I'm a girl, my man wants a finger in the butt

[WCC]

The anus has thousands of nerve endings and it is very common for guys to like a finger up the ass. It isn't my thing but it by no means is gay.

exactly.
saying that anal stimulation is gay is about as logical as saying handjobs, blowjobs and anal sex with a girl is gay - it's f*cking ridiculous.

gay = homosexual = sexual attraction to members of the same sex - you can't be gay if you're not attracted to other men.

whilst i don't get off over that kind of stuff, i respect that some people do - the immaturity and insecurity of some of the users on here pisses me off. grow up.

[buttercup21]

exactly.
saying that anal stimulation is gay is about as logical as saying handjobs, blowjobs and anal sex with a girl is gay - it's f*cking ridiculous.

gay = homosexual = sexual attraction to members of the same sex - you can't be gay if you're not attracted to other men.

whilst i don't get off over that kind of stuff, i respect that some people do - the immaturity and insecurity of some of the users on here pisses me off. grow up.

I've got to say that from a lot of your posts I've read, you are one very mature 17 year old, its nice to see.

I agree by the way, my bf is not gay he's just very open minded and i feel quite lucky that we're open enough about sex that he can ask me for something like this, especially considering the response about it being "gay" from some of you.

I've decided to give this ol' finger in the ass thing a try btw....So any more tips?

Have any of you men had in finger in the butt before? Anyone gonna admit it and share their experience????

[bunbury]

[bshow18]

Rubber gloves? Errm, I wasnt expecting to have to use such things, might kind of kill the moment? I know what that hole is used for but I was kind of hoping it wouldnt be that bad...Is this a bad idea?

haha whatever you doooo donnnttt do it. please.......thats like abnormal no no no . NO n-o spells no. just blow it off like you did,.

[XBlasphemyX]

There's really nothing wrong with it. I personally find it disgusting, but sexual acts are just sexual acts. A finger in the butthole stimulates the male g-spot, which happens to be in the rectum...near the prostate gland. I remember a story about one of my old friends from high school...he liked a finger in the butt while he masturbated. Not my cup of tea, but if you don't feel like sticking your finger in his ass-hole tell HIM to do it to himself.

[buttercup21]

haha whatever you doooo donnnttt do it. please.......thats like abnormal no no no . NO n-o spells no. just blow it off like you did,.

Whys that? Do you have any bad personal experiences with this? Basically im all for it if its going to get him off and he's gonna get pleasure from it, but my concerns are dont want to hurt him and yeah, the shi.t that might be involved...

[XBlasphemyX]

Whys that? Do you have any bad personal experiences with this? Basically im all for it if its going to get him off and he's gonna get pleasure from it, but my concerns are dont want to hurt him and yeah, the shi.t that might be involved...

No, it won't hurt him at all. Think about it...most poop is thicker than a finger. Obviously, don't be too rough, but it shouldn't hurt him.

[buttercup21]

if you don't feel like sticking your finger in his ass-hole tell HIM to do it to himself.

I want to do it to please him plus he wants a bj at the same time, not just PIITB and nothing on the side

[XBlasphemyX]

I want to do it to please him plus he wants a bj at the same time, not just PIITB and nothing on the side

Well, it might take some practice at first, but if it's OK with you, then do it to him.

[WCC]

No, it won't hurt him at all. Think about it...most poop is thicker than a finger. Obviously, don't be too rough, but it shouldn't hurt him.

not really.
yes, **** is longer and thicker than a lot of things, but remember that the anus isn't designed to recieve objects - anal penetration is unnatural, so you want to take care if you're going to stick anything up there.
talk to anyone who's had anal sex and they'll tell you that it's very painful if you don't do it right.

[GREENFEATHER]

OK guys, you do realize that your orgasms originate from the prostate right? Buttercup, go ahead and do it, it doesn't mean he's gay or going to be gay, it just feels good. Poop washes off. Just go easy at first and use teh lube. You also don't need to go deep to reach his prostate, right inside and press upwards towards his scrotum. Do be forewarned, if you're not into swallowing, you're going to be getting a lot more semen than normal because of the stimulation of his prostate.

If you're not into letting him put his finger up your butt, try an anal plug, they're smoother and you might enjoy it more. There are quite a few women that like anal stimulation as well. Butt plugs come in all types of sizes, check eBay or blowfish.com for toys. You may find that your rectum being filled puts more pressure on your G-spot making your orgasms more intense.

If you guys would spend more time trying to please your partners, you'd be knee deep in nookie. Women talk and if they pass along good things, you're more likely to score than if you're known as the guy that always trys to PIITB . They'll also be more willing to try different things with you, including letting you PIITB.

REPS for some of you when I recharge, I'm outta bullets right now. WCC, buttercup, xblashemy and jean-paul

[user23960508710783]

I want to do it to please him plus he wants a bj at the same time, not just PIITB and nothing on the side

Has anyone told you yet about the "come hither" motion?

[flexmuscles2003]

Surprise him with a dildo.

[XBlasphemyX]

not really.
yes, **** is longer and thicker than a lot of things, but remember that the anus isn't designed to recieve objects - anal penetration is unnatural, so you want to take care if you're going to stick anything up there.
talk to anyone who's had anal sex and they'll tell you that it's very painful if you don't do it right.

That's why I said it might take practice, and to be gentle at first.

[user178944]

ive herad it feels good...you should do it to please your bf

[WCC]

I've got to say that from a lot of your posts I've read, you are one very mature 17 year old, its nice to see.

thanks.

