How can all this info about getting women not make you rage?

[otakutrevan]

Its a sick evolutionary game. How can you honestly be with this girl and now at heart that she wouldn't be with you if you didnt play hard to get, other girls like you, status, or whatever retarded game tactic etc? She is essentially a materialistic succubus thing.

[wildchild11]

you badly need to get laid dude.

[DocHol1day]

Oh look, its this guy making another stupid fuking thread again. I regret I even clicked on relationship help. People like you are why I don't post much in this section. Just leave the forum. I hear WWW.imagiantfuking*******.com has a wonderful forum for guys like you. Quit dragging down the guys who actually want help and gtfo

[kkennedy91]

Man not all girls are like this lol. In the misc most guys go out and party because they are between the ages of 19-25. THat means bars. That means bar sluts. That means a big bundle of immature emotions with shaved axe wounds between their legs.

Status and wealth are obviously important to everyone, even subconsciously. It means security. It means that future generations are going to be safe and provided for. Therefore perpetuating the race. If you have a high social status it likely means you have lots of charisma, charm, probably good looks. This means that you are going to pass this on to future generations and so on and so forth.


What do men look for in women. Not much, but generally facial symmetrics (megan fox, olivia wilde...etc) hourglass figures, dat asssssss, dem tittays.....facial symetrics mean that your children are going to generally have good genes (assuming you do), we look for hourglass figures because that means more estrogen, which means that we can get em preggers easier.


Why would that disgust me? Its just natural selection and evolution at play.


Baby you and me ain't nothing but mammals...

[InfinityThor]

No need to be so serious.

I have fun, have sex and avoid any/all drama that comes with it.

Granted all my relationships last 3 months tops, got to love that honeymoon stage.

[SuperCell]

Its a sick evolutionary game. How can you honestly be with this girl and now at heart that she wouldn't be with you if you didnt play hard to get, other girls like you, status, or whatever retarded game tactic etc? She is essentially a materialistic succubus thing.

Well said.

It's a sick disgusting world. I've been with a few girls here and there, but I've accepted the fact that I may never have the relationship I long for. Lonliness may be inexcapable due to how shallow people really are.

Just look at all the "advice" given on here and just about everywhere else. You have to play games, be everything you're not, manipulate, plot and scheme. I'm not sure where "love" comes from, but it certainly doesn't come about from this type of nonsense.

I don't even care about getting laid. If I want sexual release, I can that at home watching porn and not have to spend a dime or play petty games.

For me the desire is to be with the right girl and have a relationship. However, wanting something like that will just get you labeled "gay" or "desperate", or "pathetic", even though most people eventually do enter into relationships. WTF is up with that?

It's a sick world and I'll be happier in death.

[Dr83]

Because what you're doing is OBVIOUSLY WORKING...

[Evolutionary1]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-defeating_prophecy = op

[HoneycombBandit]

OP, you're doing it wrong brah

[Evolutionary1]

Well said.

It's a sick disgusting world. I've been with a few girls here and there, but I've accepted the fact that I may never have the relationship I long for. Lonliness may be inexcapable due to how shallow people really are.

Just look at all the "advice" given on here and just about everywhere else. You have to play games, be everything you're not, manipulate, plot and scheme. I'm not sure where "love" comes from, but it certainly doesn't come about from this type of nonsense.

I don't even care about getting laid. If I want sexual release, I can that at home watching porn and not have to spend a dime or play petty games.

For me the desire is to be with the right girl and have a relationship. However, wanting something like that will just get you labeled "gay" or "desperate", or "pathetic", even though most people eventually do enter into relationships. WTF is up with that?

It's a sick world and I'll be happier in death.

"love" is a chemical cocktail released in your brain, that's it. i suggest you and the op check out the no fap thread

[kkennedy91]

"love" is a chemical cocktail released in your brain, that's it. i suggest you and the op check out the no fap thread

Dat dere oxytocin and dopamine. Tricks ya into reproducing. But I dunno man, I think "love" like actual love you don't see anymore like some of our parents and grandparents have, is the ability to accept the other persons faults and even find them amusing and to better yourself and them by being together. Will alot of us find that? Maybe, who knows.

[InfinityThor]

You have to play games, be everything you're not, manipulate, plot and scheme.

