Google : List of Values> Write down your most important ones, (less than 10), make a list everyday achieving small steps towards goals you set, which are guided by your values. Boom fulfilled!
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03-01-2012, 11:39 PM #61
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03-01-2012, 11:53 PM #64
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03-01-2012, 11:56 PM #65
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03-01-2012, 11:57 PM #66
so is op a lawyer or something?
brah you need to ask your self what you really want. can you wake up every morning and say i'm looking forward to going to work?
you have the money and wife, but you're own happiness/life goals should be your priorityYou don't pay for things with money, you pay with your time
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03-02-2012, 12:02 AM #67
This is what I would do if I were in your situation
1. Quit your job
2. Have a BBC lure your wife into his cave and make sure to record them having sex.
3. File for a divorce and use the video as evidence of adultery.
4. Sell all of your possessions
5. Buy a one way ticket to Estonia
6. Purchase a home in Estonia and a VW Polo
7. Shave your head and grow the most magnificent beard possible
8. ?????????????????
9. Profit
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03-02-2012, 12:09 AM #68
Sorry to know that, OP. I have considered law several times as well, and I am glad I did not pursue it seriously. i get paid about 30k a year for a job I absolutely love and am pretty happy. Hopefully will be making 50k by next year.
I hope you figure things out.Door Gunner - GET SOME!!
UH60M Crew Chief
17C is so hot right now crew
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03-02-2012, 12:12 AM #69
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03-02-2012, 12:23 AM #76
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03-02-2012, 12:26 AM #77
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03-02-2012, 12:27 AM #78
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03-02-2012, 12:29 AM #79
OP, I could easily have a job right now paying 130k a year which i am going to accept and do it for 2 years. After that I will get a job in my desired career choice- counterterrorism or something in federal police, it's easily 50-60k lower than this other job but it's not about money it's because it's something I truly would love to do. You need to find something you are passionate about and put everything you have into it, dedicate yourself to what you are doing in the present and only the present.
If you are depressed in your personal life but you let it stress you out at work then think of it like this:
you can have a) one bubble that is infected with worries and troubles (whether that bubble represents leisure or work/personal life etc) and the other bubbles happy and balanced
or
b) you can worry about your problems in bubble a) and let them infect bubble b, c ,d etc and then you don't have just one ****ty infected bubble you have two, then the cycle continues and you begin down the tedious road of limited options, increased depression etc.
What I'm saying is create a balance and set aside time for everything in your life and dedicate your time to each of those areas, don't spend time worrying about something in your personal life that happened at work and vice versa. You figure out that balance and you'll find the key to happiness, you start to get happier when you then begin to enjoy your new experiences and add them to your life and create time dedicated for enjoyment,relaxation, work, and so on.
Most people work every minute of their lives because they let their hate and despise for their chosen career carry over into their life, and then they begin to hate their life.
It's hard to begin with but it's worth it if you really want to experience the joy of living.
Inb4 age 21 what would you know etc, idgaf if you read it or not or you think it's bull****, just trying to share with you what works without selling it to you in some self help book. Take it or leave it.
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03-02-2012, 12:34 AM #80
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03-02-2012, 12:35 AM #81
go back to autoadmit you *******...i'm sure the little aspie turds over there will console you
EDIT: seems like you already did lol...
http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thre...e8f55d9e98139e
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03-02-2012, 12:40 AM #82
How bout do something aout it inside of being a cry baby bitch?
Mabe you are living somebody elses dream?
Mybe you kno you aren't as successful as you appear, your wife doesn't love you, yur life is not what it seems and you livein constant wait for everything 2 collapse which only you know is inevitable?
Leave your job, leave your wife. Take 50k and go live in phuket for a year. Go a week without shoes. Find your chi. Do somethin. Or cry on an internet forum in a vielded brag thread... whatever man. Its your life.Ol' 71st street. The devil that birthed me.
606 G0D.
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03-02-2012, 12:42 AM #83
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03-02-2012, 12:44 AM #84
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03-02-2012, 12:49 AM #85
The picture isn't his wife, but he's likely not lying about being a lawyer making 160k.
He posted the same post on a website where ****gy law students/lawyers from top law schools brag/complain to each other about their prestigious lives.
http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thre...e8f55d9e98139e
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03-02-2012, 12:51 AM #86
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03-02-2012, 12:55 AM #87
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03-02-2012, 12:56 AM #88
From what I hear law is a pretty saturated market. Connections are everything maybe even more so than business or at least on the same level. Youngest you can possibly be coming out of law school is 25-26. I know 1-2 people around this age range making like 50k. If your making 160k kudos to you man. You probably feel so ****ty because that has got to be one of the most boring ass professions out there.
My advice:
1. Man the **** up
2. Go see your primary and get put on an SSRI.
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03-02-2012, 12:59 AM #89
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