I've decided to give this ol' finger in the ass thing a try btw....So any more tips?

try using the same technique you'd use to finger yourself. i'd imagine that'd be the best way, since the prostate is similar to the G-spot in terms of location. around 2.5" up, roughly the same size, and located on the upper wall of the rectum.

Have any of you men had in finger in the butt before? Anyone gonna admit it and share their experience????

tried it, but it's not really my thing TBH. some guys like it, others don't - i personally didn't find it pleasurable.


Don't know why your quote of the other member showed up as your own words btw. FORGE3.

[buttercup21]

OK guys, you do realize that your orgasms originate from the prostate right? Buttercup, go ahead and do it, it doesn't mean he's gay or going to be gay, it just feels good. Poop washes off. Just go easy at first and use teh lube. You also don't need to go deep to reach his prostate, right inside and press upwards towards his scrotum. Do be forewarned, if you're not into swallowing, you're going to be getting a lot more semen than normal because of the stimulation of his prostate.

If you're not into letting him put his finger up your butt, try an anal plug, they're smoother and you might enjoy it more. There are quite a few women that like anal stimulation as well. Butt plugs come in all types of sizes, check eBay or blowfish.com for toys. You may find that your rectum being filled puts more pressure on your G-spot making your orgasms more intense.

If you guys would spend more time trying to please your partners, you'd be knee deep in nookie. Women talk and if they pass along good things, you're more likely to score than if you're known as the guy that always trys to PIITB . They'll also be more willing to try different things with you, including letting you PIITB.

REPS for some of you when I recharge, I'm outta bullets right now. WCC, buttercup, xblashemy and jean-paul

Thanks, great post I found this really useful. Lol at the cum thing Ill bear that in mind lucky for me Im a trooper for swallowing though

[buttercup21]

Surprise him with a dildo.

That would be a whole other thread me thinks.

[buttercup21]

Has anyone told you yet about the "come hither" motion?

yeah ive had it done to me and it feels good. Am I doing it with the forefinger or the middle finger though or does it not matter? This would feel good right?

[user23960508710783]

yeah ive had it done to me and it feels good. Am I doing it with the forefinger or the middle finger though or does it not matter? This would feel good right?

Whichever finger you think you could use the best.

So when are you going to get down to business and do this? And will you tell us what happened when you do? And will you please remember that snow shovel? AND the goggles!

[Yoda200sx]

Ok, well from the responses so far Im thinking I should give it a go and just see how he responds to what I do. Any more tips, apart from short nails and lots of lube?

Start off from just under his nads, and work your way to there eventually, tease him just like we tease you before we go down on you... (no homo)

I can't say that i've had this done to me yet, nor have I really thought about it, but then again I have had some chicks almost do it, but I think they realized i wasn't up for it and backed off hehe... (again no homo)

If hes asked for it, give it a go... piitb!

If you want to make sure he is nice and clean, make him do like a detox thing, or take a laxative.... (coloxyl will work... or if you want him really cleaned out, try picoprep)

[SiNiStEr94]

Just don't smell or lick your finger after you're done and you should be fine. (No homo, No previous experience)

[drstrangepimp]

My bf wants me to stick a finger up his A hole as I give him a bj. I just laughed it off and said "oh maybe later" but I think he's serious. Any tips or thoughts? Any of you guys experienced this? Please share and discuss.

Tell him you will only do it with a pink strapon. Then take pictures and tell everyone he knows and hold an intervention with his family.

That's called "tough love".

[Slayer_Apostle]

Its prostate stimulation.

It has nothing to do with being gay. I haven't done it but its not a gay act.

Don't listen to most of the people here; most of them have yet to be acknowledged by women other than their relatives.

exactly! If you knew you could get more stimulation by a finger up the butt wouldnt you do it?

[shiv15]

Now I have a question, flip it around completely. I had attempted doing this to my girlfriend during sex and she stopped me. She said it felt weird. So basically how could I approach in the future to get her more open to this? My intentions were that if she became comfortable with the finger she may be open to anal sex in the future.

[R-bean]

Oh man, this is like the twilight version of PIITB or something.

[buttercup21]

Whichever finger you think you could use the best.

So when are you going to get down to business and do this? And will you tell us what happened when you do? And will you please remember that snow shovel? AND the goggles!

Next time I see him will be Valentines day so I guess ill be doing it then. Of course I will let you guys know how it goes. Thanks everyone for the advice. Wish me luck....!

[buttercup21]

Now I have a question, flip it around completely. I had attempted doing this to my girlfriend during sex and she stopped me. She said it felt weird. So basically how could I approach in the future to get her more open to this? My intentions were that if she became comfortable with the finger she may be open to anal sex in the future.

I've had the butt hole played with before, just when bf has gone down on me he started doing it nad as I was shall we say quite relaxed and very horny, I pretty much let him do what he wanted. But no actuall PIITB with penis yet. It does feel strange if youre not used to it thouhg, but its not unpleasant, it just takes getting used to. Just get her really horny and relaxed and make sure she's completely comfortable with you, like there's no rush and you dont care about shi.t and stuff even if you do.

[Taw]

you shld try the 'belt'
it has a dildo attached....
otherwise get a 'butt plug'...

[Thatman]

Now this is what I was thinking, but I really dont believe he's gay or even bi. And a couple of posts up, one guy said most guys think about a finger in the butt at some point. Right?????

huh huh yep they do.











































































































Only the gay ones.