So just deal with it and make it enjoyable.

I just view it as a form of IRL trolling, it's pretty damn fun when you stop being so gloomy/end of the world about women.

[Evolutionary1]

Dat dere oxytocin and dopamine. Tricks ya into reproducing. But I dunno man, I think "love" like actual love you don't see anymore like some of our parents and grandparents have, is the ability to accept the other persons faults and even find them amusing and to better yourself and them by being together. Will alot of us find that? Maybe, who knows.

I think it all about compatibility, both parties understanding the honeymoon phase and how to deal with it.

[bdub69]

Dat dere oxytocin and dopamine. Tricks ya into reproducing. But I dunno man, I think "love" like actual love you don't see anymore like some of our parents and grandparents have, is the ability to accept the other persons faults and even find them amusing and to better yourself and them by being together. Will alot of us find that? Maybe, who knows.

Honestly, I think true "love" is sticking with a person no matter what. Not the fairytale disney bull****. The honeymoon stage only lasts for so long.

[otakutrevan]

you badly need to get laid dude.

That would be nice

Oh look, its this guy making another stupid fuking thread again. I regret I even clicked on relationship help. People like you are why I don't post much in this section. Just leave the forum. I hear WWW.imagiantfuking*******.com has a wonderful forum for guys like you. Quit dragging down the guys who actually want help and gtfo

Oh look its another person who doesnt know me irl that makes all these comments

Because what you're doing is OBVIOUSLY WORKING...

I'm aware dude.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-defeating_prophecy = op

at this point I guess so. I do talk to every girl new and with confidence though

OP, you're doing it wrong brah

Yep

[kkennedy91]

Honestly, I think true "love" is sticking with a person no matter what. Not the fairytale disney bull****. The honeymoon stage only lasts for so long.

Yea cuz of the chemicals in your brain brah. Thats what the honeymoon stage is.

Yea thats how my parents are. Had me at 20, been married for 20 years. Still going strong. They still hold hands in public and shiet. And kiss and stuff. Feels weird man.

[ThatBigSwole]

This tactic is basically for sex only. Thats not the type of girl you want a relationship with.

[bdub69]

Yea cuz of the chemicals in your brain brah. Thats what the honeymoon stage is.

Yea thats how my parents are. Had me at 20, been married for 20 years. Still going strong. They still hold hands in public and shiet. And kiss and stuff. Feels weird man.

Same here. My parents have been married for like 30 years and both grandparents 50+. I dont even...

[otakutrevan]

This tactic is basically for sex only. Thats not the type of girl you want a relationship with.

This misc seems to think you have to "game" those girls too. once they are hooked you can be "you" but until then you have to bee seen as a wanted,socially acceptable, confident, and etc guy. how does ANY of that affect the relationship? Its so ****ing stupid son. WHO CARES?! I cant even explain this emotion.

brb sorry girl not enough guys like you
brb sorry girl you're hobbies are looked down upon
brb sorry girl you arent playing hard to get

[kkennedy91]

Same here. My parents have been married for like 30 years and both grandparents 50+. I dont even...

My grandparents are on 70 years.... both 92 been married since 20. I listen to everything they say about relationships lol.

[Evolutionary1]

This misc seems to think you have to "game" those girls too. once they are hooked you can be "you" but until then you have to bee seen as a wanted,socially acceptable, confident, and etc guy. how does ANY of that affect the relationship? Its so ****ing stupid son. WHO CARES?! I cant even explain this emotion.

brb sorry girl not enough guys like you
brb sorry girl you're hobbies are looked down upon
brb sorry girl you arent playing hard to get

people are gonna stop helping you if you don't try to have a more positive and open mindset man. No one is going to hold your hand through each process of life

[xvicknumber7x]

This misc seems to think you have to "game" those girls too. once they are hooked you can be "you" but until then you have to bee seen as a wanted,socially acceptable, confident, and etc guy. how does ANY of that affect the relationship? Its so ****ing stupid son. WHO CARES?! I cant even explain this emotion.

brb sorry girl not enough guys like you
brb sorry girl you're hobbies are looked down upon
brb sorry girl you arent playing hard to get

Dude... this is the part you don't get.

