There's always another guy lined up

[Nocturnal310]

Broke up with mine yesterday because she didnt seem interested and was like 'i dont wanna break up but i am confused about my feelings'
i asked again n again if there's someone else..kept denying.

now not even a day since breakup and shes posting on some guys fb pics who used to message her asking to meet her.
and already posting pics of shoes to wear out partying tonight.



so whenever she becomes weird..its most likely a guy....otherwise they wont let u break up so easily if there's no one around to monkey branch.

with my previous ex also...i found out later that she was already cheating on me with a guy.

glad i ended it without making a fool out of myself in both cases.

[fapbrah]

Phuck it, brah.

Bishes will always have another guy lined up, no matter how whale they are.

Age: 22. You'll be ok mang.

[PEANUTBUTTTER]

feelsbadman

[Violator009]

'i dont wanna break up but i am confused about my feelings'

fuken hilarious..

[Kataro]

Aren't you the one with the gf that was living with some slutty ass roommate? Banging some dude before her (the roommate) bf was coming into town?

[zeikerzpet]

Phuck it, brah.

Bishes will always have another guy lined up, no matter how whale they are.

Age: 22. You'll be ok mang.

Harsh. Many girls do not ...Admittedly most likely because they are lacking some attractive physical asset(s) but still.

There are good women, and there are good men. Pairing them up is the hard part.

And yeah 22yrs old? Your fine. In a few months you'll prolly report having dated more girls and a whole other set of problems you have. Girls crazy-I apologize. Still some good crazies tho.

G'luck.

[Nocturnal310]

Aren't you the one with the gf that was living with some slutty ass roommate? Banging some dude before her (the roommate) bf was coming into town?

ya the same gf..lol


she got influenced by her roomies lifestyle for sure....i cant be with a trashy girl who is immature

instead of discussing with me..she just became passive aggressive

Harsh. Many girls do not ...Admittedly most likely because they are lacking some attractive physical asset(s) but still.

There are good women, and there are good men. Pairing them up is the hard part.

And yeah 22yrs old? Your fine. In a few months you'll prolly report having dated more girls and a whole other set of problems you have. Girls crazy-I apologize. Still some good crazies tho.

G'luck.

i know i ll be fine....but i am just disappointed that instead of becoming wiser..she just became dumber.

kinda distracted....was hunting for jobs but dont feel like working on that right now.

[Colombia11]

Were there no red flags op? Nothing clicked in your head?


Youll be straight op. some things are just the way they are. I just say fukc it. Make sure NO CONTACT.

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pics?

[HeBrewHammah]

ya the same gf..
she got influenced by her roomies lifestyle for sure....i cant be with a trashy girl who is immature
kinda distracted....was hunting for jobs but dont feel like working on that right now.

OPP, I'm still only a few years older...but there are two things to ALWAYS consider when it comes to women....dead fukkin srs.

these will save you soooo much time/pain i personally believe...



1) i always ask her relationship with her father/family and try to get some information about how she was raised. If she's raised poorly, lack of mother/father figure it creates problems undoubtably.

Lack of mother typically the girl is dependent on men. in general, looking for someone to take care of her.

Lack of father typically results in needing validation from men everywhere for self esteem/feeling of love.

neither=chaotic mess. lol


2) birds of a feather flock together, if her friends are trash...chances are she will be also.

I got myself into a chit hole one time like this....girls friends were all whores, she claimed she wasnt....she didnt cheat on me, but found out the hard way she was the town bicycle. nomsayin? was disgust after that.


keep ya chin up brah. you sound like your doing alright.

[DTRrex]

Repped for getting out of this now before you got cheated on.... which would have inevitably happened.

Too many guys want to try to win her over or giver a reason not to stray. Never works. Sluts gonna slut brah, you know that.

Consider yourself lucky. On to the next one.

[Waisech]

Same with men tbf. I'm in a relationship, but I still keep in contact with a few girls. If for some reason things wouldn't work out and she'd want to break up, I'd already be getting some the next day if I'd want to. Call it insurance..

[Like It Or Not]

so, to get over her, you still look at her FB? Why haven't you blocked her yet? You've been here long enough OP, you know better.

[bigmonster1]

If the relationship is questionable, I agree with the title of the thread. Ive seen it before and never surprises me. Women love the attention especially when they can get a guy to phucking wait for them. lol

[corpsedub]

so the moral of the story is. there should always be a girl lined up.

[DrunkNinjaMastr]

At your age you should just date around and not get "serious." It creates the perfect scenario where you hold all the cards. Just make sure you always give the girl hope that she might be the one who could lock you down. Girls love the thrill of trying to lock guys down who are hesitant to get into a relationship. Plus it fires up her insecurities to the point where she is constantly wondering if and how many side girls you may have. This fires up her competitive urges and will keep her on her toes because she knows that you could just monkey branch her she starts becoming a complacent bitch.

[hearnstyle]

From my experience girls are the biggest players of all. They know how to hide it way better they never panic when they get caught. They have everyone on the payroll. You will never find out if they are cheating through her friends are family.

[gswarrior510]

so should we though.

never burn bridges with other girls because of A girl, nobody is that special. I learned that recently on my own.

[Fairfax]

so the moral of the story is. there should always be a girl lined up.

As heartless as this sounds, there's some wisdom in it.

It's a simple fact that in most cases a girl can replace a guy much more easily than a guy can replace a girl. It's unfortunately making me wary about getting serious with someone when I know that I'd inevitably have more invested in the relationship than she would and that I'd be in a more vulnerable position than her.

