Please read, its been bugging me for a while.
Basically growing up, i paid 0 attention to my physical appeareance. it didnt matter to me at all. then when I reached grade 11, most of my friends started to get gfs and such, and for some reason I convinced myself I was ugly.
The problem is that I can't tell if im actually ugly or not. I know i'm not a 9/10 or a 10/10 but i have no idea where i stand from 1/10-8/10. For all i know, i could be very average, very ugly, or even cute/hot.
I also can't tell when other guys are hot or ugly ( i can for girls but not for guys). unless the guy has a massive jawline and chiseled cheekbones i can tell, but guys like adam levine for instance, i'd never know they were hot if girls hadn't said so.
so how do i found out if im cute or ugly? I dont have any friends who are girls because i've never made an effort to talk to them (srs, literally) but family friends have complimented me. I dont really trust them because they've also complimented some really ugly people but theyve also complimented hot ppl so i dont know...
I've posted pics for ratings on other sites (did this for about a week) and all that but my face is very wierd....i got drastically different ratings depending on the pic so i dont know which pic shows the real me. when i used a certain pic, i got constant 8s. on another pic i got 3s =/ the lighting and angle were the same too.
anyway, if you've read up to here thanks a lot. the only reason i want to find out is because it'll be very liberating. i wont have to think in my head "hey maybe she finds me cute" or "what if she finds me ugly." I'll KNOW.
and no confidence/beauty is subjective/etc posts please. i just really want to find a way.
I sometimes catch women looking at me but I sometimes stare at ugly people because im fascinated by their ugliness so for all i know i could be doing the same thing.
so how do i figure out where i stand in terms of looks?
02-02-2012, 03:37 PM #1
How do I know if I'm attractive or ugly (dead srs)
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its about the overall picture at the end of the day, features don't really matter if you look cold/unpersonable. Adam Levine for example, very subtle and personable face. Thats the most important thing for women IMO. Same goes in general as well, women don't just look at appearance but the overall image you convey. Sounds like you are analysing things way too much.
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You are most likely very average or plain or ugly. If you were attractive girls or people would have told you or you would just know. You are probably in the 3 - 6/10 range. Almost all guys you see in public fall into the very plain & average range. It is not that common to see very good looking guys.Weighted pullups = 195 lbs x1
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there's something called microexpressions which is an uncontrollable, nearly undetectable change in your face that can't be faked. people subconsciously pick up on them, which is why you can tell a fake smile from a real one.
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I'm actually curious on what misc thinks as well. I'm going to refrain from posting though, because everyone would probably be like "beta face", "do you even lift" etc etc. I've been told I should model numerous times, but I have sort of a babyish face.
I think based off of my age, i'm like a 8.5-9.0/10, or so I've been told.
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