For some reason, I find this pick up game to be much easier IRL, over the internet or text it's awkward as phuck.

but seriouse guyse, would it be a good idea to ask her what she's doing the next week with next message? Or just take it slow? Because I usually do not mess around and immediately say what's on my mind right away... just wondering if that would yield good results.

[centrelink1]

^lol 100 text messages per day, they liyin niggas
but seriouse guyse, would it be a good idea to ask her what she's doing the next week with next message? Or just take it slow? Because I usually do not mess around and immediately say what's on my mind right away... just wondering if that would yield good results.

Ask her.

[bilaba70]

honestly, i think you guys need to stop discussing which one of you is more foreveralone than the others

it's depressing, and focusing on negative aspects of yourself and negative thought processes only makes your self-esteem and confidence worse.

ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE! i can't stress that statement enough

btw, how's everyone's week 2 assignment coming along?

This is so true! IDGAF about who's more FA than the rest. We're all in this shiet together and therefore, we should strive to strive to help eachother.

About that assignment, I haven't made much progress this week only smiling once, twice, maybe thrice. I have on the other hand, engaged in a few (small) conversations with strangers.

was sitting in my communications class today and immediately thought of the foreveralone.jpg crew when my professor asked the class: "on average how many text messages do you get per day?'

everyone pretty much answered: at least 100. lolwat i was just sitting in the back corner shocked as i have only received 2 over the last couple of weeks lulz.

The past week:

Text-messages I've received from male friends = 30
Text-messages I've received from female friends = 0

But more importantly: amount of text-messages =/= social proof

I've had many conversations this week with both my male and female friends, so that proves the above statement.

Don't think I've rec'd even 50 over my 8+ years of having a mobile...alot of those have been circulars from my phone provider. Thats understandable as literally no-one has my no. and I haven't had a social circle since prim ary school. My phone is basically for emergencies and very rare business use.

I get sad when I see this. You sound like a cool bloke. You deserve much better than this...

Why don't you try what Gaiusbraltar does, i.e. going to those meetings?

^lol 100 text messages per day, they liyin niggas
but seriouse guyse, would it be a good idea to ask her what she's doing the next week with next message? Or just take it slow? Because I usually do not mess around and immediately say what's on my mind right away... just wondering if that would yield good results.

Ask her.

Don't ask, but suggest! Girls love it when a guy takes initiative. Say something like "hey, let's bowl/shoot some pool next week" (lolidunno).

And if she declines, stop pursuining her. In most cases, she'll come back to you. (srs)

[GaiusBaltar]

100 texts a days is believable. I have been texting to 2 people in the past 2 days, and the conversations are 300 messages long (no e-stating)

Now imagine if you have a big circle.

[Ronceiro]

Anyone ITT had experience with keto?

It's day 4 so far....my head feels so fukked haha


Was at university for lectures in the early afternoon and people would say hi but I was so spaced out by the time I noticed they had already walked away. They probably think I'm an acehole haha


Practicing presence is harder, but in some ways it's easier because your mind is wrecked from keto so you can't even process a negative thought lol...

[Dude069]

Don't ask, but suggest! Girls love it when a guy takes initiative. Say something like "hey, let's bowl/shoot some pool next week" (lolidunno).

And if she declines, stop pursuining her. In most cases, she'll come back to you. (srs)

Yeah I did suggest, I was like "what are you doing the next week? We should do something together"

But now I started thinking... if she would agree to it, it would be awkward as phuck to meet her IRL and I don't throw that word around easily.

[dragongly]

I was just browsing misc thinking '****ing hell misc has gone ****' then started reading this, lulz.....

[Tom117]

I was just browsing misc thinking '****ing hell misc has gone ****' then started reading this, lulz.....

not sure if srs or retarded. This fa thread has been around for a while...

[bananabucket]

^lol 100 text messages per day, they liyin niggas

not as hard as you would think

[bilaba70]

Anyone ITT had experience with keto?

It's day 4 so far....my head feels so fukked haha

Was at university for lectures in the early afternoon and people would say hi but I was so spaced out by the time I noticed they had already walked away. They probably think I'm an acehole haha

Practicing presence is harder, but in some ways it's easier because your mind is wrecked from keto so you can't even process a negative thought lol...

I've done a semi-keto last year. It's hard at first, but after a week or so, you'll get used to it.

Have you looked into intermittent fasting btw?

Yeah I did suggest, I was like "what are you doing the next week? We should do somethingtogether"

But now I started thinking... if she would agree to it, it would be awkward as phuck to meet her IRL and I don't throw that word around easily.

That's not a suggestion brah :P

Anyway, if she wants to do something, I'd recommend making your intentions (subtly) clear in the beginning i.e. initiate dat dere physical contact as many times as possible etc...

If you fail to make those intentions clear, there's a large chance you'll end up in the friend-zone (as I've experienced several times unfortunately).

[Vindervar]

Have you FAs living in the same state/province met up for a get-together? Seems that more social interaction might help a few of you (no insults).

[Exodus420]

Have you FAs living in the same state/province met up for a get-together? Seems that more social interaction might help a few of you (no insults).

idk if theres other FA miscers in the ****hole south

[Ronceiro]

I've done a semi-keto last year. It's hard at first, but after a week or so, you'll get used to it.

Have you looked into intermittent fasting btw?

Yeah lol...while I was bulking I pretty much did IF unintentionally due to bad eating patterns/habits


Don't think I could do it on keto because the volume of food you have to eat to hit the cutting calories is actually a lot...brb big-ass chicken breasts that are more filling and have less calories than a small snickers bar

No way I could finish all the food on IF...I need to eat regularly throughout the day...even then I struggle to finish all the chicken/eggs/tuna I need to hit my cutting calories. Too few calories and I'll end up in a counterproductive fasting state that will result in muscle-wasting.