[RealAssanova]

At your age you should just date around and not get "serious." It creates the perfect scenario where you hold all the cards. Just make sure you always give the girl hope that she might be the one who could lock you down. Girls love the thrill of trying to lock guys down who are hesitant to get into a relationship. Plus it fires up her insecurities to the point where she is constantly wondering if and how many side girls you may have. This fires up her competitive urges and will keep her on her toes because she knows that you could just monkey branch her she starts becoming a complacent bitch.

ma n!gga right here.

Men should ALWAYS have a contingency plan. A lot of n!ggaz go into relationships nowadays without contingency plans and when it ends, they end up getting hurt.

Have a team. Your starting line-up and one's coming off/out the bench/dugout. The one averaging the most points/goals/homeruns, you give a bit more attention to than the ones already playing. Try your best though to evenly distribute the percent of attention given. It should always be like this until a b!tch is substituted (aka downgraded) or dismissed from the team (aka deleted).

[dameo182]

Feel for you op, why cant women see when they have a good guy? Man it makes me rage, these girls are so far up there own arse that they think they can do this **** and get away with it. And the worst thing is that they almost always leave for some ugly ****ing manlet with nothing going for him, wtf is that about? Im literally at the point now where all women can **** off, I mean what is the point in relationships these days? You treat them well, they leave for a guy who treats them like **** / you treat them like ****, they leave for a guy who wk's them. Always blaming the guy for there actions, like 'hes too clingy and nice' or 'he treats me bad'. At the end of the day no matter how you decide to treat them they will eventually want something new, the exceptions are the good girls, and tbh im yet to come across one myself. Yes mad

[DTRrex]

At your age you should just date around and not get "serious." It creates the perfect scenario where you hold all the cards. Just make sure you always give the girl hope that she might be the one who could lock you down. Girls love the thrill of trying to lock guys down who are hesitant to get into a relationship. Plus it fires up her insecurities to the point where she is constantly wondering if and how many side girls you may have. This fires up her competitive urges and will keep her on her toes because she knows that you could just monkey branch her she starts becoming a complacent bitch.

This post could change so many you *******s lives if you took it seriously.

I wish I could rep you again.
On a roll today man.

[QisGQ]

Been there, done that. GF last year broke up with me, few days later hooking up with her coworker. Last month, I got wind she was with yet another coworker. SMH. I haven't talked to her since. SMH. Use to give me that whole "we going to get married" story. SMH. Bit sad over it still. Sigh. alas...

[DTRrex]

Feel for you op, why cant women see when they have a good guy? Man it makes me rage, these girls are so far up there own arse that they think they can do this **** and get away with it. And the worst thing is that they almost always leave for some ugly ****ing manlet with nothing going for him, wtf is that about? Im literally at the point now where all women can **** off, I mean what is the point in relationships these days? You treat them well, they leave for a guy who treats them like **** / you treat them like ****, they leave for a guy who wk's them. Always blaming the guy for there actions, like 'hes too clingy and nice' or 'he treats me bad'. At the end of the day no matter how you decide to treat them they will eventually want something new, the exceptions are the good girls, and tbh im yet to come across one myself. Yes mad

This is why you can't EVER like a chick more than she likes you.

I had to learn this the hard way.... and I know you did too (I remember your old breakup thread and knowthatfeelbro).

[b0yer2]

Repped for getting out of this now before you got cheated on.... which would have inevitably happened.

Too many guys want to try to win her over or giver a reason not to stray. Never works. Sluts gonna slut brah, you know that.

Consider yourself lucky. On to the next one.

This.

[KingJbomb]

Op at least you got out before you got hurt so you have my respect for that,
You need to block her fb because shes using it to get at you and its clearly working...
And as for the

"was hunting for jobs but dont feel like working on that right now. "

Keep job hunting op , You need to keep improving and moving forward and waiting around feeling sorry for yourself will do nothing.
Sure she can move on to the next dick faster then you can blink but it wont make her happy in the long run and you should know that..
Eventually she will have to deal with it just like everyone does and shes only delaying the process by slooting around.
So make sure you block and delete all social networking connections and I mean all of them...
Seen some dude on this posting about how hes doing no contact but yet he was still checking her twitter and seeing her rage tweets about him..
Cant move on if you dont let go.

So keep moving forward op and always better yourself and be happy

"The best revenge of all is happiness , nothing drives people crazier then seeing someone have a good fukcing life"

[BigFoigg]

Girls will always have options, while it will be harder for guys to have the same options after a breakup. Guys generally chase girls, if she dumps you she's going to move on to the other *******s who wouldn't stop blowing up her phone while you guys were going out. It is how it is.

[nschell69]

This is why I decided last night to stop worrying about females feelings.. Sure I'm probably gonna fukk over a couple good girls but I just don't even give any fukks anymore.. Pump and dump until I want a kid

[Tyr616]

Girls will always have options, while it will be harder for guys to have the same options after a breakup. Guys generally chase girls, if she dumps you she's going to move on to the other *******s who wouldn't stop blowing up her phone while you guys were going out. It is how it is.

Yeah this is pretty normal, nothing weird really, so why give a ****. Not like who ever hooks up first after a break up is the winner. If you think that, you are a needy ******* with nothing else going on in your life.

At your age you should just date around and not get "serious." It creates the perfect scenario where you hold all the cards. Just make sure you always give the girl hope that she might be the one who could lock you down. Girls love the thrill of trying to lock guys down who are hesitant to get into a relationship. Plus it fires up her insecurities to the point where she is constantly wondering if and how many side girls you may have. This fires up her competitive urges and will keep her on her toes because she knows that you could just monkey branch her she starts becoming a complacent bitch.

I think the "age" stuff is kind of dumb. Ah bro you are 21, that means if you meet a great girl, best to leave her and bang randoms.

[poolshark472]

nothing drives people crazier then seeing someone have a good fukcing life"

so fukked up but so true