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    How to approach this girl at the gym?

    There's this girl at the gym, that my friend who I go with has been eying for some time now, but doesn't know how to approach her (and neither do I). Been kinda sitting back and just observing her routine there. She comes in and goes on the treadmill for a bit, then goes upstairs to the ladies only section to do whatever she does...and comes back down and finishes with more cardio on the treadmill/stair climber. Anyways, we've both been unsure as to how to approach her to spark any kind of conversation, because she's always got her ear buds in, but not only that she has a somewhat snobby/mean mugging kinda look on her face all the time (perhaps that's just how she is...I have no idea) which makes her seem really unapproachable. My friend brought up the idea of simply slipping her his number (possibly with a short note) on a piece of paper to her when she's doing her thing on the treadmill. Would that be an OK way to try and break the ice? I know it sounds beta. One thing that I find odd about her, she's always on the treadmills on the main floor, yet goes upstairs to do whatever for her workout, and then comes back down to main floor to finish up with a bit more cardio, when there's a bunch of treadmills in the ladies only section. Most of the women at our gym go to the ladies section, so I find this a little odd. Does this mean she's maybe looking for some male attention?

    How would you guys approach this one?
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    lololol are you serious? slipping her a note? can't get more awkward than that

    she seems like the type that you need to be really cocky to. You need to be extremely confident and you need to find a way to tease her. She has earbuds in meaning she doesn't want to talk to anyone, but she does cardio in front of men to get attention and potentially some retarded beta phaggot to slip a note to her to boost her ego and help her forget about her daddy issues.

    Mind you, I have no idea how she actually is like, but this is what i think is the case
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    Originally Posted by BarbsJr View Post
    lololol are you serious? slipping her a note? can't get more awkward than that
    It wasn't my idea bro, think it's pretty awkward/beta myself.
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    BTW the "mean mug" really doesn't mean anything. Just open her well and it will disappear right off her face.

    "Hey there. I've seen you around before and decided it's about time I come meet you. My names xxxxx".

    If it's your/his first approach the success rate will probably be around 20%(rough estimate is rough)

    so don't get your hopes up lol

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    Originally Posted by FeelTheFear View Post
    BTW the "mean mug" really doesn't mean anything. Just open her well and it will disappear right off her face.

    "Hey there. I've seen you around before and decided it's about time I come meet you. My names xxxxx".

    If it's your/his first approach the success rate will probably be around 20%(rough estimate is rough)

    so don't get your hopes up lol

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    But how does one go about doing this when she always has her earbuds in? I mean, either of us could get on the treadmill next to her, but initiating conversation is pretty well impossible without having to interrupt her...unless of course she's the one who initiates it but I don't see that happening. Also don't want to stop her as she's leaving the gym, cause that would seem kinda creeper ish, no?

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    Originally Posted by S1X View Post
    But how does one go about doing this when she always has her earbuds in? I mean, either of us could get on the treadmill next to her, but initiating conversation is pretty well impossible without having to interrupt her...unless of course she's the one who initiates it but I don't see that happening. Also don't want to stop her as she's leaving the gym, cause that would seem kinda creeper ish, no?

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    Don't interrupt her. Wait till she's moving to/from. Might be creeperish waiting for her to finish her sets or whatever but it doesn't matter at all. She won't give a **** about spending a few minutes talking to a nice guy.

    When you approach her do it full frontal. Like it's best if you are walking directly towards one another. (so don't do it with her walking adjacent to you and trying to get her to face you. She needs to be facing you already and see you the whole time). Smile and make a hand signal to remove ear buds. Then you can make a joke about them if you want, tease her about being antisocial, really anything you want.
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    wait until u see her not wearing earbuds and talk to her then
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    She might be trying to feed her ego or she might be wanting a particular guy to hit on.

    The way I see it OP is you approach her start some casual conversation about gym and leave her with a lasting impression I.e complement her figure

    She'll have a lasting impression of you OP.
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    the mean look you say she is giving does not mean anything... when I go to the gym I have been told by some of my guy friends that i give off that vibe, but I honestly would talke to anyone.. I also always have my headphones in just cause it makes me focus on what I am doing. Whichever one of you talks to her just make it short and simple so you're not interupting her workout, and then next time she is there she might initiate talking to you. Good luck!
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