Noone wants you to succeed at anything you do in life (srs)

[bertstare101]

Stop fooling yourselves brahs.

Every single fucking person in the world does not want you to succeed at anything you choose to do in life. They want to see you fail. It makes them happy, invigorates them, makes them feel alive everytime you do not achieve the goals you set. It is orgasmic when they see you depressed and worse off than they are. They are jacking off in their mind when they see you failed a bulk or cut, when your business plan didn't turn out as you expected, when you failed that exam, when you lost money at the casino, when your GF cheated on you, when you gave up that hobby you were so excited about, when you got no likes on that ******** status, when you injured yourself doing parkour, when you couldn't reach 100 consecutive pushups, when you had troubles with anxiety, when you had no style, when you were laid off from work, when you jizzed too early, when you failed that spelling test, when you lost that competition, when you got fat, when you got fined, and ultimately when you die.

/truth

ill just leave this here, by saying, hope you all get a herniated disc (srs). going to jack off to your injury, umad? (not srs, hope you achieve all your goals haters gon' hate)

All your life you are told you are no good, you are bastard, you can't do something, you can't lift 100 lbs, you can't walk properly, you can't run 10 miles. You'll hear NO, thousands No. At that time you just look at them with smile and tell them YES.

[mingzie]

All your life you are told you are no good, you are bastard, you can't do something, you can't lift 100 lbs, you can't walk properly, you can't run 10 miles. You'll hear NO, thousands No. At that time you just look at them with smile and tell them YES.

imo, people are more likely to give you fake encouragement whilst secretly hoping you fail (srs)

[bertstare101]

imo, people are more likely to give you fake encouragement whilst secretly hoping you fail (srs)

I do that all the time but that's only cause I want people to learn from their own mistake rather than blaming me later on for their mistake. You shouldn't really bother about what other people say because they will always have something to say but most important part is they don't really give a **** cause they have their own life to worry about. You'll hear a guy give you nice comment but next thing you know he gets busy in sorting his own life. I think people overthink stuff like "oh, what that guy is thinking about me", "Did he really mean I was an ******* when he said it" etc.

If you look at me..I might give a **** about something for a minute or two but then I move on with my life. 90% people are this way in this world. You just gotta do your thing and let people do their thing. As long as you know what you want from life that's all should matter.

[mingzie]

True for some things, not for others. A lot of teachers/professors genuinely actually care for their students and want them to be successful.

In some cases, yes.

However, we can see the true nature of many teachers; some teachers will begin to get jelly if you exceed them in a particular activity. If they do not get jelly, its because your success is directly linked with their own benefit or prestige (elite level sports for example). Another thing to think about is, that if the student does not thank the teacher or attribute their success to the teacher; the teacher will deep down most likely not want the student to succeed and despise the student. When the student stops feeding the teacher's ego or disagrees with the teacher's advice, sh*t gets real.

[patcazza]

the reason why you think like this is because you think like this. not everyone else.

[mingzie]

the reason why you think like this is because you think like this. not everyone else.

another ******* in denial who wants to appear better than others.

[JackedAndSwole]

definitely true in alot of ways. see fat whales cockblocking their hot friends from guys . for example

fffuuu should be exterminated on the spot.

[F23]

OP, I would say that many people think like the way that you described. I don't... at least normally. I'm just not a very jealous person in general.

I would say though that pretty much nobody cares about the welfare of their neighbor these days, at least in highly developed countries.

[RESILIENCY]

This is correct some people just don't want to admit it

[mingzie]

OP, I would say that many people think like the way that you described. I don't... at least normally. I'm just not a very jealous person in general.

I would say though that pretty much nobody cares about the welfare of their neighbor these days, at least in highly developed countries.

Highly doubt it. Like I said before, every girl thinks "they're not like other girls".

You're doing it and have done it, even subconsciously. It's human nature.

[IvanC5]

Sorry OP I'd have to disagree, personally for me I want people to succeed.

I find that building an environment of successful people around you not only motivates myself to succeed but minimises failure on both ends.

I do see your perspective on how you want others that are not close to you to succeed making you satisfy your own ego. I think it's human nature to have these thoughts but it isn't as black and white, others may do it more or less than others.

What I'm getting at is that your attitude of indefinite desire for others to fail doesn't mirror the rest of the people in the world.

[mingzie]

Sorry OP I'd have to disagree, personally for me I want people to succeed.

I find that building an environment of successful people around you not only motivates myself to succeed but minimises failure on both ends.

I do see your perspective on how you want others that are not close to you to succeed making you satisfy your own ego. I think it's human nature to have these thoughts but it isn't as black and white, others may do it more or less than others.

What I'm getting at is that your attitude of indefinite desire for others to fail doesn't mirror the rest of the people in the world.

You only assume I think it is black and white. I know its a grey area and there are varying degrees of it in everyone.

Also, you want an environment of successful people only because it directly benefits and motivates you. Heck, even people close to you, you don't really want to succeed deep down.

Everyone here is so quick to defend themselves and say "I'm not like that". its lulzy. if you don't admit there is a part of you that is like this, you are a fawking liar.

