Ahh man. I had about enough this woman. She constantly is bitching bout everything in bed. Having sex with her is impossible. Absolutely no life to her whatsoever, no enthusiam. Nothing. Like I said she bitches constantly during it. The other night I finally said wtf what do you like? Nothing no answer. She had absolutely no answer for me. Not trying to brag or nething like that but I never in my life had to ask a woman what the **** she liked so I could please her I just don't get it. I am actually going to give up on having sex with her it only pisses me off, I might as well just watch some internet porn, my left hand is more exciting then her.
The worst part of it all is I am a ****in sex addict. Naturally I resort to the occasional affair, I try not but god damn what else am I supposed to do. Watching porno and **** is okay every now and then but **** we all know the real thing is sooo much better.
I stay in the relationship because she is a great mother to our six year old girl and and my little baby has had a rough life with being born early fighting for her life, and fighting through everything doctors said she would not be able to accomplish. I do not want to put her through anymore ****, it tear her up not to have mommy and daddy together.
I guess I just needed to vent here for awhile.
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Thread: Cant Have Sex With My Wife!!!
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01-29-2009, 06:38 PM #1Registered User
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Cant Have Sex With My Wife!!!
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01-29-2009, 06:42 PM #2
Occasional affair?
Get out now.
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01-29-2009, 06:44 PM #3Leaning Out
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sit down and talk with her about it maybe? obviously you have been with her for a while and you should be able to trust her.........maybe you need to change or she needs to change something to feel in the mood, some spontaneity or whatever............
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01-29-2009, 06:44 PM #4Registered User
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I dont understand guys that have affairs with their wife (no white knight) but srsly.. i could understand for the sake of the kids, but still.. watching your parents fight all the time would fukc them up more. It's only gonna get worse
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01-29-2009, 06:46 PM #5Registered User
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**** man you do have a tough situation here. At first i would have just said go bang some other chick, but you have a kid so that complicates it...ahhh i dunno man...look up foods that make ppl horny and feed those to her and do everything possible to get her in the mood.Originally Posted by mdmass06
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01-29-2009, 06:46 PM #6Registered User
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Maybe she resents you for CHEATING on her.Originally Posted by mdmass06
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01-29-2009, 06:47 PM #7Registered User
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And you wonder why she doesn't want to have sex with you?? Women don't typically enjoy smelling the scent of another chick's v-hole on their man's d***Originally Posted by mdmass06
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01-29-2009, 06:47 PM #8Womanlet w/gunzz
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A marriage counselor could help. Srsly. Many types of medical insurance cover counseling/therapy. Also many counselors work on a sliding scale.
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01-29-2009, 06:48 PM #9I'm just sayin
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I've been through that with my wife, it's usually something bothering her or women just get that way. I'm not one to step out on my wife, so I asked her what the problem was. She gave me a answer so I corrected some of my stupid behaviour. I told her some stuff that she did to piss me off also. Most of the issues are worked out.
Our sex life is better than it was then when we were dating 9 yrs ago. Just work through the problems and be patient. Women are alot different then men. Good luck.
The more I read this it sounds like a troll post, it can't be real.Last edited by beermanj; 01-29-2009 at 06:51 PM.
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01-29-2009, 06:49 PM #10Registered User
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lolOriginally Posted by sirengrl1106
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01-29-2009, 06:49 PM #11Registered User
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sorry man
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01-29-2009, 06:50 PM #12Womanlet w/gunzz
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The stress of taking care of a special-needs child can play hell on a parent's sex drive. Just a thought.
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01-29-2009, 06:53 PM #13Registered User
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Do you...
A) Easy sex
B) Rough sex
C) Smooth sex
D) Love making sex
E) Dominate her
F) Fukk her like a pornstar
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01-29-2009, 06:55 PM #14Registered User
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Thanks everyone for the feedback so, that was fast.
Resentment could be a factor, although to my knowledge she does not know of any of the side action going on.
The good thing is that we do not really fight any more than any other couples. The only time we have our issues is in the bedroom. I should also add that this has only been going on since this last year our relationship (been together for 8).
Someone mention foods for like a aphrodisiac or something like that. Any specific suggestions?
Another thing is she could be depressed she has always been heavier but has put on quite a bit of weight. I have never once said anything about this as I have put on some weight too (although I am chipping away at it) and to be honest I am attracted to all body types as long as they are pretty and take care of themselves. Just no unsightly fat hanging over ankles type **** LOL!Native warrior on the streets and in the sheets.
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01-29-2009, 06:58 PM #15Registered User
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Originally Posted by sirengrl1106
I totally deserve that one. I knew I should have left that part out.Native warrior on the streets and in the sheets.
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Originally Posted by Grease Monkey
I guess a little bit of it all. It really depended on her reactions throughout, but lately I am getting nothing to work with.Native warrior on the streets and in the sheets.
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post nude pics of your wife and pics of the girls your banging
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Focus more on E/F and make that **** EXCITING for HER man.Originally Posted by mdmass06
Also, make your load like candy to her.
PINEAPPLE JUICE (no additives kind) just straight pineapple juice in the blue cans, and bananas.
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01-29-2009, 07:06 PM #19Registered User
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Originally Posted by Kevie Kev
Lol. Negative on the nude picc, dont have ne not really into thatNative warrior on the streets and in the sheets.
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01-29-2009, 07:08 PM #20Registered User
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Originally Posted by Grease Monkey
Pineapple juice that **** works huh. Alright.
Listen everyone. Thanks again. I'm gonna be going to the gym for a few now. Keep postin if anybody has nemore comments. I will catch up with y'all later.Native warrior on the streets and in the sheets.
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So you cheat on your wife?
You're a ****ing dirtbagNASM CPT
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01-29-2009, 07:10 PM #22Viet - Cong
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Originally Posted by mdmass06
Didn't the marriage vow say that you should love each other through good times and bad? Did you not know that she wasn't that into sex before marriage? Did you get married because you wanted to, or to prove to society that you could get married?
You sound like just another millionth man who picked some woman and randomly walked down the isle.
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01-29-2009, 07:15 PM #23Registered User
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Plain and Simple version............If she doesn't like it...........
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Originally Posted by Grease Monkey
I'd hardly think if he is having issues just having sex with his wife, she isn't going to all of a sudden wanna start gobbling his dick cause he ate some celery do you?I rep back 800+
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01-29-2009, 07:20 PM #25
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01-29-2009, 07:25 PM #26comfortably numb
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Sex addict (me too) I think she wants you to make love to her not to **** her .
Thats what I hear from time to time . lol
Also take her out somewhere and have a good time get her buzzed and she should loosen up .
Well Good Luck if you really want to make it work .
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Good Job Dumb MoronOriginally Posted by mdmass06
You better get used to seeing your "little baby" every other weekend. You just gave your wife evidence via internet thread.
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01-29-2009, 07:29 PM #28
sounds like she's having the same feelings as you. She's probably not sexually attracted anymore.
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01-29-2009, 07:31 PM #29
**** everybody in this thread... stupid mother****ers that never get any pussy.. let along pussy and pussy on the side.
my question for you is has the sex always been like this?
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01-29-2009, 07:32 PM #30Never pet a burning dog.
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How was this not realized before you got married?
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