Bish just sent me an essay on ********, how proceed I do? (srs)

[rblgenius]

UPDATE: GO TO BOTTOM I GOT RESPONSE TO MY RESPONSE

Here is what she sent me:

i apologize for the length of this, but please just read it. enough is enough.

so...i was feeling bad about the feelings i have for you, but then i realized that this thing has going on for almost a year now, which is a long ass time, especially for someone like me who has only had one boyfriend in her life (for a few months at age 16 lol). and like, you're the first person i've felt this away about. before you i had like very little experience regarding boys and sexual stuff, the like. and like, we did stuff, fun stuff, and i don't feel self conscious around you which never ceases to amaze me. and like, you know the real me, and that's a load off my mind, because i don't want to have to hide who i am to get others to accept me.

and like, i know i've got lots of issues and lots of flaws, but at the same time, i've got a lot going for me. i'm responsible, clean up after myself, run 5 miles a day, do my work, care about other people, spend my free time working with kids, and try really hard to be a good person. and you, are a messy, crass, lazy frat boy who drinks too much, is sometimes chauvanistic, and cares more about video games than girls...and i (think i) love you. so what the heck is so wrong with you that you won't just let me? i could be the best thing to happen to you and help you with some of your own issues if you'd just give me the chance...

which brings me to, the future. you don't need to decide anything now while you're abroad. but if i'm going to come visit you, i want it to mean that you're at least considering a relationship with me later on. and if you know right now that you definitely don't feel that way and don't see it ever working out between us, please just let me know. the truth sometimes hurts, but honesty is the only way to go. and i can't be strung along with ambiguity any longer. it's been almost a year now and if you're done, i need to know so i can move on and stop waiting around for you. plus now that you know about my serious struggles to stay mentally healthy, i think you'll agree i don't deserve to be kept in the dark like this. i deserve better, the truth, and i think you know that. and as much as i like to joke around with you, if you could just tell me straight up, what's the deal, what YOU think/feel/forsee about this whole mess, i'd reallyy appreciate it.

and of course, tell no one about any of what i just said.




CLIFFS
- bish is head over heels for me
- sends essay professing her love and wants me to commit
- how do proceed?

edit: included pics. dont neg me *******s

FOR THE "IWANTTOBELIEVE" crowd:








I RESPONDED:








I GOT A RESPONSE TO MY RESPONSE:

[trailblazerbrah]

pics of her, and put up an avi

[dgib7994]

LOL "tell no one about what I just said"


also, pics of bish or negs

[lazzara]

do you like her?

[BigThree210]

Misc needs Pics to evaluate further action

[BigNF]

We can't tell you to proceed until you post some god damn pics

[FindYourself]

pics

[BigThree210]

LOL "tell no one about what I just said"


also, pics of bish or negs

lmao just saw that too! Haha brb telling one of the largest forums on the internet

[NIguy]

why do you *******s sit all day making this **** up?

[soliduparrow]

i guess you could marry her

[blip63]

I didn't read the essay but you may want to explain some basic rules of punctuation and grammar. Just glancing at the essay I'd give her an F, with a chance to to re-do and receive the average of her two grades.

[Swizzard]

Like...and like...i dunno, like...do what your heart tells you..like really.

[problemz]

subbed

going for a run

will return

I have solid advice but will only show you the light if you provide Several pics

if not negs and I will make sure you end up in the red before the night is over

tick tock

[spitonem]

inb4 it was just her friend on her ******** account

[BigNF]

negged for no pics

[redbinder]

To the foreveraloners: this is what not to do. See how it makes you feel uncomfortable?

[waisoserious]

brb eye transplant cause no pics

[lambchops10]

wife it.

or kill it with fire.

THOSE are the only options i see here.

[RevengeBrah]

[A1roller]

"and like, cool story bro" should be your response

[QO2yed9rgU]

Post pics, we will decide.

[rblgenius]

here are several pics. just got a mac so if someone could aware me how to crop a picture of the convo?

[UltimateBrah]

spelled ******* wrong

[arekieh]

message back this:


TLDR

[TrailBlazer00x]

i love how she put a comma after 'and like'

[mille695]

and like,

[woodstein]

Reply 'too long lol didn't read'

[Jimagine88]

Here is what she sent me:

i apologize for the length of this, but please just read it. enough is enough.

so...i was feeling bad about the feelings i have for you, but then i realized that this thing has going on for almost a year now, which is a long ass time, especially for someone like me who has only had one boyfriend in her life (for a few months at age 16 lol). and like, you're the first person i've felt this away about. before you i had like very little experience regarding boys and sexual stuff, the like. and like, we did stuff, fun stuff, and i don't feel self conscious around you which never ceases to amaze me. and like, you know the real me, and that's a load off my mind, because i don't want to have to hide who i am to get others to accept me.

and like, i know i've got lots of issues and lots of flaws, but at the same time, i've got a lot going for me. i'm responsible, clean up after myself, run 5 miles a day, do my work, care about other people, spend my free time working with kids, and try really hard to be a good person. and you, are a messy, crass, lazy frat boy who drinks too much, is sometimes chauvanistic, and cares more about video games than girls...and i (think i) love you. so what the heck is so wrong with you that you won't just let me? i could be the best thing to happen to you and help you with some of your own issues if you'd just give me the chance...

which brings me to, the future. you don't need to decide anything now while you're abroad. but if i'm going to come visit you, i want it to mean that you're at least considering a relationship with me later on. and if you know right now that you definitely don't feel that way and don't see it ever working out between us, please just let me know. the truth sometimes hurts, but honesty is the only way to go. and i can't be strung along with ambiguity any longer. it's been almost a year now and if you're done, i need to know so i can move on and stop waiting around for you. plus now that you know about my serious struggles to stay mentally healthy, i think you'll agree i don't deserve to be kept in the dark like this. i deserve better, the truth, and i think you know that. and as much as i like to joke around with you, if you could just tell me straight up, what's the deal, what YOU think/feel/forsee about this whole mess, i'd reallyy appreciate it.

and of course, tell no one about any of what i just said.




CLIFFS
- bish is head over heels for me
- sends essay professing her love and wants me to commit
- how do proceed?

proceed with caution

[Jorge0886]

You phucking serious bro? You're gonna post all that, and not give us ANY idea of how you feel, and ask for us to help you respond??? The phuck is wrong with kids these days? I mean ya, I'm a wizard, but I'm not phucking psycho. (fyi that's someone who can read minds, idk if you know that)

[RevengeBrah]

spelled ******* wrong