WE DON'T ACT THAT WAY! WE ARE THIS WAY! WE ARE WELL LIKED, CONFIDENT, AND SOCIALLY ACCEPTED. There is no act! This is how we identify that you lack these qualities and are not ready for a relationship!

[kkennedy91]

Dude... this is the part you don't get.

WE DON'T ACT THAT WAY! WE ARE THIS WAY! WE ARE WELL LIKED, CONFIDENT, AND SOCIALLY ACCEPTED. There is no act! This is how we identify that you lack these qualities and are not ready for a relationship!

Like I wish these guys were in front of me so I could just scream it at them...


YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO CHANGE YOURSELF!!

[John$Galt]

You're a ****ing pussy ***got who will never get laid. Ever. Thank god your ***got genes won't be passed on.

Stop whining its pathetic.

[Juztin967]

Its a sick evolutionary game. How can you honestly be with this girl and now at heart that she wouldn't be with you if you didnt play hard to get, other girls like you, status, or whatever retarded game tactic etc? She is essentially a materialistic succubus thing.

Well said.

It's a sick disgusting world. I've been with a few girls here and there, but I've accepted the fact that I may never have the relationship I long for. Lonliness may be inexcapable due to how shallow people really are.

Just look at all the "advice" given on here and just about everywhere else. You have to play games, be everything you're not, manipulate, plot and scheme. I'm not sure where "love" comes from, but it certainly doesn't come about from this type of nonsense.

I don't even care about getting laid. If I want sexual release, I can that at home watching porn and not have to spend a dime or play petty games.

For me the desire is to be with the right girl and have a relationship. However, wanting something like that will just get you labeled "gay" or "desperate", or "pathetic", even though most people eventually do enter into relationships. WTF is up with that?

It's a sick world and I'll be happier in death.

I posted this in a thread I created two days ago, it more or less agrees with these posts.

I can't stand reading all the postings and writing on this forum about women sensing insecurity, negativity, nervousness, beta-ness, "picking up" on things that men try to hide, WITHIN THE FIRST MEETING OR SO!! I can understand if someone is a nervous wreck/wearing their emotions on their sleeve, and seeing that, but if it's not obvious, THEN IT ISN'T! Okay, when we try, WE FUKKING TRY. We make sure to do our homework by putting on a good outfit/look for the night, work on our confidence by thinking positive thoughts, reminding ourselves that the girl agreed to go out too, greeting with a hug/kiss (whatever may be appropriate) and anything else that we thought of and may have practiced, and she is probably nervous to some extent as well. But for her to "sense nervousness, insecurity, negativity" "a mile away," UNLESS COMPLETELY OUT ON THE TABLE, I think it is utter and complete BULL SHIZZLES! When men want to meet women, they try to better themselves and give the women reasons to want to be around them. I feel like I am walking on eggshells with every woman I meet to try to be doing/saying the right things. I can't help but think I am not being alpha enough or showing too much insecurity, if any, or whatever the case may be. I think some parts of this forum have completely brainwashed and mindfukked me. Yea, my alpha male may suck and I might not be "mysterious/challenging" enough for women to fall over me and want to have to "fix" what they think is wrong with me, but I still try. Women aren't magical wizards or prophets or fukking Adjustment Bureau staff here to try to intimidate us and ruin our worlds. They're just simple human beings. To quote a line from The Book of Eli, "He's just a man."

To all you brahs out there who can relate, "They're just human beings."

[otakutrevan]

people are gonna stop helping you if you don't try to have a more positive and open mindset man. No one is going to hold your hand through each process of life

I do. I try. Rejection. repeat. Sorry Im not some upbeat delusion guy man.

[kkennedy91]

I do. I try. Rejection. repeat. Sorry Im not some upbeat delusion guy man.

What happens in a typical date? You just walking up to randoms and spitting game or what?

[otakutrevan]

What happens in a typical date? You just walking up to randoms and spitting game or what?

Pursue girl. Not thanks for xyz reasons
Pursue girl. Girl is interested. Girl becomes flakey and ignores

Thats about how it usually goes.

[Evolutionary1]

I do. I try. Rejection. repeat. Sorry Im not some confident guy man.

fixed. i think this will be my last post trying to help you man

[otakutrevan]

fixed. i think this will be my last post trying to help you man

Must I put a camera in my shirt for you?