Fuk... Aunt just asked me for $50,000, already gave her $10,000 last year, wat do.

[ShayZ]

Back Story
Back in 1990 or so, my family was broke, they gave us $10,000.

Forward to last year, my aunts having hard times, she asks for 10 grand, says shell pay me back. So I send her 10 grand. Never see it back.

Now she says she needs 50,000... She said shell put up all her jewelry as collateral, as well as her daughters jewelry.
She plans to get out of debt, and owns a retail store, she said she has wholesale customers lined up, but she needs money to produce inventory.

My gut tells me she will never pay, and if I end up having to sell her jewelry I will come off as an *******. I really dont know what to do.

She said she needs 50,000, it cant be 10, or 20k. She needs 50k. FML. I hate being the nice guy.

And now if I say no, I dont even know how to tell her no.

[Iguesz]

make a new misc song first

[repoman2184]

oh to have rich person problems

[g0time]

tough spot, go with your gut

[Lampards_Lard]

I cant believe she would exploit you like this.

[waitwat]

dont do it..

50k is way too much and you havent even seen the 10k yet

just tell her you dont have it good enough to be lending out 50k sorry

[dustinh6719]

just tell her times are tough and you dont have it.

[TomsGunz]

why doesn't she get a loan from the bank? srs op i wouldn't do it 50k is a lot of wedge to hand out family or not

[AdhamZahran]

just tell her no

[DubstepDealer]

Tell her to **** off. SRS.

[moosecakes4all]

Well how much cash do you have that you can toss around like that? You aren't even sure if she will pay you back... And I doubt she has 50k worth of jewelry for a 1:1 collateral.

[BRBposting]

never loan money to family. it will just cause problems

[ohsnapzach]

family + money = no longer family members

[snapple13]

just trade in your reps for cash
1 rep 1 dollar right

[ShayZ]

why doesn't she get a loan from the bank? srs op i wouldn't do it 50k is a lot of wedge to hand out family or not

banks dont just hand out 50,000 unsecured loans.

[SikhAndDestroy]

banks dont just hand out 50,000 unsecured loans.

then you shouldn't either
she never paid you back on 10k what makes you think she'll pay back 50k?
and jewellry wont cover **** trust me

[Pladzor]

call her out on the 10 grand, and say how i can loan you 50, when you never paid me back 10k

dont do it OP

[Jw9thwonder]

ask her where the phuck your 10grand is? and if she doesnt produce it then and there, bust her phucking knee caps.

[The_Assassin]

i thought you were a businessman, if her business looks attractive invest in it, otherwise don't... she still owes you 10k lol so the answer is a no.

[S.C]

Tell her that i dont wana see you get deeper in debt, after that maybe help her get out of debt by giving her advice, idk very hard decision.

[frozenbarb]

You may feel bad if you don't do it but DO YOU REALLY HAVE 50K to send over? without hurting yourself?

[NealRigga]

That sucks man. Its a tricky spot. What I would tell anyone is never loan any friends or family money because it can never end well. It just creates sticky situations and ruins relationships. You were in a tough spot because she helped your family out previously. You have already repaid that favor. I would recommend lying and telling her you are upon difficult times yourself and can honestly not afford to loan her anymore money. Hopefully, she'll understand and be able to find other means to get a loan to jumpstart her business. Gl Op. Would hate to be in the spot your in, it is never fun.

[Mighty Matt]

You never loan friends or family money. You give them money, because you will never get it back.

[bestlibrarian]

Definitely give me $50.

[briannnnn]

You already returned the favour by giving her $10k. $50k is too much IMO

[Driftslut]

My gut tells me she will never pay

Well, If she wasn't willing to pay back 10k...I would imagine her paying back FIFTY THOUSAND would be far-fetched.

But that's just merely my opinion...

[MrSniggles]

tell her you arn't a bank

[wobblydaddy]

See op i will never have these problems because I will never see that much money at one time in my life. I should do gay4pay

[jwlee7ucla]

Back Story
Back in 1990 or so, my family was broke, they gave us $10,000.

Forward to last year, my aunts having hard times, she asks for 10 grand, says shell pay me back. So I send her 10 grand. Never see it back.

Now she says she needs 50,000... She said shell put up all her jewelry as collateral, as well as her daughters jewelry.
She plans to get out of debt, and owns a retail store, she said she has wholesale customers lined up, but she needs money to produce inventory.

My gut tells me she will never pay, and if I end up having to sell her jewelry I will come off as an *******. I really dont know what to do.

She said she needs 50,000, it cant be 10, or 20k. She needs 50k. FML. I hate being the nice guy.

And now if I say no, I dont even know how to tell her no.

Easy man, just say you have come into hard times as well, and you are actually broke now and don't have any money at all so you can't give her any.

[speaklowmanlet]

you must be rich if you can pull 50k like nothing