[AlliWantisLulz]

H.A.T.E.R.S = Having Anger Towards
Everyone Reaching Success

#realtalk

[F23]

Highly doubt it. Like I said before, every girl thinks "they're not like other girls".

You're doing it and have done it, even subconsciously. It's human nature.

Um, no. I don't, for the most part. You can't get into my mind, bro, so don't think you know things you don't.

[IvanC5]

You only assume I think it is black and white. I know its a grey area and there are varying degrees of it in everyone.

Also, you want an environment of successful people only because it directly benefits and motivates you. Heck, even people close to you, you don't really want to succeed deep down.

Assumption was purely made on the few responses from you that I read.

I don't understand how you can structure my thoughts of "I want people to succeed, which also aids my successfulness " with "deep down I don't want them too". It's two conflicting thought patterns.

Why would I want them to not succeed damaging my opportunities of successfulness?

[CatSneezer69]

it's the truth, except for family

[RodSwollenpole]

This is depressing as hell...developed nations are rotting us all from the inside out.

[mingzie]

Um, no. I don't, for the most part. You can't get into my mind, bro, so don't think you know things you don't.

Assumption was purely made on the few responses from you that I read.

I don't understand how you can structure my thoughts of "I want people to succeed, which also aids my successfulness " with "deep down I don't want them too". It's two conflicting thought patterns.

Why would I want them to not succeed damaging my opportunities of successfulness?

Good luck with your being in denial goals in 2012.

[IvanC5]

Good luck with your being in denial goals in 2012.

Strong explanation on your own mindset.

Good luck with your being in denial goals in 2012.

[Saqmanz]

What a typical beta attitude mentality!

Seriously who gives a fcuk what others think ? It's not exactly like they come and put food in your mouth. Do your thing the rest is irrelevant, tbh it's all in the mindset.

[mingzie]

Strong explanation on your own mindset.

Good luck with your being in denial goals in 2012.

dont worry bro, you are not like other girls <3

What a typical beta attitude mentality!

Seriously who gives a fcuk what others think ? It's not exactly like they come and put food in your mouth. Do your thing the rest is irrelevant, tbh it's all in the mindset.

ok.

[unleashed132]

OP is right. I know of this first hand, people are your level don't want you to be better than them, even if they are stagnant in their progression in life they will at no cost to them put you down. a lot of times these people are the same people who you spend most of your time around..

[John2285]

OP is right everybody get jelly even fam.

[F23]

Good luck with your being in denial goals in 2012.

No I think you're still wrong.

When I see somebody who has something that I want that I don't have, I usually get depressed, not angry or jealous. I see it as a personal shortcoming rather than something to be jealous of. If somebody has something I don't have, their failure won't let me have it. Only though my own hard work - or whatever action needs to be taken - can I get what I want. I'm saying this in VERY broad terms. I do want people not to succeed when their success could harm my chances of success, for example some guy getting a position instead of me when we're both applying for the position.

Also, for a guy my age, I'm a pretty damned successful, at least in terms of "rat race" success. I rarely run into somebody who's level of success is something that I would trade my own for.

[unleashed132]

OP is right everybody get jelly even fam.

Yes, especially family. You'll be surprise how much talk is created by comparing each child's success in an asian family..

[mingzie]

No I think you're still wrong.

When I see somebody who has something that I want that I don't have, I usually get depressed, not angry or jealous. I see it as a personal shortcoming rather than something to be jealous of. If somebody has something I don't have, their failure won't let me have it. Only though my own hard work - or whatever action needs to be taken - can I get what I want. I'm saying this in VERY broad terms. I do want people not to succeed when their success could harm my chances of success, for example some guy getting a position instead of me when we're both applying for the position.

Also, for a guy my age, I'm a pretty damned successful guy, at least in terms of "rat race" success. I rarely run into somebody who's level of success is something that I would trade my own for.

stopped reading at bolded part.

relax bro, its just an internet forum. we all believe you, okay.

[Antagonist388]

true, sadly

[unleashed132]

It's just how the world is. It's hard to find REAL friends let alone REAL people. The funny thing is nearly everyone themselves thinks they are sincere and have good morality, but give them a situation that can test their judgement without consequences and their true colors will show.

Like all these little high schoolers calling each other "fam".. see when youre in deep sh*t how many of your "fam" will come help you..

[TheChampion007]

I do that all the time but that's only cause I want people to learn from their own mistake rather than blaming me later on for their mistake. You shouldn't really bother about what other people say because they will always have something to say but most important part is they don't really give a **** cause they have their own life to worry about. You'll hear a guy give you nice comment but next thing you know he gets busy in sorting his own life. I think people overthink stuff like "oh, what that guy is thinking about me", "Did he really mean I was an ******* when he said it" etc.

If you look at me..I might give a **** about something for a minute or two but then I move on with my life. 90% people are this way in this world. You just gotta do your thing and let people do their thing. As long as you know what you want from life that's all should matter.

/thread.

[CoolHandTodd]

It's because they have no hope's and dreams, or they do but have such low self esteem they don't even try to accomplish their goals. They're jealous when they see you going after yours.
Take actors as an example. Once they get famous, people sh!t on them any chance they get to try and bring them down. Most of the gossip in the tabloids comes from people they know or knew at one point. Pretty lame.