I'm a girl, my man wants a finger in the butt

[kalagan]

pm Kalagan on this one.

LOL...you fuker !

[GREENFEATHER]

Now I have a question, flip it around completely. I had attempted doing this to my girlfriend during sex and she stopped me. She said it felt weird. So basically how could I approach in the future to get her more open to this? My intentions were that if she became comfortable with the finger she may be open to anal sex in the future.

Start out by talking to her about it first bro, without an open communication link, you don't have a chance. Start out by rubbing her ass first and see how she likes it. When you touch her butt, it's going to tense for a second, then relax, that's the reason I said start by rubbing. You could even try licking her ass to see how she reacts. Get a shower together if possible and wash her and yourself well . If you just try jamming a finger in her ass, you're going to fal every time. Go slow and easy, don't get fancy in there, just in and out or just stick it in and leave t still until she gets used to it.

[blueadept33]

how do people know it feels good? Because I wash my ****ing ******* in addition to the rest of my body to get clean and it feels kind of good. I don't like things in it, but getting it licked feels good. I probably would try it with someone who was open about it but otherwise no. Last girl I dated abused the **** out of me, scratches everywhere, bad stinging ones, and when I was passed out she tried to put a tampon up there, and I woke up and just from the attempt it hurt like hell. I can definetely see this being enjoyable, just had bad experiences and someone trying to force something in, ugh.

[nognig]

Last girl I dated abused the **** out of me, scratches everywhere, bad stinging ones, and when I was passed out she tried to put a tampon up there, and I woke up and just from the attempt it hurt like hell.

Mother of God! I thought I had heard of everything....

NN

[buttercup21]

when I was passed out she tried to put a tampon up there.

What the hell kind of girl does that?!!! Im strictly drawing the line at fingers.

[user23960508710783]

What the hell kind of girl does that?!!! Im strictly drawing the line at fingers.

Wait a second -- I noticed that you said "fingers" as opposed to "finger" -- is this a new development?

Just how much stuff does this guy want shoved up in there?

Listen, I'm an open minded guy, but I seriously think you should draw the line at two fingers! And not a bit more!

[gogz]

cool 2 see this still going lol. Have you done it yet?

[Lavrik_AK]

Now this is what I was thinking, but I really dont believe he's gay or even bi. And a couple of posts up, one guy said most guys think about a finger in the butt at some point. Right?????

True. The only prob is guys that are afraid to experiment, because even though it will feel good, they might catch teh ghey... even from a GIRL!! Lol.

To all you guys that are so uptight in the bedroom: Don't be such a puss...

[ElMariachi]

Its prostate stimulation.

It has nothing to do with being gay. I haven't done it but its not a gay act.

Don't listen to most of the people here; most of them have yet to be acknowledged by women other than their relatives.

Just randomly trolling and this made me bust out laughing

[WCC]

how do people know it feels good? Because I wash my ****ing ******* in addition to the rest of my body to get clean and it feels kind of good. I don't like things in it, but getting it licked feels good. I probably would try it with someone who was open about it but otherwise no. Last girl I dated abused the **** out of me, scratches everywhere, bad stinging ones, and when I was passed out she tried to put a tampon up there, and I woke up and just from the attempt it hurt like hell. I can definetely see this being enjoyable, just had bad experiences and someone trying to force something in, ugh.

i'm with you on this one - i also wash this area, so i understand what you're saying.

Wait a second -- I noticed that you said "fingers" as opposed to "finger" -- is this a new development?

Just how much stuff does this guy want shoved up in there?

Listen, I'm an open minded guy, but I seriously think you should draw the line at two fingers! And not a bit more!

LOL, very observant.
i agree with you on this one - things like this can develop. first it's one finger, then two, then a few weeks down the line a footlong dildo.

[shiv15]

Start out by talking to her about it first bro, without an open communication link, you don't have a chance. Start out by rubbing her ass first and see how she likes it. When you touch her butt, it's going to tense for a second, then relax, that's the reason I said start by rubbing. You could even try licking her ass to see how she reacts. Get a shower together if possible and wash her and yourself well . If you just try jamming a finger in her ass, you're going to fal every time. Go slow and easy, don't get fancy in there, just in and out or just stick it in and leave t still until she gets used to it.

good advice thanks. it's hard once you piitb once you want to do it again. damn unwillingness.

[buttercup21]

cool 2 see this still going lol. Have you done it yet?

Tomorrow is the PITTB day . Im a little bit nervous but hopefully if i remember some of the tips on here, it will run smoothly (no pun intended).

[buttercup21]

Wait a second -- I noticed that you said "fingers" as opposed to "finger" -- is this a new development?

Just how much stuff does this guy want shoved up in there?

Listen, I'm an open minded guy, but I seriously think you should draw the line at two fingers! And not a bit more!

Lol yeah just the one finger to start with. not sure which finger will be the lucky one yet though, hence the plural.

