So been dating my gf for 2 years now, she has wanted to go to england for awhile now and I was saving up money to go with, already got my passport and stuff. We were gonna try and go late this summer, and her bday is next month. I had planned taking her on a weekend trip, told her about it thoughand she was excited.....Her mom tells her no theyve already got plans for her and I need to cnacel. So I ask what it is to her mom and she just says "I need you to be supportive of this youll find out later". Next day her best friend who is stationed in england right now cuz her husband in the airforce calls me, tells me she bought her a ticket to go to england for her birthday even though she knew we were gonna go together since we had never gone. She strtaight up tells me she didnt want me to go thats why she didnt tell me about it, still wanted to go and told me not to buy a ticket.
Back story: My gfs family and friends cannot stand me because they are the type of "lower class" that hate people that they think are rich. Im from a middle/upper class family so they never gave me a chance. They tried the first 6 months to break us up and have her get back with her ex. Her ex was mentally abusive(no WK his next gf email my gf through facebook and told her about it) and friends didnt care, they picked her ex over her and stopped talking to her except like once every 3 or 4 months.
So I feel like this was done on purpose to ruin our trip we were planning on having, they just told my gf today about the bday plans and she was really excited. A little part of me felt like I died, because she seemed like she couldnt care less about me not getting to go. So I told her I was a little upset, she didnt give a chit, told me I was just trying to ruin this for her and how I was LYING about what her friend and mom said to me. Jonestly she has never stood up for me with her friends and family and I almost left her over it, but her friends basically abandoned her so I left it at that. Her friends are starting to come back and I seem to have fallen far on the list of priorities.
Friends and family hatre me cuz they are poor and I am not.
friends have attacked me for 2 years and gf has never stood up for me
planning trip to europe with gf since neither of us have gone
family and friends pitch in to buy her a ticket to go without me
gf thinks im lying about them admitting to me they did this on purpose
gf has now tried turning this on me like im the bad guy