[Aramosc76]

Wat if the dude was really just joking? just think hes gettin a blowjob and all of a sudden he has 2 fingers up his ass, then he'll know what the shovel was for haha

[buttercup21]

Wat if the dude was really just joking? just think hes gettin a blowjob and all of a sudden he has 2 fingers up his ass, then he'll know what the shovel was for haha

Lol. Well, at least I got the strong impression he was serious....

I might check first though and just say something like "baby, would you like me to do that thing you asked for". You think?

[pay tribute]

My bf wants me to stick a finger up his A hole as I give him a bj. I just laughed it off and said "oh maybe later" but I think he's serious. Any tips or thoughts? Any of you guys experienced this? Please share and discuss.

He may just want to release a fecal blast on your hand, sounds like a trap

[buttercup21]

He may just want to release a fecal blast on your hand, sounds like a trap

niiiiiice. Thank you for the thought.

[pay tribute]

Lol, i was just warning you..

[user23960508710783]

Lol. Well, at least I got the strong impression he was serious....

I might check first though and just say something like "baby, would you like me to do that thing you asked for". You think?

I think that's the perfect strategy. I think the real question is what sort of psychological disposition he is looking for on your part to accompany the actual physical act.

In other words, does he want this to be something that is aggressive and dominating? Or something that is slow and gentle? Or is the mere physical process enough in itself to render the psychological baggage a moot point?

[ltfootball78]

Piitb!

[JonZ]

My ass is exit only.

Hes gay

[newz-]

how do people know it feels good? Because I wash my ****ing ******* in addition to the rest of my body to get clean and it feels kind of good. I don't like things in it, but getting it licked feels good. I probably would try it with someone who was open about it but otherwise no. Last girl I dated abused the **** out of me, scratches everywhere, bad stinging ones, and when I was passed out she tried to put a tampon up there, and I woke up and just from the attempt it hurt like hell. I can definetely see this being enjoyable, just had bad experiences and someone trying to force something in, ugh.

wow that sucks bro

for me, ex-gf tried it twice totally wasnt into it. Met up with a freak though and she pressed her finger in deep too just as i was about to nut and it was crazy, almost collapsed i was seeing stars for like a minute. One of the best orgasms ive had

[06Starter]

Wow strong insecurity.

You all saying he is gay are obviously insecure, how is it gay? Get a f*cking dictionary, homosexual acts involve two men. If a girl offered to give me a rimjob or stick a finger up there, i'd be like "fair play." I would let a girl I was f*cking in a new york minute. Its kinky, when you ones who are saying it gay want to PIITB with a girl have you ever thought, that is not a natural oraphous (sp?)

[buttercup21]

Wow strong insecurity.

You all saying he is gay are obviously insecure, how is it gay? Get a f*cking dictionary, homosexual acts involve two men. If a girl offered to give me a rimjob or stick a finger up there, i'd be like "fair play." I would let a girl I was f*cking in a new york minute. Its kinky, when you ones who are saying it gay want to PIITB with a girl have you ever thought, that is not a natural oraphous (sp?)

Very true. Although when he asked my first thought was "why". He isnt gay though, having thought about it I think the thought just makes him horny and im willing to please. But we will find out soon....

[buttercup21]

wow that sucks bro

for me, ex-gf tried it twice totally wasnt into it. Met up with a freak though and she pressed her finger in deep too just as i was about to nut and it was crazy, almost collapsed i was seeing stars for like a minute. One of the best orgasms ive had

hmm good to know, what was her technique?

[buttercup21]

So I did the finger in the ass thing. I used plenty of lube and managed the one finger during the bj although i had to play around a bit first to get familiar with the area and "warm him up" a bit. He shot one of the biggest loads ive ever experienced which i guess is a good sign! Think we might try it again i felt good doing it and he definately enjoyed it. Thanks for all your help guys.

[IronMan316]

So I did the finger in the ass thing. I used plenty of lube and managed the one finger during the bj although i had to play around a bit first to get familiar with the area and "warm him up" a bit. He shot one of the biggest loads ive ever experienced which i guess is a good sign! Think we might try it again i felt good doing it and he definately enjoyed it. Thanks for all your help guys.

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[WCC]

Wow strong insecurity.

You all saying he is gay are obviously insecure, how is it gay? Get a f*cking dictionary, homosexual acts involve two men. If a girl offered to give me a rimjob or stick a finger up there, i'd be like "fair play." I would let a girl I was f*cking in a new york minute. Its kinky, when you ones who are saying it gay want to PIITB with a girl have you ever thought, that is not a natural oraphous (sp?)

nice post man.
lol, yeah i've noticed that too. it's ironic how they're saying this **** when so many of them love to have anal sex with girls. surely that'd be gay, no?

[IronMan316]

nice post man.
lol, yeah i've noticed that too. it's ironic how they're saying this **** when so many of them love to have anal sex with girls. surely that'd be gay, no?

Well that doesn't involve a MANs ass-hole now does it?

[TwiloMike]

Well that doesn't involve a MANs ass-hole now does it?

Gayness would involve a man other than yourself... so no, it doesn't involve the ass-hole of a man required to make it a gay act anymore than giving yourself a handjob makes it a gay act just because it involves a MANs dick.